WEBVTT 00:01:05.336 --> 00:01:06.336 align:center Oops. 00:01:23.146 --> 00:01:24.146 align:center Hello? 00:01:25.356 --> 00:01:26.356 align:center Hello? 00:01:57.263 --> 00:01:58.263 align:center Hi. 00:02:00.975 --> 00:02:02.135 align:center Mm. 00:02:02.143 --> 00:02:03.143 align:center How late can we go? 00:02:04.062 --> 00:02:06.392 align:center I don't know. 00:02:06.397 --> 00:02:07.887 align:center Do we have to go? 00:02:07.899 --> 00:02:08.729 align:center No. 00:02:08.733 --> 00:02:09.733 align:center Oh! 00:02:10.693 --> 00:02:11.693 align:center You're lying. 00:02:12.737 --> 00:02:13.737 align:center I am. 00:02:15.573 --> 00:02:16.573 align:center I am. 00:02:29.545 --> 00:02:31.625 align:center Monster bubbles! 00:02:34.550 --> 00:02:36.050 align:center I think he wants you. 00:02:49.941 --> 00:02:53.471 align:center ♪ Now I am singing so beautifully ♪ 00:02:54.904 --> 00:02:56.484 align:center Oh, Mommy's funny. 00:03:01.077 --> 00:03:03.817 align:center It's like she has a mustache right under her nose. 00:03:03.830 --> 00:03:04.670 align:center She does? 00:03:04.664 --> 00:03:06.324 align:center Yeah. 00:03:06.332 --> 00:03:07.992 align:center I think she has really big lips. 00:03:20.763 --> 00:03:21.593 align:center Hey! 00:03:21.597 --> 00:03:23.467 align:center Tom, just want to say congratulations. 00:03:23.474 --> 00:03:24.304 align:center Thank you. 00:03:24.308 --> 00:03:25.388 align:center Yeah, only 10 years of purgatory, right? 00:03:25.393 --> 00:03:26.473 align:center Oh, right. 00:03:26.477 --> 00:03:27.307 align:center My brother-in-law, Greg. 00:03:27.311 --> 00:03:28.141 align:center Hey. 00:03:28.146 --> 00:03:28.976 align:center Hi, nice to see you. 00:03:28.980 --> 00:03:29.820 align:center I think Jake's like twice the size 00:03:29.814 --> 00:03:30.644 align:center he was at Christmas. 00:03:30.648 --> 00:03:31.478 align:center Oh, yeah. 00:03:31.482 --> 00:03:33.222 align:center You know, we should really stop feeding him. 00:03:35.778 --> 00:03:36.938 align:center Come on, enjoy yourself. 00:03:36.946 --> 00:03:38.736 align:center Corinne, my daughter, Alex. 00:03:38.740 --> 00:03:39.580 align:center Hi, nice to meet you. 00:03:39.574 --> 00:03:40.564 align:center Um, sorry... 00:03:40.575 --> 00:03:42.115 align:center She worked with Paul Schuster from the 00:03:42.118 --> 00:03:45.158 align:center Public Defender's office, you remember Paul. 00:03:45.163 --> 00:03:46.573 align:center And it turns out before that, 00:03:46.581 --> 00:03:49.111 align:center she and your brother overlapped at Fordham, 00:03:49.125 --> 00:03:49.985 align:center but they never met. 00:03:50.001 --> 00:03:51.361 align:center Oh, how funny. 00:03:51.377 --> 00:03:52.997 align:center You must be so proud. 00:03:53.004 --> 00:03:55.964 align:center I heard he's the youngest partner in the firm's history? 00:03:55.965 --> 00:03:57.425 align:center Well, he's always been driven. 00:03:57.425 --> 00:03:58.835 align:center What can I say? 00:03:58.843 --> 00:04:00.293 align:center And you're an attorney as well? 00:04:00.303 --> 00:04:01.713 align:center Uh, no. 00:04:01.721 --> 00:04:02.551 align:center I mean, I was. 00:04:02.555 --> 00:04:04.925 align:center But I stopped practicing when I had my son. 00:04:04.932 --> 00:04:06.792 align:center Thank God for the women's movement. 00:04:06.809 --> 00:04:09.059 align:center She'll go back, trust me. 00:04:09.061 --> 00:04:10.391 align:center Oh, is this you? 00:04:10.396 --> 00:04:11.396 align:center Oh, Jesus. 00:04:12.607 --> 00:04:13.727 align:center What? 00:04:13.733 --> 00:04:14.643 align:center It's adorable! 00:04:14.650 --> 00:04:16.320 align:center Oh, she was so good. 00:04:16.319 --> 00:04:18.739 align:center Now, if she had stuck to it, can you imagine? 00:04:18.738 --> 00:04:20.858 align:center She's got the natural pose, the natural arch. 00:04:20.865 --> 00:04:23.325 align:center Look at that, slim legs, everything she needed. 00:04:23.326 --> 00:04:24.406 align:center Gave up. 00:04:24.410 --> 00:04:25.370 align:center What can you do? 00:04:25.369 --> 00:04:26.709 align:center Can't push, push, push. 00:04:26.704 --> 00:04:28.164 align:center Gotta let go, right? 00:04:28.164 --> 00:04:29.164 align:center Right? 00:04:30.082 --> 00:04:31.072 align:center She's humble. 00:04:31.083 --> 00:04:33.323 align:center Ha, where'd she get that? 00:04:33.336 --> 00:04:34.336 align:center Thank you. 00:04:35.755 --> 00:04:37.215 align:center And where are you guys applying? 00:04:37.215 --> 00:04:38.205 align:center Oh, boy. 00:04:38.216 --> 00:04:39.376 align:center What? 00:04:39.383 --> 00:04:41.663 align:center Well, we loved our local public school, 00:04:41.677 --> 00:04:43.887 align:center but it just got rezoned. 00:04:43.888 --> 00:04:44.718 align:center No! 00:04:44.722 --> 00:04:46.632 align:center It'll be fine. 00:04:46.641 --> 00:04:47.551 align:center The whole reason we moved and 00:04:47.558 --> 00:04:49.048 align:center now they won't let us send him. 00:04:49.060 --> 00:04:50.520 align:center I swear, if Pembrooke hadn't discovered 00:04:50.520 --> 00:04:52.860 align:center that Kimmy had perfect pitch halfway through her interview, 00:04:52.855 --> 00:04:56.065 align:center which, mind you, we didn't even know 00:04:56.067 --> 00:04:57.307 align:center I mean, just forget it. 00:05:05.034 --> 00:05:06.524 align:center Dizzy! 00:05:06.536 --> 00:05:07.366 align:center Dizzy! 00:05:07.370 --> 00:05:08.290 align:center Oh! 00:05:08.287 --> 00:05:09.617 align:center Honk, honk! 00:05:09.622 --> 00:05:10.902 align:center Wait, come back! 00:05:10.915 --> 00:05:11.955 align:center But I must go. 00:05:11.958 --> 00:05:13.448 align:center Please don't go! 00:05:14.794 --> 00:05:16.874 align:center That's when you say, "I don't even know your name." 00:05:16.879 --> 00:05:18.419 align:center But I do know your name. 00:05:18.422 --> 00:05:20.532 align:center That's not how it goes. 00:05:20.550 --> 00:05:24.720 align:center Well, maybe Mommy was improvising! 00:05:24.720 --> 00:05:26.470 align:center Maybe she was improvising! 00:05:34.814 --> 00:05:36.644 align:center My sister-in-law comes from serious money. 00:05:36.649 --> 00:05:38.769 align:center I swear, all she does is shop for the kid. 00:05:38.776 --> 00:05:40.646 align:center Meanwhile, I'm lucky if I can get Jake 00:05:40.653 --> 00:05:42.763 align:center out of his pajama bottoms half the time. 00:05:42.780 --> 00:05:44.280 align:center He likes to be comfortable. 00:05:44.282 --> 00:05:46.142 align:center Hell, I'd do the same thing if I could 00:05:46.158 --> 00:05:47.318 align:center get away with it. 00:05:47.326 --> 00:05:48.786 align:center You think the other parents would mind? 00:05:48.786 --> 00:05:51.196 align:center Their preschool director in a tracksuit? 00:05:51.205 --> 00:05:52.615 align:center You would look hot in a tracksuit. 00:05:52.623 --> 00:05:55.493 align:center You are such a liar. 00:05:55.501 --> 00:05:58.531 align:center But, you know, is that even what I want for Jake? 00:05:58.546 --> 00:06:00.836 align:center A private school full of Kimmys? 00:06:00.840 --> 00:06:03.130 align:center Even if we could afford it, which we can't. 00:06:03.134 --> 00:06:03.994 align:center Honey, honey. 00:06:04.010 --> 00:06:06.220 align:center We're just talking options right now, 00:06:06.220 --> 00:06:07.430 align:center casting a wide net. 00:06:07.430 --> 00:06:08.390 align:center Here you go, ladies. 00:06:08.389 --> 00:06:09.219 align:center Thank you. 00:06:09.223 --> 00:06:10.463 align:center Uh-uh, uh-uh, I got this. 00:06:10.474 --> 00:06:11.424 align:center No, no. 00:06:11.434 --> 00:06:12.264 align:center Okay? 00:06:12.268 --> 00:06:14.728 align:center You just get me the essay by Thursday, no excuses. 00:06:19.567 --> 00:06:20.567 align:center Sandra? 00:06:21.402 --> 00:06:22.232 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:06:22.236 --> 00:06:23.396 align:center Come on back. 00:06:34.999 --> 00:06:38.419 align:center I should probably warn you, I'm not sure I buy it. 00:06:38.419 --> 00:06:41.759 align:center This, I mean, was um, Ben's idea. 00:06:43.132 --> 00:06:44.162 align:center Ben's my husband. 00:06:47.762 --> 00:06:49.962 align:center For now. 00:06:51.307 --> 00:06:53.137 align:center How long ago did he move out? 00:06:54.226 --> 00:06:55.466 align:center Six days ago. 00:06:55.478 --> 00:06:57.018 align:center Yeah, he found a temporary place. 00:06:58.439 --> 00:07:00.899 align:center He says he'll do marriage counseling, 00:07:00.900 --> 00:07:05.490 align:center but only if I work on me first. 00:07:08.741 --> 00:07:10.441 align:center Suddenly, he's Dr. Phil. 00:07:22.922 --> 00:07:24.082 align:center Can I ask, how does this work? 00:07:24.090 --> 00:07:26.630 align:center I just sit here and talk and... 00:07:26.634 --> 00:07:29.844 align:center It seems like it's important for you to have a plan. 00:07:46.195 --> 00:07:49.735 align:center That what I have to look forward to? 00:07:52.660 --> 00:07:55.000 align:center A rich man's wife became sick 00:07:55.871 --> 00:07:59.071 align:center and when she felt that her end was drawing near, 00:07:59.083 --> 00:08:01.693 align:center she called her only daughter to her bedside 00:08:01.711 --> 00:08:05.621 align:center and said, "Dear child, remain good." 00:08:05.631 --> 00:08:08.331 align:center The girl went out to her mother's grave every day 00:08:08.342 --> 00:08:09.702 align:center and wept. 00:08:09.719 --> 00:08:12.339 align:center When winter came, the snow spread white cloth 00:08:12.346 --> 00:08:14.006 align:center over the grave 00:08:14.015 --> 00:08:17.345 align:center and when the spring sun had removed it again, 00:08:17.351 --> 00:08:20.511 align:center the man took himself another wife. 00:08:20.521 --> 00:08:24.431 align:center Times soon grew very bad for the poor stepchild. 00:08:25.568 --> 00:08:27.688 align:center "Why should that stupid goose 00:08:27.695 --> 00:08:30.315 align:center "sit in the parlor with us," they said. 00:08:30.322 --> 00:08:32.902 align:center "Out with this kitchen maid!" 00:08:48.215 --> 00:08:49.125 align:center Home again, home again. 00:08:49.133 --> 00:08:50.163 align:center There you are. 00:08:50.176 --> 00:08:52.336 align:center I stopped by Gristedes. 00:08:52.344 --> 00:08:53.834 align:center God, what a zoo. 00:08:53.846 --> 00:08:55.176 align:center Oh, thanks. 00:08:55.181 --> 00:08:56.171 align:center You didn't have to go tonight. 00:08:56.182 --> 00:08:57.462 align:center Oh, hello, hello, hello. 00:08:57.475 --> 00:08:58.475 align:center Hey. 00:08:59.226 --> 00:09:01.466 align:center What is all this? 00:09:02.521 --> 00:09:05.351 align:center It's a draft for the parent essay 00:09:05.357 --> 00:09:07.067 align:center for the private schools. 00:09:07.068 --> 00:09:07.898 align:center Alex... 00:09:07.902 --> 00:09:08.732 align:center I know, I know, 00:09:08.736 --> 00:09:11.606 align:center but I had lunch with Judy today 00:09:11.614 --> 00:09:15.774 align:center and she thinks we might have a shot at a scholarship. 00:09:17.536 --> 00:09:18.536 align:center Really? 00:09:19.914 --> 00:09:20.744 align:center Here, here, you relax. 00:09:20.748 --> 00:09:22.658 align:center No, no, no, I've got this. 00:09:24.376 --> 00:09:26.336 align:center I mean, you don't... 00:09:26.337 --> 00:09:28.707 align:center You don't think that's a waste of time? 00:09:28.714 --> 00:09:30.204 align:center I mean, you know, 00:09:30.216 --> 00:09:33.006 align:center it's a long shot, obviously, but... 00:09:33.010 --> 00:09:34.260 align:center Right. 00:09:34.261 --> 00:09:37.121 align:center I went by the public school that we are zoned for now 00:09:37.139 --> 00:09:39.979 align:center and it's not great, honestly. 00:09:39.975 --> 00:09:41.385 align:center The classrooms are overcrowded, 00:09:41.393 --> 00:09:44.383 align:center I'm just worried he could get totally lost. 00:09:44.396 --> 00:09:47.476 align:center I know we've always said we're not those parents, 00:09:47.483 --> 00:09:48.343 align:center but I don't know. - We can't afford to be. 00:09:48.359 --> 00:09:49.359 align:center Maybe... 00:09:50.945 --> 00:09:52.565 align:center Greg! 00:09:52.571 --> 00:09:53.561 align:center Relax. 00:09:53.572 --> 00:09:54.572 align:center Anyway. 00:09:55.908 --> 00:09:58.368 align:center She said we should at least try a few privates 00:09:58.369 --> 00:09:59.359 align:center along with the magnet program, 00:09:59.370 --> 00:10:02.410 align:center so I was hoping you could help me brainstorm. 00:10:02.414 --> 00:10:03.244 align:center Tonight? 00:10:03.249 --> 00:10:04.619 align:center You are so much better at this than I am. 00:10:04.625 --> 00:10:05.455 align:center I am not better at this than you. 00:10:05.459 --> 00:10:06.669 align:center No, you are wonderful, Alex! - No, no, no, you are! 00:10:06.669 --> 00:10:09.089 align:center Everything I write seems so cloying. 00:10:10.172 --> 00:10:12.332 align:center Is there a prompt? 00:10:12.341 --> 00:10:13.751 align:center Oh, you know... 00:10:14.885 --> 00:10:17.125 align:center How is Jake more special than all the other 00:10:17.138 --> 00:10:17.968 align:center hundreds of thousands of... 00:10:17.972 --> 00:10:20.132 align:center Okay, okay, is there an actual prompt? 00:10:20.141 --> 00:10:22.551 align:center Um, let's see. 00:10:24.603 --> 00:10:26.183 align:center All right. 00:10:26.188 --> 00:10:28.228 align:center Imagine someone were to see a room full of 00:10:28.232 --> 00:10:30.182 align:center children playing. 00:10:30.192 --> 00:10:32.022 align:center Ignoring physical attributes, 00:10:32.027 --> 00:10:34.187 align:center how would they identify your child? 00:10:35.573 --> 00:10:37.783 align:center Show 'em about this. 00:10:37.783 --> 00:10:39.193 align:center No! 00:10:39.201 --> 00:10:40.031 align:center That is not funny! 00:10:40.035 --> 00:10:41.365 align:center That's exactly the kind of thing 00:10:41.370 --> 00:10:43.210 align:center that sounds like parent bullshit. 00:10:43.205 --> 00:10:44.445 align:center But that is not bullshit. 00:10:44.456 --> 00:10:46.326 align:center He was hours old. 00:10:46.333 --> 00:10:48.193 align:center Developmentally, babies don't typically do that 00:10:48.210 --> 00:10:49.630 align:center for days at least. 00:10:49.628 --> 00:10:50.458 align:center Yeah. 00:10:50.462 --> 00:10:52.122 align:center - He was clearly, oh shit... - Oh, be careful, be careful! 00:10:52.131 --> 00:10:53.411 align:center What is she doing on the toaster oven? 00:10:53.424 --> 00:10:54.254 align:center She's drying. 00:10:54.258 --> 00:10:55.798 align:center Her head broke off. 00:10:55.801 --> 00:10:59.461 align:center I guess she fell and he came out sobbing 00:10:59.471 --> 00:11:01.801 align:center with this decapitated Cinderella, 00:11:01.807 --> 00:11:03.797 align:center like she'd been guillotined. 00:11:03.809 --> 00:11:05.429 align:center So what, you super-glued her? 00:11:05.436 --> 00:11:06.266 align:center Well, yeah. 00:11:06.270 --> 00:11:08.270 align:center I kept insisting, you know, she's fine. 00:11:08.272 --> 00:11:10.472 align:center I told him it was another necklace. 00:11:10.482 --> 00:11:12.012 align:center Aww. 00:11:12.026 --> 00:11:12.856 align:center He buy that? 00:11:12.860 --> 00:11:13.700 align:center I think. 00:11:13.694 --> 00:11:14.694 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:11:17.656 --> 00:11:21.616 align:center I've always said the more attention we pay now, 00:11:21.619 --> 00:11:23.869 align:center the more we really listen, 00:11:23.871 --> 00:11:26.861 align:center the more engaged and confident they'll be. 00:11:26.874 --> 00:11:29.284 align:center Not just in school, but their whole lives. 00:11:29.293 --> 00:11:31.833 align:center Which is why it is so important to create 00:11:31.837 --> 00:11:34.457 align:center a preschool atmosphere where children 00:11:34.465 --> 00:11:36.505 align:center are encouraged to be their truest, 00:11:36.508 --> 00:11:38.628 align:center most authentic selves. 00:11:38.636 --> 00:11:41.426 align:center At this age, that's really the most important thing. 00:11:41.430 --> 00:11:44.850 align:center Yeah, but they're just playing all day, right? 00:11:44.850 --> 00:11:47.190 align:center I mean, basically what you got here is 00:11:47.186 --> 00:11:49.306 align:center a well-funded playroom. 00:11:49.313 --> 00:11:50.343 align:center Well, 00:11:51.649 --> 00:11:54.569 align:center the truth is creativity and imagination 00:11:54.568 --> 00:11:58.188 align:center are both foundational for all types of higher learning. 00:11:58.197 --> 00:12:00.687 align:center A colleague of mine wrote a great book on the subject, 00:12:00.699 --> 00:12:02.189 align:center if you're interested. 00:12:02.201 --> 00:12:03.981 align:center It's very accessible. 00:12:09.041 --> 00:12:10.201 align:center If it's crap you can tell me. 00:12:10.209 --> 00:12:11.199 align:center No, no, shh. 00:12:11.210 --> 00:12:13.130 align:center It's just so hard to pitch him... 00:12:13.128 --> 00:12:14.868 align:center Oh, trust me, I get it. 00:12:14.880 --> 00:12:15.880 align:center I get it. 00:12:17.216 --> 00:12:18.626 align:center I am almost... 00:12:22.638 --> 00:12:23.638 align:center Done. 00:12:24.515 --> 00:12:26.055 align:center Okay. 00:12:26.058 --> 00:12:27.388 align:center My God, your face. 00:12:27.393 --> 00:12:28.303 align:center What? 00:12:28.310 --> 00:12:30.150 align:center Maybe this is not even worth it. 00:12:30.145 --> 00:12:31.055 align:center Stop. 00:12:31.063 --> 00:12:31.893 align:center It's terrific. 00:12:31.897 --> 00:12:32.727 align:center Really? 00:12:32.731 --> 00:12:34.181 align:center Yes. 00:12:34.191 --> 00:12:35.141 align:center There's only one thing I... 00:12:35.150 --> 00:12:37.490 align:center No, of course, I mean, you must have notes. 00:12:37.486 --> 00:12:39.446 align:center You talk about his imagination, 00:12:39.446 --> 00:12:40.856 align:center which is great, 00:12:40.864 --> 00:12:42.724 align:center since that's really the best indicator. 00:12:42.741 --> 00:12:44.771 align:center Why not use that as a lead-in 00:12:44.785 --> 00:12:47.445 align:center to talk a little about his gender expansive play? 00:12:50.207 --> 00:12:52.037 align:center With anecdotes. 00:12:52.042 --> 00:12:53.492 align:center So, you mean like... 00:12:54.878 --> 00:12:56.668 align:center It could be anything, really. 00:12:56.672 --> 00:12:58.912 align:center I was in his classroom on Tuesday 00:12:58.924 --> 00:13:02.044 align:center and he and Emily and Michelle 00:13:02.052 --> 00:13:04.882 align:center were creating their own fairy tale, 00:13:04.888 --> 00:13:06.758 align:center this enchanted forest, 00:13:06.765 --> 00:13:11.055 align:center and they'd made trees out of chairs and pillows 00:13:11.061 --> 00:13:12.891 align:center and Jake... 00:13:12.896 --> 00:13:16.516 align:center Jake was this princess who didn't know she was a princess 00:13:16.525 --> 00:13:20.015 align:center and Emily was the witch who was keeping her locked up 00:13:20.029 --> 00:13:24.149 align:center and Michelle was somebody's helper or something, but... 00:13:25.701 --> 00:13:29.531 align:center Anyway, it was really Jake who was the ringleader. 00:13:30.873 --> 00:13:33.453 align:center You think talking about that would... 00:13:33.459 --> 00:13:34.619 align:center I mean, I'm sure you're right, 00:13:34.626 --> 00:13:36.616 align:center I just wanna make sure that I understand. 00:13:36.628 --> 00:13:39.718 align:center Well, for one thing, someone's gonna read this 00:13:39.715 --> 00:13:41.295 align:center and then they're gonna meet Jake 00:13:41.300 --> 00:13:43.470 align:center and it always a good sign 00:13:43.469 --> 00:13:45.809 align:center when parents seem to really know their kids, 00:13:45.804 --> 00:13:47.634 align:center which, of course, you do. 00:13:47.639 --> 00:13:48.469 align:center Right. 00:13:48.474 --> 00:13:51.184 align:center But there's sort of a big part of his personality 00:13:51.185 --> 00:13:53.725 align:center that you don't even mention, right? 00:13:55.147 --> 00:13:56.607 align:center Here's the second thing. 00:13:56.607 --> 00:13:58.267 align:center The numbers are ridiculous. 00:13:58.275 --> 00:14:00.645 align:center Especially when it comes to which families 00:14:00.652 --> 00:14:02.102 align:center they're gonna help financially. 00:14:03.322 --> 00:14:04.852 align:center But what you have to remember is 00:14:04.865 --> 00:14:06.155 align:center everybody wants diversity. 00:14:07.201 --> 00:14:08.201 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:14:09.036 --> 00:14:11.246 align:center Let's be honest, Jake, 00:14:12.873 --> 00:14:15.413 align:center he's very special. 00:14:15.417 --> 00:14:16.877 align:center And believe me, this is the part of my job 00:14:16.877 --> 00:14:20.367 align:center I hate the most, this, this strategizing. 00:14:20.381 --> 00:14:23.991 align:center But I really think that this is a card you could play. 00:14:25.469 --> 00:14:26.469 align:center That's all. 00:14:27.137 --> 00:14:29.377 align:center Not to mention, you want him to be somewhere 00:14:29.390 --> 00:14:30.600 align:center he can thrive, right? 00:14:37.648 --> 00:14:39.938 align:center And the prince fell on Rapunzel. 00:14:41.276 --> 00:14:42.436 align:center Standing on Rapunzel. 00:14:42.444 --> 00:14:44.814 align:center Look what I made. 00:14:44.822 --> 00:14:46.812 align:center All right, so it's all about progression, right? 00:14:46.824 --> 00:14:48.484 align:center It's like you have to have the right story, 00:14:48.492 --> 00:14:50.852 align:center so this is my pulled together, 00:14:50.869 --> 00:14:52.329 align:center you don't have to worry about me 00:14:52.329 --> 00:14:56.499 align:center because I'm a modern, independent, working woman picture. 00:14:56.500 --> 00:14:57.340 align:center Right? 00:14:57.334 --> 00:14:58.164 align:center Very slick, yeah. 00:14:58.168 --> 00:14:59.158 align:center Thank you. 00:14:59.169 --> 00:15:01.709 align:center And then this one, which is loving mommy. 00:15:01.713 --> 00:15:02.543 align:center Aww! 00:15:02.548 --> 00:15:04.338 align:center Loving mommy, yes, I have a kid, 00:15:04.341 --> 00:15:06.501 align:center and if that freaks you out, well, too bad, 00:15:06.510 --> 00:15:08.760 align:center 'cause I'm not going to apologize about it kinda picture. 00:15:08.762 --> 00:15:09.792 align:center Sort of pimping him out, though, aren't you? 00:15:09.805 --> 00:15:10.635 align:center Stop! 00:15:10.639 --> 00:15:11.469 align:center No, I'm not. 00:15:11.473 --> 00:15:13.213 align:center Wait, wait, wait, wait, show him the message. 00:15:13.225 --> 00:15:15.185 align:center Sanjay, come on, baby, it's that time. 00:15:15.185 --> 00:15:16.425 align:center We're not done yet. 00:15:16.437 --> 00:15:17.267 align:center Right, okay. 00:15:17.271 --> 00:15:19.181 align:center "Wowza, Amal! 00:15:19.189 --> 00:15:21.859 align:center "You are truly an exotic beauty 00:15:21.859 --> 00:15:24.359 align:center "and your English is so impressive! 00:15:24.361 --> 00:15:26.771 align:center "Maybe we could go for a ride sometime. 00:15:26.780 --> 00:15:28.400 align:center "No magic carpet here, but I do have a Prius!" 00:15:28.407 --> 00:15:29.697 align:center No, no! 00:15:29.700 --> 00:15:30.910 align:center What is wrong with people? 00:15:30.909 --> 00:15:31.739 align:center Right? 00:15:31.743 --> 00:15:33.103 align:center I know, and it's not even the half of it. 00:15:33.120 --> 00:15:34.830 align:center Come on, baby, I'm not jo- 00:15:34.830 --> 00:15:35.920 align:center Where did they? 00:15:35.914 --> 00:15:36.904 align:center Oh, what in the world? 00:15:36.915 --> 00:15:37.745 align:center I'm so sorry, Alex. 00:15:37.749 --> 00:15:38.579 align:center No, no, no, I got it. 00:15:38.584 --> 00:15:39.414 align:center This is all Jake. 00:15:39.418 --> 00:15:40.248 align:center Are you sure? 00:15:40.252 --> 00:15:41.082 align:center Yes. 00:15:41.086 --> 00:15:41.916 align:center - Let me take that. - Thank you. 00:15:41.920 --> 00:15:42.760 align:center Okay, bye. 00:15:42.754 --> 00:15:43.584 align:center Sanjay, come on! 00:15:43.589 --> 00:15:44.879 align:center Mommy's had a long day. 00:15:44.882 --> 00:15:46.292 align:center He can't leave! 00:15:46.300 --> 00:15:48.340 align:center Well, he has to. 00:16:00.606 --> 00:16:02.896 align:center You really don't think it's weird? 00:16:02.900 --> 00:16:04.320 align:center About Judy. 00:16:04.318 --> 00:16:06.858 align:center Mm. 00:16:06.862 --> 00:16:07.942 align:center I don't know, I mean... 00:16:09.239 --> 00:16:11.699 align:center She was strategizing, right? 00:16:11.700 --> 00:16:13.290 align:center Yeah, no, the strategizing I get, 00:16:13.285 --> 00:16:16.025 align:center but the way she was talking, it was just a little... 00:16:17.664 --> 00:16:18.744 align:center I don't know. 00:16:22.794 --> 00:16:24.954 align:center I mean, he does like to play dress-up, 00:16:24.963 --> 00:16:26.573 align:center that's not news. 00:16:26.590 --> 00:16:29.050 align:center Not that I care, obviously, but, 00:16:29.051 --> 00:16:32.131 align:center he's not exactly Johnny Basketball. 00:16:32.137 --> 00:16:33.627 align:center Johnny what? 00:16:33.639 --> 00:16:35.179 align:center You know. 00:16:35.182 --> 00:16:36.632 align:center That's not an expression. 00:16:36.642 --> 00:16:38.842 align:center I know it's not, I'm just saying. 00:16:40.479 --> 00:16:41.969 align:center What's your day like tomorrow? 00:16:41.980 --> 00:16:44.230 align:center I have a break around noon. 00:16:44.233 --> 00:16:46.473 align:center I go into Legal Aide till three, 00:16:46.485 --> 00:16:47.485 align:center then pick up Jake. 00:16:51.448 --> 00:16:52.488 align:center You okay? 00:16:52.491 --> 00:16:53.321 align:center Yeah. 00:16:53.325 --> 00:16:54.325 align:center Yeah, of course. 00:17:17.516 --> 00:17:18.386 align:center Laurel! 00:17:18.392 --> 00:17:19.222 align:center Laurel. 00:17:19.226 --> 00:17:20.056 align:center Hi, Greg. 00:17:20.060 --> 00:17:20.900 align:center Hey. 00:17:20.894 --> 00:17:22.474 align:center Listen, um, I've been meaning to mention, 00:17:22.479 --> 00:17:23.559 align:center and maybe you've already noticed this, 00:17:23.564 --> 00:17:25.854 align:center but the walls here are a little... 00:17:29.736 --> 00:17:32.776 align:center And most of my patients, they're pretty tame, 00:17:32.781 --> 00:17:34.021 align:center but you know, if you ever, 00:17:34.032 --> 00:17:35.812 align:center if there's a noise issue or... 00:17:35.826 --> 00:17:37.946 align:center Oh, you're so sweet. 00:17:37.953 --> 00:17:39.813 align:center I haven't even noticed. 00:17:39.830 --> 00:17:41.830 align:center Oh, and I wouldn't want you to worry about that. 00:17:41.832 --> 00:17:44.822 align:center I know in my own work how important 00:17:44.835 --> 00:17:47.205 align:center vocalizing can be. 00:17:47.212 --> 00:17:49.662 align:center I find it so helpful in releasing all kinds of 00:17:49.673 --> 00:17:50.783 align:center emotional buildup. 00:17:50.799 --> 00:17:51.629 align:center Right. 00:17:51.633 --> 00:17:53.393 align:center I'm sure you're familiar with Arthur Janov. 00:17:56.013 --> 00:17:57.843 align:center It's scream therapy. 00:17:57.848 --> 00:17:58.928 align:center It's what? 00:17:58.932 --> 00:18:01.382 align:center Janov, he was big in the sixties. 00:18:01.393 --> 00:18:04.103 align:center He's all about finding your primal scream 00:18:04.104 --> 00:18:06.564 align:center and releasing it into the world. 00:18:06.565 --> 00:18:07.775 align:center Jesus. 00:18:07.774 --> 00:18:09.434 align:center Yeah, and apparently, this is like her niche, 00:18:09.443 --> 00:18:10.273 align:center you know? 00:18:10.277 --> 00:18:11.797 align:center Which means this is not going to stop. 00:18:13.447 --> 00:18:14.277 align:center Hello? 00:18:14.281 --> 00:18:15.281 align:center Yeah, sorry, I... 00:18:16.742 --> 00:18:18.072 align:center It's not his personality. 00:18:18.076 --> 00:18:19.786 align:center I think that's what bugged me. 00:18:19.786 --> 00:18:20.946 align:center What? 00:18:20.954 --> 00:18:21.984 align:center About Judy. 00:18:21.997 --> 00:18:23.737 align:center She was acting like I'd failed to mention 00:18:23.749 --> 00:18:26.289 align:center some deep-seated part of him and it's like, 00:18:26.293 --> 00:18:27.783 align:center yeah, he likes fairy tales, 00:18:27.794 --> 00:18:28.744 align:center but maybe that's not the most 00:18:28.754 --> 00:18:30.964 align:center critical thing worth mentioning. 00:18:30.964 --> 00:18:33.584 align:center He knows all 50 states, he's already started reading. 00:18:33.592 --> 00:18:35.252 align:center How many kids his age are reading? 00:18:35.260 --> 00:18:37.550 align:center Hey, Allie, Allie, okay, look, I love you, 00:18:37.554 --> 00:18:39.264 align:center but I think that you're fixating. 00:18:39.264 --> 00:18:40.624 align:center No, I'm not fixating, I just think 00:18:40.641 --> 00:18:41.841 align:center he should get a clean slate. 00:18:41.850 --> 00:18:44.600 align:center I don't want to send him off to kindergarten labeled. 00:18:44.603 --> 00:18:46.343 align:center I don't think anyone's trying to label him. 00:18:46.355 --> 00:18:48.265 align:center You know, Allie, Judy loves Jake. 00:18:48.273 --> 00:18:49.603 align:center Judy loves you. 00:18:49.608 --> 00:18:50.978 align:center She's on your side, all right? 00:18:50.984 --> 00:18:52.814 align:center And she's not, you know, your mother. 00:18:54.571 --> 00:18:55.601 align:center Hey. 00:18:55.614 --> 00:18:56.614 align:center Hey, I was kidding. 00:18:58.617 --> 00:19:00.197 align:center No, it's fine, um... 00:19:00.202 --> 00:19:01.202 align:center Allie. 00:19:02.245 --> 00:19:03.155 align:center Look, I gotta go. 00:19:03.163 --> 00:19:05.493 align:center Uh, I love you. 00:19:27.521 --> 00:19:28.521 align:center Nipples. 00:19:29.231 --> 00:19:30.391 align:center I wanna touch your nipple. 00:19:41.243 --> 00:19:46.203 align:center What if we pitched it like Jake is not limited 00:19:46.665 --> 00:19:49.495 align:center to trucks or whatever. 00:19:50.585 --> 00:19:54.325 align:center Uh, he likes all sorts of toys and games, 00:19:54.339 --> 00:19:55.579 align:center equal opportunity. 00:19:56.675 --> 00:19:59.915 align:center Yeah, our son, who walks into a Toys R Us 00:19:59.928 --> 00:20:03.768 align:center and he does not discriminate on the basis 00:20:03.765 --> 00:20:07.005 align:center of perceived gender norms. 00:20:08.603 --> 00:20:10.013 align:center That's actually not that bad. 00:20:10.856 --> 00:20:13.646 align:center But that's just an idea, we don't have... 00:20:18.363 --> 00:20:19.363 align:center Oh, my God. 00:20:20.907 --> 00:20:21.907 align:center Allie. 00:20:23.910 --> 00:20:24.910 align:center What's wrong? 00:20:25.871 --> 00:20:28.821 align:center Whoa, whoa, you're not happy? 00:20:28.832 --> 00:20:30.492 align:center No, no, of course I'm happy, I... 00:20:30.500 --> 00:20:31.840 align:center Hey, hey. 00:20:36.548 --> 00:20:37.378 align:center I just don't. 00:20:37.382 --> 00:20:39.412 align:center I don't want to assume. 00:20:39.426 --> 00:20:40.836 align:center No, of course not. 00:20:40.844 --> 00:20:41.844 align:center And we won't. 00:20:44.014 --> 00:20:46.224 align:center But with Jake everything was fine. 00:20:47.726 --> 00:20:48.846 align:center It's not a pattern. 00:20:58.445 --> 00:20:59.525 align:center I just, I... 00:21:01.364 --> 00:21:04.484 align:center I guess I didn't think it would happen so fast. 00:21:07.746 --> 00:21:12.496 align:center Well, I am sorry that I'm so damn virile. 00:21:13.752 --> 00:21:16.282 align:center I don't know what else to say besides that, though, 00:21:16.296 --> 00:21:17.296 align:center I am sorry. 00:21:28.266 --> 00:21:31.556 align:center Bye, Miss Matthews, thank you. 00:21:49.037 --> 00:21:51.747 align:center This is a very dressed up mess. 00:21:57.254 --> 00:21:59.794 align:center We believe it's our job to harness 00:21:59.798 --> 00:22:02.508 align:center every student's unique potential. 00:22:05.804 --> 00:22:07.664 align:center Nurturing intellectual curiosity... 00:22:07.681 --> 00:22:08.881 align:center Critical thinking... 00:22:08.890 --> 00:22:10.350 align:center Problem solving... 00:22:10.350 --> 00:22:11.560 align:center Artistic expression. 00:22:20.277 --> 00:22:22.517 align:center Jake, breakfast! 00:22:22.529 --> 00:22:24.869 align:center Socks make my feet sticky! 00:22:24.865 --> 00:22:26.235 align:center Hey, buddy. 00:22:26.241 --> 00:22:27.851 align:center We're running late. 00:22:27.868 --> 00:22:30.538 align:center We do give priority to siblings. 00:22:30.537 --> 00:22:32.657 align:center My wife is on a ton of boards. 00:22:32.664 --> 00:22:34.454 align:center I don't know if that's helpful, or... 00:22:35.625 --> 00:22:37.035 align:center You know, it's impossible to predict, 00:22:37.043 --> 00:22:39.753 align:center but on average it's approximately 400. 00:22:39.754 --> 00:22:40.994 align:center 600. 00:22:41.006 --> 00:22:42.496 align:center 900. 00:22:42.507 --> 00:22:45.547 align:center 36,000 children applied for a spot 00:22:45.552 --> 00:22:48.292 align:center in one of the cities magnet programs last year. 00:22:49.306 --> 00:22:51.136 align:center In a few weeks we'll visit some new schools 00:22:51.141 --> 00:22:53.841 align:center and you'll play with some kids and meet some teachers 00:22:53.852 --> 00:22:55.552 align:center and you should just be yourself. 00:22:55.562 --> 00:22:56.922 align:center And that's all that matters, okay? 00:22:56.938 --> 00:22:59.478 align:center So it's no big deal at all. 00:22:59.482 --> 00:23:00.312 align:center Yes. 00:23:00.317 --> 00:23:01.147 align:center No biggie. 00:23:01.151 --> 00:23:03.061 align:center Um, you could have a fruit roll-up 00:23:03.069 --> 00:23:03.899 align:center later if you want. 00:23:03.904 --> 00:23:04.734 align:center Yeah! 00:23:04.738 --> 00:23:07.738 align:center Except they're kind of sticky. 00:23:12.996 --> 00:23:13.996 align:center Hello? 00:23:14.664 --> 00:23:16.494 align:center Wheeler, yeah. 00:23:16.499 --> 00:23:18.959 align:center W-H-E-E-L-E-R. 00:23:19.794 --> 00:23:21.374 align:center And my son is Jake. 00:23:24.382 --> 00:23:26.662 align:center Preschools will receive feedback in December. 00:23:28.386 --> 00:23:32.376 align:center Of course we wish we had room for all your little angels, 00:23:33.475 --> 00:23:34.635 align:center but the numbers are what they are. 00:23:34.643 --> 00:23:37.353 align:center The numbers are what they are. 00:23:58.416 --> 00:23:59.536 align:center Oh, look at that! 00:23:59.542 --> 00:24:00.372 align:center What's that? 00:24:00.377 --> 00:24:01.337 align:center Is that for us? 00:24:01.336 --> 00:24:02.166 align:center Yes! 00:24:02.170 --> 00:24:03.090 align:center No, I did that. 00:24:03.088 --> 00:24:04.668 align:center Let me try. 00:24:06.091 --> 00:24:07.121 align:center That's what I clicked on. 00:24:07.133 --> 00:24:08.293 align:center No, I think it's the one over there. 00:24:08.301 --> 00:24:09.131 align:center I don't know. 00:24:09.135 --> 00:24:10.045 align:center I can't deal with this. 00:24:10.053 --> 00:24:11.053 align:center There. 00:24:12.263 --> 00:24:13.263 align:center Right? 00:24:29.698 --> 00:24:31.858 align:center I mean, it's insane. 00:24:33.243 --> 00:24:37.613 align:center Between the down regs and the stems, 00:24:37.622 --> 00:24:39.952 align:center trigger shots, blood samples. 00:24:39.958 --> 00:24:43.078 align:center I mean, not to mention anesthetic for egg retrieval. 00:24:43.086 --> 00:24:46.826 align:center All in all, you're probably stabbed about 75 times 00:24:46.840 --> 00:24:48.590 align:center per cycle. 00:24:48.591 --> 00:24:51.001 align:center And most of the stabbing you're doing to yourself. 00:24:51.011 --> 00:24:54.001 align:center I had this whole kit at the office. 00:24:54.014 --> 00:24:55.924 align:center They say if you're squeamish about needles, 00:24:55.932 --> 00:24:59.642 align:center IVF will either cure you or break you. 00:25:00.478 --> 00:25:01.478 align:center I actually... 00:25:04.899 --> 00:25:06.569 align:center That doesn't bother you? 00:25:06.568 --> 00:25:07.398 align:center You mean... 00:25:07.402 --> 00:25:09.392 align:center The banshee next door. 00:25:18.997 --> 00:25:20.237 align:center What about Ben? 00:25:20.248 --> 00:25:21.788 align:center What about him? 00:25:21.791 --> 00:25:23.571 align:center Was he supportive? 00:25:23.585 --> 00:25:25.875 align:center Just, in all this. 00:25:28.048 --> 00:25:29.288 align:center We've got a few minutes. 00:25:31.134 --> 00:25:32.664 align:center He'd call the office. 00:25:33.595 --> 00:25:36.465 align:center Constantly checking in, you know, 00:25:36.473 --> 00:25:38.383 align:center he'd email me these fertility blogs, 00:25:38.391 --> 00:25:39.841 align:center what to eat, what not to eat. 00:25:39.851 --> 00:25:41.631 align:center That sounds like a lot of pressure. 00:25:42.771 --> 00:25:43.771 align:center You have kids? 00:25:44.981 --> 00:25:45.981 align:center Yeah, one. 00:25:47.567 --> 00:25:50.777 align:center It's like when guys say, "We're pregnant!" 00:25:50.779 --> 00:25:52.269 align:center You know? 00:25:52.280 --> 00:25:53.740 align:center Like, wow. 00:25:53.740 --> 00:25:56.030 align:center Equality, great. 00:25:56.034 --> 00:25:58.494 align:center But actually you're not, so maybe you could just 00:25:59.788 --> 00:26:00.948 align:center fuck off a little bit. 00:26:05.418 --> 00:26:06.908 align:center Allie, come on. 00:26:06.920 --> 00:26:09.130 align:center You're being ridiculous. 00:26:09.130 --> 00:26:10.090 align:center I'm fine. 00:26:10.090 --> 00:26:11.430 align:center You've got clients. 00:26:11.424 --> 00:26:12.414 align:center So what, so I'll reschedule. 00:26:12.425 --> 00:26:13.965 align:center Cue the ballerina. 00:26:13.968 --> 00:26:16.008 align:center It's his first interview, this is important. 00:26:16.012 --> 00:26:16.842 align:center He's gonna be nervous. 00:26:16.846 --> 00:26:17.676 align:center Exactly. 00:26:17.680 --> 00:26:18.600 align:center You know, I'm sorry, but what happens 00:26:18.598 --> 00:26:20.088 align:center if you puke on the train? 00:26:20.100 --> 00:26:22.100 align:center You think that's gonna put him in a good mood? 00:26:23.228 --> 00:26:25.438 align:center All right, there's some apple slices 00:26:25.438 --> 00:26:26.308 align:center with peanut butter in the kitchen. 00:26:26.314 --> 00:26:27.724 align:center Make sure he eats on the way. 00:26:30.819 --> 00:26:34.489 align:center Yeah, but Little Mermaid's my favorite movie. 00:26:34.489 --> 00:26:35.779 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:26:43.706 --> 00:26:44.536 align:center Here you go. 00:26:44.541 --> 00:26:45.321 align:center Thank you very much. 00:26:45.333 --> 00:26:47.793 align:center Hey Jake, let's go over there. 00:26:53.258 --> 00:26:54.338 align:center First time? 00:26:55.969 --> 00:26:56.969 align:center Yeah. 00:26:57.846 --> 00:27:00.216 align:center At our last one they left the door open, 00:27:00.223 --> 00:27:01.923 align:center so I could peek in. 00:27:01.933 --> 00:27:03.963 align:center And I saw my son was drawing a picture 00:27:03.977 --> 00:27:06.437 align:center and I thought, "that's good, that's good," right? 00:27:06.437 --> 00:27:07.847 align:center So the teacher comes over and says, 00:27:07.856 --> 00:27:09.686 align:center "Hey, what's that?" 00:27:09.691 --> 00:27:11.551 align:center And he said, "A gun." 00:27:15.780 --> 00:27:18.370 align:center Well, he can' fix America, no? 00:27:18.366 --> 00:27:19.526 align:center No, he can't. 00:27:21.619 --> 00:27:22.619 align:center Mr. Wheeler. 00:27:23.872 --> 00:27:26.072 align:center Can I have a word with you? 00:27:29.169 --> 00:27:30.579 align:center Alexandra, it's your mother. 00:27:30.587 --> 00:27:33.077 align:center I haven't heard from you in over a week. 00:27:33.089 --> 00:27:34.579 align:center Call me old-fashioned, but I don't think 00:27:34.591 --> 00:27:37.291 align:center a simple phone call is so much to ask. 00:27:37.302 --> 00:27:39.502 align:center An emoji does not count. 00:27:39.512 --> 00:27:41.672 align:center In any case, listen, I just talked to your brother 00:27:41.681 --> 00:27:44.261 align:center and Kimmy's got a piano recital on the eleventh. 00:27:44.267 --> 00:27:46.307 align:center I don't know if you've heard her play recently, 00:27:46.311 --> 00:27:49.221 align:center but she's really getting very good. 00:27:49.230 --> 00:27:52.020 align:center It's amazing, frankly, the discipline at her age. 00:27:52.025 --> 00:27:53.895 align:center I thought it might be nice for Jake to see. 00:27:53.902 --> 00:27:55.982 align:center It might inspire him, who knows. 00:27:55.987 --> 00:27:58.897 align:center Oh, have you set a date for his birthday party yet? 00:27:58.907 --> 00:28:01.117 align:center I don't want a situation like last year. 00:28:01.117 --> 00:28:02.237 align:center Really broke my heart. 00:28:02.243 --> 00:28:03.073 align:center So call me. 00:28:03.077 --> 00:28:05.067 align:center I'm at the office, be here all day. 00:28:05.079 --> 00:28:06.289 align:center Remember what that's like? 00:28:24.933 --> 00:28:26.633 align:center Of course it's ridiculous, I'm not saying it's not... 00:28:26.643 --> 00:28:28.003 align:center I mean, abusive was the word you used. 00:28:28.019 --> 00:28:28.849 align:center Okay. 00:28:28.853 --> 00:28:30.383 align:center You said whoever had the bright idea 00:28:30.396 --> 00:28:32.766 align:center to evaluate toddlers using test scores 00:28:32.774 --> 00:28:33.604 align:center deserves a special place in hell. 00:28:33.608 --> 00:28:35.518 align:center He got a 96! 00:28:35.526 --> 00:28:36.356 align:center He... 00:28:36.361 --> 00:28:37.471 align:center Are you talking about out of a hundred? 00:28:37.487 --> 00:28:38.727 align:center Yeah, well, I mean, it's percentile, 00:28:38.738 --> 00:28:40.318 align:center so you can't get higher than 99, but... 00:28:40.323 --> 00:28:41.313 align:center Wait, what is all this? 00:28:41.324 --> 00:28:42.154 align:center Okay, look. 00:28:42.158 --> 00:28:43.698 align:center So, they break it down, right? 00:28:43.701 --> 00:28:44.531 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:28:44.535 --> 00:28:45.695 align:center There's verbal ability, spatial relations, 00:28:45.703 --> 00:28:46.533 align:center fine motor skills... 00:28:46.537 --> 00:28:47.367 align:center Fine motor skills. 00:28:47.372 --> 00:28:48.452 align:center Yeah, like how he holds a pencil. 00:28:48.456 --> 00:28:49.576 align:center And I was worried about that, too, 00:28:49.582 --> 00:28:50.742 align:center 'cause he's left-handed, which I mean, 00:28:50.750 --> 00:28:52.340 align:center obviously they can't discriminate but... 00:28:52.335 --> 00:28:53.545 align:center Okay, but wait, whoa, you are out of your mind. 00:28:53.544 --> 00:28:56.534 align:center Okay, okay, look at the narrative. 00:28:57.966 --> 00:29:00.876 align:center Jake was enthusiastic and curious. 00:29:00.885 --> 00:29:01.745 align:center Enthusiastic! 00:29:01.761 --> 00:29:04.461 align:center And proved remarkably focused on the task at hand 00:29:04.472 --> 00:29:07.052 align:center with a keen eye, he was able to group pictures 00:29:07.058 --> 00:29:08.388 align:center based on common properties, 00:29:08.393 --> 00:29:10.423 align:center copying several rows of symbols to match a code. 00:29:10.436 --> 00:29:11.266 align:center What the fuck? 00:29:11.271 --> 00:29:12.681 align:center Well, sticks, shapes, and things, relax. 00:29:12.689 --> 00:29:13.979 align:center Okay. 00:29:13.982 --> 00:29:15.642 align:center Wait, wait, this is my favorite part. 00:29:15.650 --> 00:29:18.990 align:center Using an unconventional, but still affective, 00:29:18.987 --> 00:29:22.827 align:center left-handed grip, a delight to work with. 00:29:25.618 --> 00:29:26.618 align:center What's wrong? 00:29:28.496 --> 00:29:29.616 align:center I don't understand. 00:29:29.622 --> 00:29:32.032 align:center I guess Jake had made friends 00:29:32.041 --> 00:29:33.701 align:center with one of the girls in his group 00:29:33.710 --> 00:29:36.920 align:center and one of the boys overheard what they were talking about 00:29:36.921 --> 00:29:40.031 align:center and uh, that boy told some other boy, 00:29:40.049 --> 00:29:41.539 align:center who told some other boy, 00:29:41.551 --> 00:29:43.961 align:center who started teasing Jake. 00:29:43.970 --> 00:29:44.960 align:center What were they saying? 00:29:44.971 --> 00:29:46.711 align:center I don't know, but apparently, 00:29:46.723 --> 00:29:48.803 align:center before the teacher could intervene, 00:29:48.808 --> 00:29:50.178 align:center things got physical. 00:29:50.184 --> 00:29:51.424 align:center They started shoving each other, 00:29:51.436 --> 00:29:52.426 align:center I think Jake fell down. 00:29:52.437 --> 00:29:53.347 align:center Jesus. 00:29:53.354 --> 00:29:56.094 align:center Yeah, and then I guess Jake shoved the other kid back. 00:29:56.107 --> 00:29:57.817 align:center Then I guess he started crying. 00:29:57.817 --> 00:29:59.397 align:center But did you tell them he's not like that? 00:29:59.402 --> 00:30:00.432 align:center When has he ever shoved anyone? 00:30:00.445 --> 00:30:01.275 align:center Oh, no, no, they knew. 00:30:01.279 --> 00:30:02.949 align:center They knew that he was being teased, okay. 00:30:02.947 --> 00:30:04.657 align:center The man was really nice about it. 00:30:05.658 --> 00:30:07.868 align:center I actually think he was a little embarrassed. 00:30:07.869 --> 00:30:08.699 align:center Why? 00:30:08.703 --> 00:30:10.483 align:center Well, 00:30:10.496 --> 00:30:12.576 align:center he kept dancing around what had happened, 00:30:12.582 --> 00:30:15.242 align:center talking about Jake's creative role play or whatever 00:30:15.251 --> 00:30:18.361 align:center and then suddenly I realized, oh God, 00:30:18.379 --> 00:30:19.969 align:center this guy doesn't know how to tell me 00:30:19.964 --> 00:30:22.004 align:center that my son was uh, 00:30:22.008 --> 00:30:24.548 align:center well, he was the Little Mermaid, it turns out. 00:30:24.552 --> 00:30:25.552 align:center Damn this thing. 00:30:26.429 --> 00:30:27.889 align:center Anyway, once it was over, the teacher, 00:30:27.889 --> 00:30:29.889 align:center she sat both of them down, they had a talk 00:30:29.891 --> 00:30:31.421 align:center about respectful behavior 00:30:31.434 --> 00:30:35.094 align:center and she encouraged Jake to use his words if he was angry. 00:30:37.357 --> 00:30:39.227 align:center He couldn't talk. 00:30:39.233 --> 00:30:40.143 align:center No, I guess not. 00:30:40.151 --> 00:30:41.231 align:center No, no, no, no, I mean, 00:30:41.235 --> 00:30:43.145 align:center the Little Mermaid loses her voice. 00:30:43.154 --> 00:30:45.944 align:center She can't talk for like half the movie. 00:30:45.948 --> 00:30:47.358 align:center You never thought of that? 00:30:49.619 --> 00:30:52.079 align:center Well, are you mad at me? 00:30:52.080 --> 00:30:55.620 align:center Well, now they're gonna think he's got anger issues 00:30:55.625 --> 00:30:57.745 align:center or doesn't know how to communicate his feelings. 00:30:57.752 --> 00:30:59.362 align:center I should have taken him. 00:31:00.254 --> 00:31:01.114 align:center Well, thanks. 00:31:01.130 --> 00:31:02.630 align:center No, I'm not saying it's your fault... 00:31:02.632 --> 00:31:03.462 align:center Because it's not. 00:31:03.466 --> 00:31:05.956 align:center Well, it's a red flag, okay? 00:31:05.968 --> 00:31:08.808 align:center They're looking for anything. 00:31:10.014 --> 00:31:11.124 align:center Shit. 00:31:14.018 --> 00:31:15.008 align:center Well, somehow I was a little more 00:31:15.019 --> 00:31:17.939 align:center concerned about Jake than how it might affect his chances. 00:31:17.939 --> 00:31:18.769 align:center Excuse me? 00:31:18.773 --> 00:31:19.973 align:center I just... 00:31:19.982 --> 00:31:20.932 align:center Maybe we've got things a little backwards here. 00:31:20.942 --> 00:31:22.932 align:center Hey, hey, that is not fair. 00:31:22.944 --> 00:31:25.934 align:center Being concerned for his chances is being concerned for Jake. 00:31:25.947 --> 00:31:26.777 align:center Yeah, I realize that. 00:31:26.781 --> 00:31:27.891 align:center And frankly, if you're worried about him 00:31:27.907 --> 00:31:30.317 align:center being teased at Sibley Hall, maybe you know, 00:31:30.326 --> 00:31:31.656 align:center think about what it'd be like for him 00:31:31.661 --> 00:31:33.901 align:center someplace where the teacher's got 40 kids 00:31:33.913 --> 00:31:35.493 align:center crammed into a class half the size. 00:31:35.498 --> 00:31:36.328 align:center Okay, okay. 00:31:36.332 --> 00:31:37.162 align:center You think this won't happen again? 00:31:37.166 --> 00:31:38.826 align:center Okay, fine. 00:31:38.835 --> 00:31:41.165 align:center So don't tell me I'm not concerned about Jake. 00:32:56.871 --> 00:32:59.611 align:center I mean, okay, I'm not a crazy mom, Alex, 00:32:59.624 --> 00:33:01.284 align:center I don't want to hoard him. 00:33:01.292 --> 00:33:03.532 align:center I want him to have his father in his life, 00:33:03.544 --> 00:33:06.254 align:center but he needs routine right now. 00:33:06.255 --> 00:33:07.915 align:center It's so important at this age. 00:33:07.924 --> 00:33:08.914 align:center Of course. 00:33:08.925 --> 00:33:12.255 align:center I mean, honestly, I shouldn't even complain, it's, 00:33:12.261 --> 00:33:14.791 align:center it's a good thing that he wants to be involved, 00:33:14.805 --> 00:33:16.425 align:center I just... 00:33:16.432 --> 00:33:18.292 align:center I honestly think sometimes it's the lawyers 00:33:18.309 --> 00:33:19.679 align:center that make it all impossible. 00:33:21.270 --> 00:33:22.260 align:center No offense. 00:33:22.271 --> 00:33:23.131 align:center No! 00:33:23.147 --> 00:33:24.307 align:center I'm sure you're right. 00:33:27.318 --> 00:33:28.398 align:center You ladies need any help? 00:33:28.402 --> 00:33:29.432 align:center Yes, I do. 00:33:29.445 --> 00:33:31.565 align:center I was looking at the Power Rangers costumes 00:33:31.572 --> 00:33:33.182 align:center and I couldn't see anything in red. 00:33:33.199 --> 00:33:35.409 align:center My son's like, yea high. 00:33:35.409 --> 00:33:36.949 align:center We may be sold out of that color. 00:33:36.953 --> 00:33:37.783 align:center I can check. 00:33:37.787 --> 00:33:39.907 align:center Oh, no, no you see, it's, 00:33:39.914 --> 00:33:41.874 align:center it really has to be red. 00:33:41.874 --> 00:33:42.704 align:center Okay. 00:33:42.708 --> 00:33:43.708 align:center Yeah, okay. 00:33:44.752 --> 00:33:46.412 align:center So what does Jake want to be, hmm? 00:33:47.838 --> 00:33:48.998 align:center Oh, you know, Jake. 00:33:49.006 --> 00:33:51.216 align:center He has a different idea every other day. 00:33:52.176 --> 00:33:54.466 align:center Probably just grab a few options. 00:33:54.470 --> 00:33:56.590 align:center - Yeah, smart. - Miss? 00:33:56.597 --> 00:33:58.057 align:center Oh my God, my hero! 00:33:58.057 --> 00:33:59.427 align:center Yes, you found it. 00:34:00.768 --> 00:34:02.758 align:center Hey, Teresa, can we get a price check 00:34:02.770 --> 00:34:05.310 align:center on a baby Frankenstein kit? 00:34:05.314 --> 00:34:06.314 align:center Thanks. 00:34:21.914 --> 00:34:23.744 align:center Maybe we should explain to him 00:34:23.749 --> 00:34:26.789 align:center why Rapunzel's not a good idea. 00:34:28.004 --> 00:34:29.004 align:center I just think... 00:34:31.257 --> 00:34:32.467 align:center What if someone says something 00:34:32.466 --> 00:34:34.126 align:center or even a funny look? 00:34:34.135 --> 00:34:35.135 align:center I know. 00:34:38.472 --> 00:34:40.422 align:center You know, it's our job to protect him. 00:34:43.144 --> 00:34:44.144 align:center Meredith. 00:34:46.981 --> 00:34:47.981 align:center Come on. 00:34:49.400 --> 00:34:50.600 align:center You really don't have to stay. 00:35:04.707 --> 00:35:07.997 align:center There's a good chance he'll just forget. 00:35:09.253 --> 00:35:10.203 align:center Why? 00:35:10.212 --> 00:35:11.912 align:center Why can't I be Rapunzel? 00:35:11.922 --> 00:35:12.832 align:center Did you see the pirate? 00:35:12.840 --> 00:35:14.090 align:center - No! - It's awesome! 00:35:14.091 --> 00:35:16.041 align:center - It's got these tassels! - No! 00:35:16.052 --> 00:35:16.882 align:center No, no! 00:35:16.886 --> 00:35:17.716 align:center You've got all these other options. 00:35:17.720 --> 00:35:18.560 align:center Hey, buddy, come on. 00:35:18.554 --> 00:35:19.384 align:center Mommy's trying really hard to... 00:35:19.388 --> 00:35:20.218 align:center It's not fair! 00:35:20.222 --> 00:35:21.052 align:center Jake. 00:35:21.057 --> 00:35:21.887 align:center I don't understand, you promised me! 00:35:21.891 --> 00:35:24.341 align:center You haven't even looked at them, babe. 00:35:24.352 --> 00:35:26.182 align:center - Trick or treat! - Trick or treat. 00:35:26.187 --> 00:35:27.847 align:center I hate you! 00:35:27.855 --> 00:35:29.845 align:center Jake, I need you to calm down. 00:35:29.857 --> 00:35:31.147 align:center Please. 00:35:31.150 --> 00:35:32.770 align:center Just for one second. 00:35:32.777 --> 00:35:33.607 align:center You're not, you can't... 00:35:33.611 --> 00:35:34.561 align:center Happy Halloween. 00:35:34.570 --> 00:35:39.490 align:center Listen, if you're... 00:36:06.644 --> 00:36:07.644 align:center No. 00:36:08.437 --> 00:36:10.727 align:center He was Ben. 00:36:10.731 --> 00:36:14.221 align:center He just had the face of the man from the bodega. 00:36:14.235 --> 00:36:18.065 align:center Like the man from the bodega was playing Ben in my dream. 00:36:19.240 --> 00:36:20.490 align:center Okay. 00:36:20.491 --> 00:36:22.691 align:center And we get to the top of the mountain. 00:36:22.702 --> 00:36:24.282 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:36:24.286 --> 00:36:26.576 align:center And the snaps on my pack pop off 00:36:26.580 --> 00:36:29.750 align:center and all of my gear just falls off, 00:36:29.750 --> 00:36:31.170 align:center just rolling down this ravine 00:36:31.168 --> 00:36:33.958 align:center and I'm watching it go and I know this is bad, 00:36:33.963 --> 00:36:36.423 align:center but for some reason I just start laughing. 00:36:37.967 --> 00:36:40.177 align:center So I guess I'm wondering, what does that mean? 00:36:42.513 --> 00:36:43.873 align:center Well, that depends. 00:36:43.889 --> 00:36:45.009 align:center Yeah, I know. 00:36:45.015 --> 00:36:47.635 align:center I'm just wondering what you think it means. 00:36:47.643 --> 00:36:49.503 align:center I mean, just give me your two cents. 00:36:50.604 --> 00:36:52.264 align:center I mean, isn't that why we're here? 00:36:55.526 --> 00:36:57.436 align:center I think that's less important 00:36:57.445 --> 00:36:58.355 align:center than your own associations. 00:36:58.362 --> 00:36:59.192 align:center Oh my god! 00:36:59.196 --> 00:37:00.606 align:center I'm sorry, are you always like this? 00:37:00.614 --> 00:37:01.614 align:center Or just here? 00:37:03.576 --> 00:37:04.656 align:center I'm sorry. 00:37:04.660 --> 00:37:06.330 align:center I think we should end early today. 00:37:08.581 --> 00:37:10.571 align:center You're allowed to feel frustrated. 00:37:10.583 --> 00:37:11.993 align:center Yeah, I know I'm allowed. 00:37:12.001 --> 00:37:13.741 align:center With me, I mean. 00:37:20.551 --> 00:37:22.581 align:center What am I like? 00:37:26.182 --> 00:37:27.182 align:center Switzerland. 00:37:29.143 --> 00:37:32.633 align:center That's what Ben and I call you. 00:37:33.564 --> 00:37:35.424 align:center 'Cause when I first started coming, 00:37:35.441 --> 00:37:37.721 align:center he would always ask me whose side you were on. 00:37:38.861 --> 00:37:40.221 align:center I told him 00:37:40.237 --> 00:37:41.647 align:center you don't like taking sides. 00:38:00.382 --> 00:38:02.792 align:center Whoa, slow down, boys. 00:38:21.862 --> 00:38:23.102 align:center Greg! 00:38:23.113 --> 00:38:24.023 align:center Nice to see you. 00:38:24.031 --> 00:38:24.861 align:center Oh, hey. 00:38:24.865 --> 00:38:25.905 align:center Hi. 00:38:25.908 --> 00:38:27.648 align:center I just, I got here early today, 00:38:27.660 --> 00:38:29.660 align:center so I figured I would just, I don't know, 00:38:29.662 --> 00:38:32.072 align:center check in, see if there were any updates. 00:38:32.081 --> 00:38:34.111 align:center Truth is I haven't talked to Bethany this week, 00:38:34.124 --> 00:38:36.034 align:center but we spoke on Friday and she said 00:38:36.043 --> 00:38:39.003 align:center that Jake had actually been a little better. 00:38:39.004 --> 00:38:40.464 align:center Better? 00:38:40.464 --> 00:38:43.254 align:center I mean, I just meant the schools. 00:38:43.259 --> 00:38:45.349 align:center Oh. 00:38:45.344 --> 00:38:46.754 align:center What's up with Bethany? 00:38:46.762 --> 00:38:50.922 align:center No, there were, uh, one or two incidents in class. 00:38:50.933 --> 00:38:53.803 align:center I spoke with Alex about it briefly over the phone. 00:38:54.895 --> 00:38:55.935 align:center She didn't tell me. 00:38:58.023 --> 00:38:59.683 align:center Uh, here, honey, come on in. 00:39:02.653 --> 00:39:04.683 align:center It was nothing serious. 00:39:04.697 --> 00:39:06.687 align:center He's always liked doing things his own way. 00:39:06.699 --> 00:39:07.859 align:center You know that. 00:39:07.867 --> 00:39:09.077 align:center Yes. 00:39:09.076 --> 00:39:11.986 align:center But lately, according to Bethany, 00:39:11.996 --> 00:39:14.706 align:center he's been a little more... 00:39:15.833 --> 00:39:16.833 align:center Obsessive? 00:39:17.751 --> 00:39:19.911 align:center Refusing to leave the dress-up corner 00:39:19.920 --> 00:39:22.880 align:center when it's time to move on to something else. 00:39:22.882 --> 00:39:26.242 align:center He'll act out the uh, oh, what do you call it? 00:39:26.260 --> 00:39:28.350 align:center The stroke of midnight. 00:39:28.345 --> 00:39:29.805 align:center Over and over again. - Oh, right. 00:39:29.805 --> 00:39:30.635 align:center Right. 00:39:30.639 --> 00:39:31.509 align:center Bong, bong, bong. 00:39:31.515 --> 00:39:33.505 align:center Yeah, wait come back! 00:39:33.517 --> 00:39:35.507 align:center I don't even know your name. 00:39:35.519 --> 00:39:37.109 align:center Exactly. 00:39:37.104 --> 00:39:39.144 align:center Alex says he's been fine at home. 00:39:41.859 --> 00:39:45.649 align:center No, no, he's just, it's, he's been a handful lately. 00:39:45.654 --> 00:39:47.314 align:center It's normal stuff. 00:39:53.037 --> 00:39:57.997 align:center Alex thinks that maybe we need to set 00:39:59.668 --> 00:40:02.158 align:center better boundaries, so that Jake can learn 00:40:02.171 --> 00:40:03.781 align:center a little more self control. 00:40:04.757 --> 00:40:05.757 align:center Do you agree? 00:40:06.800 --> 00:40:09.010 align:center It's just that I also know that she's not... 00:40:10.095 --> 00:40:12.675 align:center She's not totally herself right now. 00:40:12.681 --> 00:40:13.711 align:center And I don't blame her. 00:40:13.724 --> 00:40:15.254 align:center You know, she's scheduling everything, 00:40:15.267 --> 00:40:17.927 align:center the interviews, the tours. 00:40:17.937 --> 00:40:20.557 align:center For a while there she was nauseous every other morning. 00:40:20.564 --> 00:40:21.674 align:center She's been sick? 00:40:24.485 --> 00:40:25.695 align:center Oh, shit. 00:40:27.905 --> 00:40:29.025 align:center Please don't tell anyone. 00:40:29.031 --> 00:40:29.861 align:center Oh, I won't, I won't. 00:40:29.865 --> 00:40:30.725 align:center I just, we're not telling anyone 00:40:30.741 --> 00:40:31.601 align:center till we're past 13 weeks, you know? 00:40:31.617 --> 00:40:32.447 align:center I understand. 00:40:32.451 --> 00:40:33.941 align:center She told people sooner last time 00:40:33.953 --> 00:40:34.783 align:center and then when we lost the baby... 00:40:34.787 --> 00:40:36.497 align:center I know how hard she took it. 00:40:39.041 --> 00:40:41.371 align:center I just know how much she respects you. 00:40:41.377 --> 00:40:42.667 align:center She always has. 00:40:42.670 --> 00:40:46.210 align:center And I was thinking if you do talk to her 00:40:46.215 --> 00:40:47.215 align:center that maybe... 00:40:48.509 --> 00:40:52.219 align:center You could try to reassure her that nothing's wrong, just, 00:40:52.221 --> 00:40:53.671 align:center that things are gonna be okay. 00:40:56.475 --> 00:40:58.465 align:center I'd like to show you something. 00:40:58.477 --> 00:40:59.477 align:center If you have a minute. 00:41:01.855 --> 00:41:05.145 align:center He did these last Thursday. 00:41:06.777 --> 00:41:10.067 align:center I was going to show Alex, but as long as you're here. 00:41:13.742 --> 00:41:15.482 align:center Jake did these? 00:41:15.494 --> 00:41:16.494 align:center Mm-hmm. 00:41:19.540 --> 00:41:20.710 align:center But they don't... 00:41:20.708 --> 00:41:21.918 align:center They don't look like his. 00:41:26.338 --> 00:41:28.378 align:center I mean, I get it, it's... 00:41:29.800 --> 00:41:30.800 align:center That's a lot of blood. 00:41:32.052 --> 00:41:34.882 align:center Well, the blood's one thing. 00:41:34.888 --> 00:41:37.758 align:center A lot of children are fascinated by it. 00:41:37.766 --> 00:41:39.096 align:center And justifiably so. 00:41:40.352 --> 00:41:44.472 align:center But sometimes artwork like this can be an opportunity. 00:41:44.481 --> 00:41:46.591 align:center It can help us understand something 00:41:46.608 --> 00:41:50.358 align:center a child might be having difficulty communicating. 00:41:58.120 --> 00:42:01.290 align:center Do you ever see children in your practice? 00:42:01.290 --> 00:42:02.130 align:center Uh, no. 00:42:02.124 --> 00:42:04.834 align:center Couples, occasionally, but mostly individuals. 00:42:04.835 --> 00:42:05.835 align:center Why? 00:42:06.962 --> 00:42:08.292 align:center I guess it's beside the point. 00:42:08.297 --> 00:42:13.007 align:center I was uh, just curious if Jake has, 00:42:14.094 --> 00:42:17.134 align:center you know, ever expressed concern to either of you 00:42:17.139 --> 00:42:18.139 align:center about his gender. 00:42:19.558 --> 00:42:20.558 align:center No. 00:42:22.895 --> 00:42:24.305 align:center I mean, I don't think so. 00:42:26.815 --> 00:42:29.525 align:center There's a curiosity maybe. 00:42:29.526 --> 00:42:32.146 align:center Um, he asked once, we were having dinner, 00:42:32.154 --> 00:42:37.024 align:center and he asked why boys can't wear skirts. 00:42:37.034 --> 00:42:39.244 align:center You know, 'cause girls can wear pants. 00:42:40.537 --> 00:42:41.657 align:center What'd you tell him? 00:42:41.663 --> 00:42:42.773 align:center We told him the truth, I guess, 00:42:42.790 --> 00:42:45.710 align:center which is there is no good reason, really. 00:42:47.169 --> 00:42:50.169 align:center But then I mentioned that um, in Scotland 00:42:50.172 --> 00:42:54.462 align:center men wear kilts, which are kinda like skirts. 00:42:54.468 --> 00:42:57.258 align:center We Google imaged kilts, looked at some pictures. 00:42:58.222 --> 00:43:00.332 align:center He wasn't very impressed. 00:43:01.809 --> 00:43:04.809 align:center So you didn't tell him there are men 00:43:04.812 --> 00:43:07.422 align:center who do wear dresses in our culture? 00:43:18.408 --> 00:43:21.118 align:center You talk to Judy at all recently? 00:43:22.246 --> 00:43:24.156 align:center Week before last maybe. 00:43:24.164 --> 00:43:25.164 align:center Why? 00:43:28.085 --> 00:43:31.325 align:center I was just wondering if we might want to 00:43:31.338 --> 00:43:33.328 align:center bring Jake to see someone. 00:43:33.340 --> 00:43:34.460 align:center A professional. 00:43:34.466 --> 00:43:35.336 align:center Why? 00:43:35.342 --> 00:43:38.202 align:center It's a lot of change all at once, you know? 00:43:39.346 --> 00:43:40.966 align:center We visited a bunch of schools. 00:43:40.973 --> 00:43:42.083 align:center Right. 00:43:42.099 --> 00:43:43.769 align:center I mean, and if he's already having trouble 00:43:43.767 --> 00:43:46.887 align:center regulating his you know, I mean... 00:43:49.857 --> 00:43:51.767 align:center Maybe it could be helpful. 00:43:51.775 --> 00:43:53.935 align:center You don't think that might make things worse? 00:43:53.944 --> 00:43:54.944 align:center How? 00:43:56.363 --> 00:43:57.563 align:center I don't know. 00:43:57.573 --> 00:43:58.983 align:center He's only four. 00:44:00.784 --> 00:44:02.694 align:center We put him in therapy and then there's, 00:44:03.996 --> 00:44:06.656 align:center suddenly there's a stranger asking all these questions. 00:44:06.665 --> 00:44:08.625 align:center You know that's not how it works. 00:44:10.210 --> 00:44:11.080 align:center But what if he starts thinking 00:44:11.086 --> 00:44:12.126 align:center there's something wrong with him? 00:44:12.129 --> 00:44:14.089 align:center That's not what I'm saying. 00:44:14.089 --> 00:44:16.799 align:center No, I know it's not, but, you know, it's... 00:44:18.927 --> 00:44:21.047 align:center I don't know, it's the message he might get. 00:44:28.937 --> 00:44:30.597 align:center Kids are moody. 00:44:30.606 --> 00:44:31.606 align:center He'll be fine. 00:44:38.822 --> 00:44:41.022 align:center Okay, I think it's time that we clean all this up 00:44:41.033 --> 00:44:41.863 align:center and get ready to go home. 00:44:41.867 --> 00:44:43.447 align:center ♪ Clean up everybody clean up ♪ 00:44:43.452 --> 00:44:45.812 align:center Jake, I'd like you to come out and help us, please. 00:44:45.829 --> 00:44:46.659 align:center Come on, Jake. 00:44:46.663 --> 00:44:47.493 align:center No. 00:44:47.497 --> 00:44:49.657 align:center I really, really, really need your help to clean up 00:44:49.666 --> 00:44:52.076 align:center because we're getting ready to go home. 00:44:52.085 --> 00:44:52.915 align:center Come on, Jake. 00:44:52.920 --> 00:44:53.840 align:center Jake, I'd like you to come out and help us 00:44:53.837 --> 00:44:55.577 align:center clean this up. 00:44:55.589 --> 00:44:56.589 align:center Please? 00:45:01.970 --> 00:45:03.340 align:center Do you need help in there? 00:45:13.815 --> 00:45:14.935 align:center Sandra, hi. 00:45:14.942 --> 00:45:16.602 align:center It's Greg Wheeler. 00:45:16.610 --> 00:45:18.610 align:center I thought we were scheduled for 2PM today. 00:45:18.612 --> 00:45:20.692 align:center Um, maybe you're on your way. 00:45:20.697 --> 00:45:23.237 align:center Or maybe something came up. 00:45:23.242 --> 00:45:26.532 align:center Anyway, call me back so we can reschedule. 00:45:26.536 --> 00:45:27.536 align:center If we need to. 00:45:42.386 --> 00:45:44.096 align:center Here you go, bud. 00:45:44.096 --> 00:45:46.086 align:center You working on your states again? 00:45:46.098 --> 00:45:46.928 align:center Yeah. 00:45:46.932 --> 00:45:48.212 align:center Oh, I bet that's your grandma. 00:45:51.103 --> 00:45:52.303 align:center Ah, Catherine! 00:45:52.312 --> 00:45:53.262 align:center You are a lifesaver. 00:45:53.272 --> 00:45:54.102 align:center I'm so sorry. 00:45:54.106 --> 00:45:55.646 align:center We had a sitter lined up. 00:45:55.649 --> 00:45:57.769 align:center She's very reliable, I have no idea what happened this time. 00:45:57.776 --> 00:45:59.236 align:center Well, I don't know why you would pay anyone. 00:45:59.236 --> 00:46:00.896 align:center - Well... - I've told Alex 00:46:00.904 --> 00:46:03.314 align:center a thousand times, I'm happy to have my time with you both. 00:46:03.323 --> 00:46:04.353 align:center And that's very sweet, we just, 00:46:04.366 --> 00:46:05.276 align:center we know that you're busy. 00:46:05.284 --> 00:46:06.114 align:center Hi, Mom, hi. 00:46:06.118 --> 00:46:06.948 align:center Here do you want me to... 00:46:06.952 --> 00:46:07.782 align:center Hi, honey. 00:46:07.786 --> 00:46:09.946 align:center Oh, I ran into Simon Weingold. 00:46:09.955 --> 00:46:11.615 align:center He was asking after you. 00:46:11.623 --> 00:46:12.983 align:center Said they're missing you terribly. 00:46:13.000 --> 00:46:13.960 align:center Aw, that's nice of him. 00:46:13.959 --> 00:46:14.949 align:center And I said with Jake in school next year, 00:46:14.960 --> 00:46:18.050 align:center you're gonna have a lot more time on your hands. 00:46:18.046 --> 00:46:19.006 align:center Uh, Jake! 00:46:19.006 --> 00:46:20.216 align:center Come say hi to Nana. 00:46:20.215 --> 00:46:21.375 align:center I still need Montana. 00:46:21.383 --> 00:46:22.713 align:center Honey, no time to curl your hair? 00:46:22.718 --> 00:46:24.928 align:center How often do you go out for goodness sakes? 00:46:24.928 --> 00:46:27.018 align:center Well, wear it behind if you can't, yeah. 00:46:28.432 --> 00:46:29.672 align:center Oh, what have we got here? 00:46:29.683 --> 00:46:32.393 align:center Oh, that's from the dress-up corner at Jake's school, 00:46:32.394 --> 00:46:33.224 align:center his teacher let him take it. 00:46:33.228 --> 00:46:34.268 align:center Let me see it. 00:46:34.271 --> 00:46:37.761 align:center Oh, no need to explain, I do read the New York Times. 00:46:37.774 --> 00:46:39.984 align:center God forbid anything should be off limits. 00:46:39.985 --> 00:46:40.815 align:center So um... 00:46:40.819 --> 00:46:42.529 align:center Where is my favorite grandson? 00:46:42.529 --> 00:46:44.019 align:center His dinner's ready in the fridge, 00:46:44.031 --> 00:46:45.561 align:center just zap it in the microwave two, three minutes. 00:46:45.574 --> 00:46:47.364 align:center Set the timer... - Remember, keep it behind. 00:46:47.367 --> 00:46:48.197 align:center Yeah, I have used a microwave before. 00:46:48.201 --> 00:46:49.561 align:center Oh, and the super is right downstairs. 00:46:49.578 --> 00:46:51.568 align:center If you need anything, just knock. 00:46:51.580 --> 00:46:53.670 align:center He stays there, he's almost always home. 00:46:53.665 --> 00:46:55.995 align:center I did raise two of my own. 00:46:56.001 --> 00:46:57.331 align:center You remember that, don't you? 00:46:57.336 --> 00:46:58.166 align:center Very true. 00:46:58.170 --> 00:46:59.010 align:center Thank you. 00:46:59.004 --> 00:46:59.834 align:center Okay, put a brush through your hair, honey. 00:46:59.838 --> 00:47:00.668 align:center - Okay. - Really. 00:47:00.672 --> 00:47:01.502 align:center Thank you again. 00:47:01.506 --> 00:47:02.336 align:center Love you. - All right, bye bye. 00:47:02.341 --> 00:47:05.041 align:center - Thank you. - Bye bye. 00:47:05.052 --> 00:47:07.502 align:center Here I come, ready or not! 00:47:07.512 --> 00:47:09.592 align:center Yeah, marketing has got to be fascinating in that way, 00:47:09.598 --> 00:47:11.968 align:center just the whole trying to get inside people's heads. 00:47:11.975 --> 00:47:14.055 align:center It must be such a creative challenge. 00:47:14.061 --> 00:47:16.141 align:center You know, it is not about being creative. 00:47:16.146 --> 00:47:17.556 align:center That's what people don't get. 00:47:17.564 --> 00:47:18.724 align:center Well, I think you're creative. 00:47:18.732 --> 00:47:20.642 align:center Thank you, but you gotta understand. 00:47:20.650 --> 00:47:23.610 align:center People are up against so many goddamn options... 00:47:23.612 --> 00:47:24.892 align:center - Do you want some? - No. 00:47:24.905 --> 00:47:26.525 align:center For everything, right? 00:47:26.531 --> 00:47:29.141 align:center I mean, you walk into a market you see like, 00:47:29.159 --> 00:47:31.249 align:center twenty different kinds of water for Christ's sake? 00:47:31.244 --> 00:47:32.454 align:center I mean, so the best marketing strategy 00:47:32.454 --> 00:47:33.234 align:center is not about being creative... 00:47:33.246 --> 00:47:34.286 align:center - Here. - Greg, I said no. 00:47:34.289 --> 00:47:35.119 align:center I'm not gonna eat it anyway. 00:47:35.123 --> 00:47:36.323 align:center No, it's about being direct. 00:47:36.333 --> 00:47:38.033 align:center It's about being simple. 00:47:38.043 --> 00:47:42.203 align:center And ultimately, people and look, I'll just say this, 00:47:42.214 --> 00:47:45.254 align:center I'm sorry, especially women, 00:47:46.218 --> 00:47:48.758 align:center they wanna be told what to do. 00:47:48.762 --> 00:47:51.622 align:center No, we don't. 00:47:51.640 --> 00:47:53.260 align:center I call complete bullshit on that. 00:47:53.266 --> 00:47:54.136 align:center It's not bullshit. 00:47:54.142 --> 00:47:54.972 align:center So much bullshit. 00:47:54.976 --> 00:47:56.386 align:center Can I get anyone another round? 00:47:56.395 --> 00:47:57.225 align:center Yeah. 00:47:57.229 --> 00:47:59.439 align:center I would love another drink, uh... 00:47:59.439 --> 00:48:00.269 align:center I'm sorry. 00:48:00.273 --> 00:48:01.973 align:center What is your favorite specialty cocktail? 00:48:01.983 --> 00:48:03.143 align:center Ah, case in point. 00:48:03.151 --> 00:48:04.181 align:center No, that's not what I'm doing. 00:48:04.194 --> 00:48:05.224 align:center I'm asking her opinion. 00:48:05.237 --> 00:48:06.527 align:center I really like the elderflower... 00:48:06.530 --> 00:48:07.370 align:center Hold on, I can't hear you. 00:48:07.364 --> 00:48:09.604 align:center Um, yeah, sure I'll have one of those. 00:48:09.616 --> 00:48:11.106 align:center Thank you. 00:48:11.118 --> 00:48:11.948 align:center What's going on? 00:48:11.952 --> 00:48:12.952 align:center I'm so sorry. 00:48:13.954 --> 00:48:14.954 align:center He what? 00:48:17.249 --> 00:48:18.079 align:center I'll be back. 00:48:18.083 --> 00:48:19.083 align:center Yeah, okay. 00:48:20.585 --> 00:48:21.545 align:center Calm down. 00:48:21.545 --> 00:48:23.085 align:center No, no, I understand. 00:48:23.088 --> 00:48:24.248 align:center What happened? 00:48:24.256 --> 00:48:25.836 align:center He threw Cinderella at her. 00:48:25.841 --> 00:48:26.671 align:center What? 00:48:26.675 --> 00:48:28.665 align:center The figurine. 00:48:30.011 --> 00:48:31.011 align:center Look... 00:48:31.721 --> 00:48:33.461 align:center Look, just put him on the phone, okay? 00:48:33.473 --> 00:48:34.473 align:center I want to talk to him. 00:48:36.017 --> 00:48:37.887 align:center Yeah, well tell him if he doesn't stop now, 00:48:37.894 --> 00:48:39.304 align:center we're canceling his birthday party. 00:48:39.312 --> 00:48:40.262 align:center I'm serious. 00:48:40.272 --> 00:48:41.102 align:center Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, hey! 00:48:41.106 --> 00:48:41.936 align:center No, let me talk to her. 00:48:41.940 --> 00:48:42.780 align:center Let me talk to her, come here. 00:48:42.774 --> 00:48:43.554 align:center Hey. 00:48:43.567 --> 00:48:44.397 align:center Hi, Kate, it's Greg. 00:48:44.401 --> 00:48:45.231 align:center I'm so sorry. 00:48:45.235 --> 00:48:46.065 align:center Do you need us to come home? 00:48:46.069 --> 00:48:46.899 align:center That's exactly what he wants. 00:48:46.903 --> 00:48:47.903 align:center What's that? 00:48:48.697 --> 00:48:49.697 align:center No, I know. 00:48:51.616 --> 00:48:53.486 align:center No, we'll leave the phone on so you... 00:48:55.912 --> 00:48:56.912 align:center Right, okay, well. 00:48:58.206 --> 00:48:59.036 align:center Bye. 00:48:59.040 --> 00:49:01.160 align:center I mean, he's not an idiot, he knows what he's doing. 00:49:01.168 --> 00:49:03.158 align:center Well, yeah, I mean, honestly if you're this upset about it 00:49:03.170 --> 00:49:04.540 align:center you might consider listening to me. 00:49:04.546 --> 00:49:05.756 align:center Maybe we should bring him to see someone. 00:49:05.755 --> 00:49:07.045 align:center Okay, can we not do this right now? 00:49:07.048 --> 00:49:08.838 align:center He just assaulted his grandmother. 00:49:08.842 --> 00:49:10.172 align:center Well, she's probably exaggerating. 00:49:10.177 --> 00:49:12.387 align:center Okay, you threatened to cancel his birthday party 00:49:12.387 --> 00:49:13.877 align:center because she's probably exaggerating? 00:49:13.889 --> 00:49:15.759 align:center Greg, I was setting a boundary. 00:49:15.765 --> 00:49:16.595 align:center That's allowed. 00:49:16.600 --> 00:49:17.770 align:center Yeah, it is, but don't flip it around 00:49:17.767 --> 00:49:18.597 align:center and try to minimize it. 00:49:18.602 --> 00:49:19.632 align:center If he's acting out, he's acting out. 00:49:19.644 --> 00:49:21.934 align:center Greg, he's a kid! 00:49:21.938 --> 00:49:24.608 align:center God forbid he should be a little more aggressive than you. 00:49:30.322 --> 00:49:32.022 align:center I'm so sorry, guys. 00:49:32.032 --> 00:49:33.062 align:center No, of course. 00:49:33.074 --> 00:49:34.064 align:center Is everything okay? 00:49:34.075 --> 00:49:35.035 align:center Oh, you know. 00:49:35.035 --> 00:49:37.615 align:center He's just punishing us for having a night out. 00:49:37.621 --> 00:49:39.361 align:center You know, maybe I should go. 00:49:39.372 --> 00:49:40.652 align:center Greg, we offered. 00:49:40.665 --> 00:49:41.495 align:center I know, but I just think that if one of us was there... 00:49:41.500 --> 00:49:44.920 align:center We can't just upend our plans every time he's in a mood. 00:49:44.920 --> 00:49:46.040 align:center Where's the lesson in that? 00:49:46.046 --> 00:49:47.586 align:center Fine, you're the boss. 00:49:47.589 --> 00:49:48.419 align:center Here you are, miss. 00:49:48.423 --> 00:49:49.283 align:center The elderflower saki tea. 00:49:49.299 --> 00:49:50.589 align:center Thank you, perfect timing. 00:49:50.592 --> 00:49:52.002 align:center Cheers to grown up time. 00:49:52.010 --> 00:49:53.300 align:center Cheers. 00:49:54.221 --> 00:49:57.961 align:center So, Caitlyn Jenner. 00:49:57.974 --> 00:50:00.184 align:center Is she a lesbian now or what? 00:50:00.185 --> 00:50:01.045 align:center What? 00:50:01.061 --> 00:50:03.221 align:center Well, okay, so I was listening to this interview 00:50:03.230 --> 00:50:06.520 align:center where um, he, she... 00:50:06.525 --> 00:50:09.605 align:center Well, yeah, Miss Jenner, uh, she said that she was 00:50:09.611 --> 00:50:12.521 align:center still attracted to women and you know, 00:50:12.531 --> 00:50:14.521 align:center even though now she's a... 00:50:14.533 --> 00:50:16.993 align:center So I was just wondering is she, 00:50:16.993 --> 00:50:17.823 align:center like what is she now? 00:50:17.827 --> 00:50:18.657 align:center Is she a lesbian? - I'm sorry, 00:50:18.662 --> 00:50:19.742 align:center how did we get on to... 00:50:19.746 --> 00:50:22.326 align:center I know, I was just, I have no idea. 00:50:22.332 --> 00:50:24.492 align:center You know, he watches so much TV. 00:50:24.501 --> 00:50:25.331 align:center Stop. 00:50:25.335 --> 00:50:26.165 align:center I was just reminded of it because 00:50:26.169 --> 00:50:28.919 align:center when you were outside we were talking about your son. 00:50:30.924 --> 00:50:34.414 align:center I was just explaining that... 00:50:35.929 --> 00:50:38.389 align:center I was just saying it's hard, you know. 00:50:38.390 --> 00:50:40.930 align:center Admissions time, kindergarten, it's so hard 00:50:40.934 --> 00:50:43.644 align:center for a child, you know who... 00:50:43.645 --> 00:50:45.555 align:center Who what? 00:50:45.564 --> 00:50:48.354 align:center Who has a unique expression, Alex... 00:50:48.358 --> 00:50:50.448 align:center Listen, hey, you know, my brother, Mikey, 00:50:50.443 --> 00:50:55.403 align:center when he was a kid, he was obsessed with that uh, 00:50:55.407 --> 00:50:58.777 align:center that game Pretty Pretty Princess and you know, 00:50:58.785 --> 00:51:01.655 align:center you cut to freshman year of college 00:51:01.663 --> 00:51:04.873 align:center and he's on the football team, 200 pounds six foot three. 00:51:04.874 --> 00:51:05.784 align:center So, it just goes to show you... 00:51:05.792 --> 00:51:07.782 align:center I'm not sure I follow this. 00:51:07.794 --> 00:51:09.404 align:center I'm just saying that you may, 00:51:09.421 --> 00:51:12.661 align:center you probably don't need to worry, that's all. 00:51:12.674 --> 00:51:14.034 align:center No one's worried. 00:51:14.050 --> 00:51:15.090 align:center That's not what he meant. 00:51:15.093 --> 00:51:15.923 align:center Well, that's not exactly true. 00:51:15.927 --> 00:51:17.007 align:center I'm a little worried. 00:51:17.012 --> 00:51:19.002 align:center And so are his teachers, apparently. 00:51:19.014 --> 00:51:19.924 align:center All right, you know what? 00:51:19.931 --> 00:51:20.961 align:center Amal, let me ask you something. 00:51:20.974 --> 00:51:24.264 align:center You took Sanjay to see a therapist last year, right? 00:51:24.269 --> 00:51:25.229 align:center Greg. 00:51:25.228 --> 00:51:27.218 align:center I'm sorry, is that a taboo subject? 00:51:27.230 --> 00:51:28.850 align:center I just, we're all friends here. 00:51:28.857 --> 00:51:30.097 align:center I think you've had a little too much to drink. 00:51:30.108 --> 00:51:31.438 align:center I just am curious 00:51:31.443 --> 00:51:34.733 align:center about your experience as a parent. 00:51:34.738 --> 00:51:35.858 align:center And it's fine. 00:51:37.198 --> 00:51:39.438 align:center Well, with the divorce we wanted to be safe, 00:51:39.451 --> 00:51:40.981 align:center so I took him to a therapist. 00:51:40.994 --> 00:51:41.824 align:center Thank you. 00:51:41.828 --> 00:51:44.288 align:center Okay, well that was a very different situation. 00:51:44.289 --> 00:51:45.119 align:center How is that different? 00:51:45.123 --> 00:51:46.453 align:center Because with Sanjay there was an obvious problem. 00:51:46.458 --> 00:51:48.288 align:center What do you mean by that? 00:51:48.293 --> 00:51:49.653 align:center No, no, not problem, I... 00:51:49.669 --> 00:51:50.499 align:center Right. 00:51:50.503 --> 00:51:52.083 align:center No, no, no, I just meant, 00:51:52.088 --> 00:51:54.248 align:center you know, there was something external, not... 00:51:54.257 --> 00:51:55.797 align:center just how he likes to play. - I think we should just, 00:51:55.800 --> 00:51:56.640 align:center I really think we should just drop this right now. 00:51:56.635 --> 00:51:58.715 align:center It's more than how he likes to play. 00:51:58.720 --> 00:51:59.560 align:center What's that supposed to mean? 00:51:59.554 --> 00:52:00.384 align:center It means... 00:52:00.388 --> 00:52:01.218 align:center What? 00:52:01.222 --> 00:52:02.052 align:center What were you going to say? 00:52:02.057 --> 00:52:02.887 align:center We can talk about it later. 00:52:02.891 --> 00:52:04.001 align:center No, what? 00:52:04.017 --> 00:52:04.847 align:center Let's have it. 00:52:04.851 --> 00:52:05.681 align:center What were you gonna say? 00:52:05.685 --> 00:52:06.685 align:center We're all friends, right? 00:52:07.896 --> 00:52:08.766 align:center Fine. 00:52:08.772 --> 00:52:11.352 align:center Uh, I was giving Jake a bath the other night 00:52:11.358 --> 00:52:14.978 align:center and he tucked his penis between his legs, okay? 00:52:14.986 --> 00:52:17.146 align:center All boys do that. 00:52:17.155 --> 00:52:18.525 align:center Right? 00:52:18.531 --> 00:52:19.441 align:center - Well, not really. - Sure. 00:52:19.449 --> 00:52:21.949 align:center Oh, come on, you're saying Sanjay's never... 00:52:21.951 --> 00:52:22.781 align:center No. 00:52:22.786 --> 00:52:24.576 align:center And you're saying he's done this before? 00:52:24.579 --> 00:52:26.619 align:center Well, it's bath time. 00:52:26.623 --> 00:52:28.573 align:center What am I supposed to say, no? 00:52:28.583 --> 00:52:30.363 align:center Clearly you're the one who had a problem with it. 00:52:30.377 --> 00:52:31.787 align:center I didn't say I had a problem with it. 00:52:31.795 --> 00:52:34.035 align:center I said that there are people who specialize 00:52:34.047 --> 00:52:35.757 align:center in exactly this type of behavior. 00:52:35.757 --> 00:52:37.797 align:center Frankly, I'm not sure what Jake needs right now 00:52:37.801 --> 00:52:39.081 align:center is one more adult in his life 00:52:39.094 --> 00:52:40.554 align:center gossiping behind his back. 00:52:40.553 --> 00:52:41.383 align:center Oh my god. 00:52:41.388 --> 00:52:42.848 align:center Trying to come up with some sort of diagnosis. 00:52:42.847 --> 00:52:44.467 align:center No one was gossiping, Alex, you need to really... 00:52:44.474 --> 00:52:45.384 align:center I'm sorry, I didn't realize we were talking about 00:52:45.392 --> 00:52:46.222 align:center a disease here. 00:52:46.226 --> 00:52:47.056 align:center It's just... 00:52:47.060 --> 00:52:49.520 align:center Hey, can I interest anyone in some dessert? 00:52:49.521 --> 00:52:50.351 align:center We're good. 00:52:50.355 --> 00:52:51.565 align:center Just... 00:52:51.564 --> 00:52:52.564 align:center Just the check. 00:53:33.773 --> 00:53:34.933 align:center Okay. 00:53:34.941 --> 00:53:37.851 align:center You can just take a seat back there. 00:53:40.155 --> 00:53:41.565 align:center How much have I gained? 00:53:41.573 --> 00:53:44.283 align:center Three pounds since last time. 00:53:44.284 --> 00:53:47.824 align:center So a total of almost five. 00:53:49.414 --> 00:53:50.994 align:center I feel like with my son it was more. 00:53:50.999 --> 00:53:53.459 align:center Yeah, it varies, but it's definitely 00:53:53.460 --> 00:53:54.580 align:center within the normal range. 00:53:56.171 --> 00:54:00.251 align:center And your iron was a little low last time. 00:54:00.258 --> 00:54:03.178 align:center I'm taking the supplement he recommended. 00:54:18.109 --> 00:54:20.449 align:center Take a deep breath. 00:54:20.445 --> 00:54:25.405 align:center Okay. 00:54:28.077 --> 00:54:29.157 align:center Just breathe. 00:55:04.823 --> 00:55:06.433 align:center Hey! 00:55:06.449 --> 00:55:07.279 align:center Hi, Kimmy! 00:55:07.283 --> 00:55:08.113 align:center Good Lord! 00:55:08.117 --> 00:55:10.077 align:center That's almost as big as Jake. 00:55:10.078 --> 00:55:11.198 align:center Yeah, well, I kept the receipt. 00:55:11.204 --> 00:55:12.314 align:center I know he's particular. 00:55:13.581 --> 00:55:14.911 align:center Um, you guys know Amal, right? 00:55:14.916 --> 00:55:15.826 align:center - Hi. - Hi. 00:55:15.834 --> 00:55:17.074 align:center Nice to see you! 00:55:17.085 --> 00:55:18.085 align:center How are you? 00:55:19.671 --> 00:55:21.661 align:center Oh, my goodness gracious. 00:55:22.757 --> 00:55:23.587 align:center Hi, Mom. 00:55:23.591 --> 00:55:24.421 align:center Oh, hi, honey. 00:55:24.425 --> 00:55:25.795 align:center Don't you look nice? 00:55:25.802 --> 00:55:26.662 align:center Who is uh... 00:55:26.678 --> 00:55:29.168 align:center Hi, Kimmy, how are you doing? 00:55:33.309 --> 00:55:35.099 align:center Kimmy, we don't run inside! 00:55:35.103 --> 00:55:37.013 align:center It's a giant teddy bear. 00:55:37.021 --> 00:55:39.051 align:center Can I hold it? 00:55:39.065 --> 00:55:39.895 align:center Can I see it? 00:55:39.899 --> 00:55:41.769 align:center Everybody, it's for Jake, it's his present. 00:55:41.776 --> 00:55:44.016 align:center It's his birthday, thank you. 00:56:01.170 --> 00:56:02.590 align:center You need some help, sweetheart? 00:56:02.589 --> 00:56:03.629 align:center No, I'm almost done. 00:56:03.631 --> 00:56:04.461 align:center Ah. 00:56:04.465 --> 00:56:05.425 align:center My daughter the baker. 00:56:05.425 --> 00:56:07.715 align:center You know I wish you wouldn't do that. 00:56:07.719 --> 00:56:09.179 align:center What? 00:56:09.178 --> 00:56:11.798 align:center Like all this is just... 00:56:11.806 --> 00:56:12.926 align:center A waste of time. 00:56:14.309 --> 00:56:17.099 align:center I wasn't... 00:56:17.103 --> 00:56:20.393 align:center I just meant you didn't learn that from me. 00:56:26.029 --> 00:56:27.569 align:center Stop it! 00:56:27.572 --> 00:56:28.852 align:center Hey, stop it, Sanjay! 00:56:28.865 --> 00:56:30.655 align:center What is the matter with you, baby? 00:56:30.658 --> 00:56:31.648 align:center What happened? 00:56:31.659 --> 00:56:33.699 align:center Sanjay pushed Bobby. 00:56:33.703 --> 00:56:37.073 align:center He started it because Bobby called Jake a flag. 00:56:37.081 --> 00:56:38.081 align:center Oh. 00:56:39.751 --> 00:56:40.751 align:center Flag? 00:56:44.130 --> 00:56:44.970 align:center Jake, honey. 00:56:44.964 --> 00:56:46.204 align:center Hey, Mom, no, no, no, no, I got it. 00:56:46.215 --> 00:56:47.215 align:center I got it. 00:56:57.560 --> 00:56:58.560 align:center Hey. 00:57:01.105 --> 00:57:02.105 align:center Hey, you okay? 00:57:03.900 --> 00:57:05.610 align:center It's almost time to make a wish. 00:57:09.572 --> 00:57:11.062 align:center Babe, come on. 00:57:13.701 --> 00:57:14.701 align:center Honey. 00:57:16.162 --> 00:57:18.612 align:center Honey, talk to me, please? 00:58:18.725 --> 00:58:20.805 align:center You know, just... 00:58:20.810 --> 00:58:22.180 align:center Excuse me one moment. 00:58:22.186 --> 00:58:23.186 align:center Sure. 00:58:31.070 --> 00:58:31.910 align:center Laurel. 00:58:31.904 --> 00:58:32.734 align:center It's gotta stop. 00:58:32.739 --> 00:58:34.359 align:center Look, I know that you're with a client right now 00:58:34.365 --> 00:58:35.985 align:center and I really hate to interrupt, but this is... 00:58:35.992 --> 00:58:37.352 align:center I'm not with a client. 00:58:38.870 --> 00:58:39.710 align:center What? 00:58:39.704 --> 00:58:41.914 align:center I said I'm not with a client. 00:58:45.251 --> 00:58:46.781 align:center You seem angry. 00:58:46.794 --> 00:58:48.704 align:center Is there something you need to release? 00:59:04.812 --> 00:59:06.092 align:center Well, we'll talk to you next week. 00:59:06.105 --> 00:59:07.095 align:center Thank you so much. 00:59:07.106 --> 00:59:08.476 align:center Fingers crossed. 00:59:09.942 --> 00:59:11.182 align:center Right on time. 00:59:11.194 --> 00:59:12.854 align:center Yeah, got some good news for us? 00:59:14.113 --> 00:59:15.113 align:center Come on in. 00:59:18.618 --> 00:59:22.908 align:center Okay, but this is preliminary feedback, right? 00:59:22.914 --> 00:59:24.624 align:center They haven't made their decisions. 00:59:24.624 --> 00:59:25.484 align:center That's true. 00:59:25.500 --> 00:59:28.040 align:center So, is there any chance one could still end up 00:59:28.044 --> 00:59:29.374 align:center accepting him? 00:59:29.378 --> 00:59:32.628 align:center It's possible, but I have to be honest. 00:59:32.632 --> 00:59:34.792 align:center At this point it's unlikely 00:59:34.801 --> 00:59:36.541 align:center it would come with financial aid. 00:59:36.552 --> 00:59:38.882 align:center What about the magnets? 00:59:38.888 --> 00:59:40.378 align:center BSI, PS20? 00:59:40.389 --> 00:59:42.099 align:center We'll know more in a few weeks. 00:59:42.100 --> 00:59:44.060 align:center But his scores were so high. 00:59:44.060 --> 00:59:45.770 align:center They were very strong. 00:59:45.770 --> 00:59:47.140 align:center But the cutoffs go up every year. 00:59:47.146 --> 00:59:48.766 align:center There's just too much demand. 00:59:50.525 --> 00:59:53.685 align:center So you're saying he could be shut out everywhere? 00:59:54.862 --> 00:59:57.472 align:center I'm saying we need to be prepared. 01:00:00.827 --> 01:00:02.947 align:center You know, this is a numbers game. 01:00:02.954 --> 01:00:03.784 align:center We knew this. 01:00:03.788 --> 01:00:05.278 align:center I mean, we went to public school. 01:00:05.289 --> 01:00:07.499 align:center We turned out okay, right? 01:00:07.500 --> 01:00:09.920 align:center Remember, he could also do another year with us, 01:00:09.919 --> 01:00:11.329 align:center reapply next fall. 01:00:11.337 --> 01:00:15.127 align:center I know it's not ideal, but under the circumstances, 01:00:15.133 --> 01:00:17.243 align:center I think it might be the best thing for him. 01:00:18.219 --> 01:00:19.259 align:center What do you mean? 01:00:19.262 --> 01:00:20.122 align:center She's just listing options. 01:00:20.138 --> 01:00:21.678 align:center I mean, if the gifted programs don't work out. 01:00:21.681 --> 01:00:24.791 align:center No, but, but what circumstances? 01:00:24.809 --> 01:00:26.399 align:center Look. 01:00:26.394 --> 01:00:28.724 align:center There's no question he's bright. 01:00:28.729 --> 01:00:32.149 align:center He's creative, that comes across in all of the feedback. 01:00:32.150 --> 01:00:36.240 align:center But several places also note that he gets stubborn 01:00:36.237 --> 01:00:38.317 align:center and defensive when dealing with other kids. 01:00:38.322 --> 01:00:40.522 align:center Frankly, you two are very lucky to be 01:00:40.533 --> 01:00:43.573 align:center raising a kid like Jake now instead of 50 years ago, 01:00:43.578 --> 01:00:44.948 align:center even 20 years ago. 01:00:44.954 --> 01:00:46.814 align:center And what exactly does that mean? 01:00:46.831 --> 01:00:47.991 align:center A kid like Jake? 01:00:47.999 --> 01:00:48.829 align:center Okay, you know what, I think we're getting 01:00:48.833 --> 01:00:49.663 align:center off-topic here. 01:00:49.667 --> 01:00:51.537 align:center Alex, I'm very sorry that this isn't 01:00:51.544 --> 01:00:52.784 align:center the news we were hoping for, 01:00:52.795 --> 01:00:55.285 align:center but you have to understand the number of spots 01:00:55.298 --> 01:00:56.128 align:center we're talking about. 01:00:56.132 --> 01:00:58.992 align:center Of course, and I know how many kids you have to place. 01:00:59.010 --> 01:01:02.430 align:center Whoa, I'm not sure what you're implying here, 01:01:02.430 --> 01:01:05.140 align:center but you know that I care very deeply about Jake, 01:01:05.141 --> 01:01:07.381 align:center which is why I'm doing everything in my power 01:01:07.393 --> 01:01:09.383 align:center to place him somewhere where he feels safe 01:01:09.395 --> 01:01:10.765 align:center and comfortable enough to... 01:01:10.771 --> 01:01:12.301 align:center To dress like a girl. 01:01:12.315 --> 01:01:13.145 align:center Okay. 01:01:13.149 --> 01:01:14.769 align:center That's obviously what you're saying. 01:01:14.775 --> 01:01:15.605 align:center Alex... 01:01:15.610 --> 01:01:17.780 align:center And maybe the problem is that we all 01:01:17.778 --> 01:01:19.148 align:center started pitching him as some kind of... 01:01:19.155 --> 01:01:19.985 align:center Alex, he had no idea what was in that essay. 01:01:19.989 --> 01:01:21.329 align:center It doesn't matter. 01:01:21.324 --> 01:01:23.184 align:center Obviously it's going to affect the way 01:01:23.201 --> 01:01:24.031 align:center that people treat him. 01:01:24.035 --> 01:01:26.745 align:center I'm talking about him feeling safe and respected. 01:01:26.746 --> 01:01:27.576 align:center Yes! 01:01:27.580 --> 01:01:29.420 align:center But isn't there a danger of imposing... 01:01:29.415 --> 01:01:32.575 align:center Imposing what exactly? 01:01:32.585 --> 01:01:35.575 align:center No, not imposing. 01:01:35.588 --> 01:01:37.128 align:center That was... 01:01:37.131 --> 01:01:38.131 align:center That... 01:01:38.925 --> 01:01:40.215 align:center Greg. 01:01:40.218 --> 01:01:43.338 align:center Alex, do you think my sexual orientation 01:01:43.346 --> 01:01:46.756 align:center has anything to do with my advice regarding your son? 01:01:46.766 --> 01:01:47.596 align:center What? 01:01:47.600 --> 01:01:48.440 align:center Judy, of course not. 01:01:48.434 --> 01:01:50.764 align:center Because every time I try to bring up my concerns, 01:01:50.770 --> 01:01:53.810 align:center you respond like I'm pushing some political agenda. 01:01:53.814 --> 01:01:56.724 align:center And let me tell you, the impulse to embrace children 01:01:56.734 --> 01:01:58.194 align:center as they are is not an agenda. 01:01:58.194 --> 01:01:59.524 align:center No, I never said... 01:01:59.528 --> 01:02:00.358 align:center And like it or not, 01:02:00.363 --> 01:02:02.143 align:center you two have some choices to make here. 01:02:02.156 --> 01:02:03.066 align:center There's a problem. 01:02:03.074 --> 01:02:05.864 align:center If you don't believe me, just read the feedback yourself. 01:02:05.868 --> 01:02:08.288 align:center He's acting out verbally, physically. 01:02:08.287 --> 01:02:10.527 align:center He is and I mean, maybe... 01:02:10.539 --> 01:02:14.539 align:center Maybe he's sick of us, of us pushing him into this role. 01:02:14.543 --> 01:02:15.623 align:center Alex, you can't expect him 01:02:15.628 --> 01:02:17.718 align:center to never realize he's different. 01:02:17.713 --> 01:02:20.503 align:center No, but I can wait until he tells me himself. 01:02:20.508 --> 01:02:22.048 align:center But it sounds like he's trying, 01:02:22.051 --> 01:02:23.581 align:center but you're just determined to ignore it. 01:02:23.594 --> 01:02:24.544 align:center I am not ignoring it, Jesus! 01:02:24.553 --> 01:02:26.963 align:center Okay, okay, okay. 01:02:26.973 --> 01:02:29.003 align:center Maybe if you had ever had your own kids. 01:02:34.397 --> 01:02:35.397 align:center You know what? 01:02:36.065 --> 01:02:37.395 align:center We're done, okay? 01:02:51.080 --> 01:02:52.080 align:center Ah! 01:03:14.895 --> 01:03:16.105 align:center And I'll come grab him. 01:03:16.105 --> 01:03:19.895 align:center Um, I guess I'll just, I'll text you when we're... 01:03:19.900 --> 01:03:21.190 align:center No, no, everything's fine. 01:03:21.193 --> 01:03:24.023 align:center Um, it'll be fine. 01:03:24.030 --> 01:03:25.450 align:center Yeah, okay. 01:03:25.448 --> 01:03:26.448 align:center Thank you. 01:03:27.116 --> 01:03:28.116 align:center Bye. 01:04:22.004 --> 01:04:23.214 align:center You should lie down. 01:05:07.925 --> 01:05:08.925 align:center Here. 01:05:17.726 --> 01:05:18.726 align:center Come on. 01:05:46.505 --> 01:05:48.625 align:center I think you should leave. 01:05:53.304 --> 01:05:54.514 align:center I'm not going anywhere. 01:05:55.639 --> 01:05:57.349 align:center We don't have to talk, 01:05:57.349 --> 01:05:59.809 align:center but I'm not leaving you alone right now. 01:05:59.810 --> 01:06:02.270 align:center I don't think I can not talk 01:06:05.232 --> 01:06:06.682 align:center if you're here. 01:06:06.692 --> 01:06:07.932 align:center I don't think I can... 01:06:09.904 --> 01:06:13.894 align:center Not say something, something mean. 01:06:13.908 --> 01:06:17.278 align:center I'm very angry. 01:06:19.038 --> 01:06:20.038 align:center I understand. 01:06:21.957 --> 01:06:23.787 align:center I'm angry at you, Greg. 01:06:27.838 --> 01:06:31.008 align:center You should have said something to Judy. 01:06:31.008 --> 01:06:32.968 align:center She was out of line and 01:06:32.968 --> 01:06:35.428 align:center you just sat there. 01:06:44.772 --> 01:06:46.472 align:center We're not gonna have this conversation right now. 01:06:46.482 --> 01:06:47.972 align:center Yes, please tell me what conversations 01:06:47.983 --> 01:06:48.813 align:center we're allowed to have. 01:06:48.817 --> 01:06:50.397 align:center Alex, if you need to be mad at me, that's fine, 01:06:50.402 --> 01:06:51.682 align:center but I am not going to fight. 01:06:51.695 --> 01:06:52.685 align:center That is really the last thing I... 01:06:52.696 --> 01:06:54.736 align:center You should have said something! 01:06:55.824 --> 01:06:58.734 align:center Well, frankly, I could barely get a word in. 01:06:58.744 --> 01:07:01.114 align:center I was trying to keep things from escalating. 01:07:01.121 --> 01:07:03.781 align:center Right, right, God forbid anyone gets angry. 01:07:03.791 --> 01:07:05.901 align:center God forbid you ever piss someone off. 01:07:05.918 --> 01:07:06.878 align:center All right, this is ridiculous. 01:07:06.877 --> 01:07:08.997 align:center You're in shock and we're both grieving. 01:07:09.004 --> 01:07:10.114 align:center Oh, thank you. 01:07:10.130 --> 01:07:10.970 align:center I'd forgotten. 01:07:10.965 --> 01:07:11.925 align:center You're trying to make me feel as much 01:07:11.924 --> 01:07:12.954 align:center pain as you do and the irony... 01:07:12.967 --> 01:07:14.127 align:center That is not what I'm doing! 01:07:14.134 --> 01:07:15.164 align:center Of course it is. 01:07:15.177 --> 01:07:16.917 align:center Maybe not consciously, but that's definitely part of... 01:07:16.929 --> 01:07:19.429 align:center Oh my God, things I could do without number one: 01:07:19.431 --> 01:07:21.261 align:center The fucking unconscious! 01:07:21.267 --> 01:07:23.137 align:center Please, please spare me that. 01:07:23.143 --> 01:07:24.753 align:center Fine, let's blame Freud, right? 01:07:24.770 --> 01:07:26.690 align:center It's Freud's fault you miscarried. 01:07:26.689 --> 01:07:28.229 align:center Oh, I miscarried? 01:07:28.232 --> 01:07:30.262 align:center No, that is not what I... 01:07:30.276 --> 01:07:33.236 align:center You think if I'd just taken better care of myself... 01:07:33.237 --> 01:07:34.227 align:center Would you please stop. 01:07:34.238 --> 01:07:36.988 align:center If I hadn't overburdened myself 01:07:36.991 --> 01:07:38.021 align:center with Jake's applications? 01:07:38.033 --> 01:07:38.863 align:center Allie, for God's sake. 01:07:38.867 --> 01:07:40.527 align:center If I had let you call an ambulance 01:07:40.536 --> 01:07:41.576 align:center instead of taking a cab, 01:07:41.579 --> 01:07:42.949 align:center maybe we would have gotten there sooner. 01:07:42.955 --> 01:07:45.075 align:center Yeah, well now we'll never know, will we? 01:07:54.091 --> 01:07:55.701 align:center Allie, I'm sorry. 01:07:55.718 --> 01:07:56.928 align:center You're an asshole. 01:07:56.927 --> 01:07:57.797 align:center Jesus. 01:07:57.803 --> 01:07:59.383 align:center This is hard for me, too. 01:07:59.388 --> 01:08:01.098 align:center Is that impossible for you to understand? 01:08:01.098 --> 01:08:03.718 align:center I needed help, Greg. 01:08:03.726 --> 01:08:07.566 align:center And you just sat there like you were embarrassed. 01:08:07.563 --> 01:08:08.393 align:center Do you have any idea... 01:08:08.397 --> 01:08:09.227 align:center Okay, I'm not gonna do this. 01:08:09.231 --> 01:08:10.091 align:center Where are you going? 01:08:10.107 --> 01:08:11.107 align:center Greg! 01:08:11.984 --> 01:08:13.844 align:center Greg, you can't just walk away in the middle... 01:08:13.861 --> 01:08:15.891 align:center In the middle of what, an argument? 01:08:15.904 --> 01:08:17.144 align:center This is not an argument. 01:08:17.156 --> 01:08:18.616 align:center This is you shitting on me. 01:08:19.825 --> 01:08:22.365 align:center So I'm gonna go pick up Jake and I'm gonna take him out 01:08:22.369 --> 01:08:24.909 align:center and when I get back, I hope that you're in bed. 01:08:24.913 --> 01:08:26.993 align:center 'Cause frankly, he doesn't need to see you like this. 01:08:26.999 --> 01:08:27.999 align:center Fine. 01:08:28.792 --> 01:08:30.822 align:center Fine! 01:08:30.836 --> 01:08:32.546 align:center Yeah, go take him out for ice cream. 01:08:33.714 --> 01:08:34.664 align:center And when you're done why don't you both 01:08:34.673 --> 01:08:36.453 align:center get your nails done, huh? 01:08:36.467 --> 01:08:38.047 align:center I mean, why not? 01:08:38.052 --> 01:08:40.082 align:center It's not like you've ever taken him to a park 01:08:40.095 --> 01:08:42.175 align:center or thrown a ball in his direction! 01:09:02.576 --> 01:09:05.536 align:center That is a disgusting thing to say. 01:09:08.207 --> 01:09:10.197 align:center You think it's my fault he likes dresses? 01:09:11.460 --> 01:09:14.300 align:center Do you think I'm too effete a role model? 01:09:14.296 --> 01:09:15.586 align:center Who the fuck are you? 01:09:15.589 --> 01:09:16.419 align:center Greg, that's not... 01:09:16.423 --> 01:09:18.753 align:center Did you listen to the feedback? 01:09:18.759 --> 01:09:22.679 align:center Stubborn, defensive, did that not remind you of anyone? 01:09:22.680 --> 01:09:24.430 align:center Not to mention, you're the one reading him fairy tales 01:09:24.431 --> 01:09:25.291 align:center every night. 01:09:25.307 --> 01:09:28.267 align:center You're the one buying him every Disney Princess DVD 01:09:28.268 --> 01:09:29.388 align:center you can get your hands on 01:09:29.395 --> 01:09:32.555 align:center and then freaking out when people start to notice. 01:09:32.564 --> 01:09:35.304 align:center I mean, is it any wonder he's confused? 01:09:36.568 --> 01:09:38.028 align:center You know, maybe the reason I didn't say anything to Judy 01:09:38.028 --> 01:09:40.268 align:center is because I agree with her. 01:09:40.280 --> 01:09:42.990 align:center I think we need to make some choices 01:09:42.991 --> 01:09:44.821 align:center about how to address the situation. 01:09:44.827 --> 01:09:45.657 align:center Fine. 01:09:45.661 --> 01:09:48.021 align:center You know, bring him to a shrink, what do I know, right? 01:09:48.038 --> 01:09:50.708 align:center I'm just the one at home with him all day, every day! 01:09:50.708 --> 01:09:53.128 align:center - Oh, for God's sake! - What? 01:09:53.127 --> 01:09:55.367 align:center You get to have a life outside this apartment! 01:09:55.379 --> 01:09:56.209 align:center I gave that up. 01:09:56.213 --> 01:09:57.373 align:center You wanna go back to work, do it. 01:09:57.381 --> 01:09:58.211 align:center No one's stopping you. 01:09:58.215 --> 01:09:59.045 align:center No, no! 01:09:59.049 --> 01:10:01.219 align:center I made a choice to be here because 01:10:01.218 --> 01:10:03.588 align:center I wanted him to have a mother who's devoted. 01:10:03.595 --> 01:10:05.835 align:center And because you hated being a lawyer! 01:10:05.848 --> 01:10:06.808 align:center Christ! 01:10:06.807 --> 01:10:09.647 align:center Don't pretend like you weren't desperate to get out! 01:10:09.643 --> 01:10:11.253 align:center This is what you wanted. 01:10:11.270 --> 01:10:13.310 align:center So I'm sorry if motherhood turns out to be 01:10:13.313 --> 01:10:15.553 align:center just another disappointment, but I am his father. 01:10:15.566 --> 01:10:17.896 align:center I live here, too, and I am sick of being treated 01:10:17.901 --> 01:10:19.311 align:center like you're raising him alone. 01:10:20.404 --> 01:10:23.394 align:center Jake is not a disappointment. 01:10:24.700 --> 01:10:26.620 align:center I said motherhood, not Jake. 01:10:27.578 --> 01:10:30.038 align:center This is so... 01:10:31.206 --> 01:10:33.166 align:center I'm sorry, okay? 01:10:38.130 --> 01:10:40.800 align:center I'm sorry for making you so unhappy. 01:10:40.799 --> 01:10:44.389 align:center I'm sorry for taking you for granted. 01:10:44.386 --> 01:10:49.096 align:center I'm sorry for all the ways I've fucked things up with Jake. 01:10:49.099 --> 01:10:50.009 align:center Allie. 01:10:50.017 --> 01:10:53.477 align:center I am, I am sorry about the baby. 01:10:53.479 --> 01:10:54.309 align:center No. 01:10:54.313 --> 01:10:56.173 align:center For whatever I did wrong. 01:10:56.190 --> 01:10:58.560 align:center I am not asking you to apologize. 01:10:58.567 --> 01:11:01.527 align:center Just please, please, let's just stop. 01:11:30.724 --> 01:11:31.724 align:center It's Judy. 01:11:34.937 --> 01:11:36.807 align:center She called before at the hospital. 01:11:38.982 --> 01:11:41.262 align:center Just wanted to make sure everything was okay. 01:11:50.494 --> 01:11:51.854 align:center Well, it's not. 01:13:32.429 --> 01:13:34.269 align:center What do you think is holding you back? 01:13:36.350 --> 01:13:37.770 align:center I mean, like I said, it's stupid. 01:13:37.768 --> 01:13:38.978 align:center It's just a signature. 01:13:41.104 --> 01:13:43.144 align:center It's not like it changes anything. 01:13:44.566 --> 01:13:46.146 align:center His stuff's already gone. 01:13:47.235 --> 01:13:49.975 align:center The financials are straightforward. 01:13:49.988 --> 01:13:51.478 align:center There's no custody battle. 01:13:55.535 --> 01:13:57.445 align:center Silver linings, right? 01:14:02.834 --> 01:14:06.574 align:center You know, you never really talked about that. 01:14:08.256 --> 01:14:09.256 align:center What? 01:14:11.218 --> 01:14:12.218 align:center Well... 01:14:14.972 --> 01:14:15.972 align:center Kids. 01:14:17.724 --> 01:14:19.384 align:center There's not much to talk about. 01:14:22.646 --> 01:14:25.016 align:center We talked about IVF 01:14:26.650 --> 01:14:28.990 align:center and how hard that was on both of you. 01:14:30.821 --> 01:14:35.731 align:center But I don't think you ever mentioned the decision to stop. 01:14:38.954 --> 01:14:42.864 align:center Does that matter at this point? 01:14:46.461 --> 01:14:47.461 align:center I think it might. 01:14:50.465 --> 01:14:52.925 align:center It's just my two cents. 01:14:56.722 --> 01:14:59.962 align:center Well, it was always part of the plan, I guess. 01:15:02.561 --> 01:15:04.471 align:center And when it didn't happen right away, 01:15:06.314 --> 01:15:09.934 align:center we both kept assuming with all the options 01:15:10.944 --> 01:15:14.064 align:center the next one, this'll be the one. 01:15:16.616 --> 01:15:17.736 align:center Then the one after that. 01:15:20.245 --> 01:15:22.735 align:center Then the one after that and then at a certain point, 01:15:25.250 --> 01:15:26.710 align:center I think we both just realized. 01:15:30.088 --> 01:15:31.878 align:center We were eating takeout one night 01:15:31.882 --> 01:15:34.912 align:center and he looked at me and said, 01:15:40.348 --> 01:15:41.928 align:center "We're done, aren't we?" 01:15:47.814 --> 01:15:48.814 align:center I guess we were. 01:15:52.778 --> 01:15:53.938 align:center And how did you feel? 01:15:55.614 --> 01:15:56.614 align:center Honestly? 01:16:03.246 --> 01:16:04.246 align:center I felt relieved. 01:16:10.045 --> 01:16:12.755 align:center I knew how much Ben wanted it. 01:16:15.300 --> 01:16:18.590 align:center I knew it was what I should want. 01:16:22.182 --> 01:16:23.182 align:center But... 01:16:27.521 --> 01:16:29.101 align:center I don't know. 01:16:29.106 --> 01:16:30.106 align:center I thought... 01:16:30.899 --> 01:16:33.569 align:center Oh, thank God. 01:16:39.574 --> 01:16:41.484 align:center You didn't think you could tell him? 01:16:43.286 --> 01:16:44.286 align:center I think he knew. 01:16:53.755 --> 01:16:55.585 align:center It's so quiet in here. 01:16:55.590 --> 01:16:59.180 align:center Ah, Dr. Hendricks decided to relocate. 01:17:09.104 --> 01:17:10.434 align:center I miss the banshee. 01:17:28.623 --> 01:17:29.623 align:center Okay. 01:17:31.001 --> 01:17:32.001 align:center Here you go. 01:17:32.836 --> 01:17:33.836 align:center Thank you. 01:17:35.589 --> 01:17:36.589 align:center Judy, I... 01:17:38.967 --> 01:17:40.427 align:center It's really good to see you. 01:17:46.474 --> 01:17:47.474 align:center You try... 01:17:50.812 --> 01:17:53.262 align:center You try so hard to protect them, but... 01:17:56.610 --> 01:17:59.570 align:center It's never gonna be easy to really see people. 01:18:01.573 --> 01:18:03.273 align:center Especially the ones we love. 01:18:09.164 --> 01:18:09.994 align:center Hon? 01:18:09.998 --> 01:18:10.998 align:center In here. 01:18:12.542 --> 01:18:13.452 align:center Alex, hi. 01:18:13.460 --> 01:18:14.460 align:center Hi, Lynn. 01:18:18.882 --> 01:18:19.882 align:center Hey. 01:18:20.675 --> 01:18:23.715 align:center I am gonna go get changed. 01:18:23.720 --> 01:18:24.720 align:center Okay. 01:18:29.267 --> 01:18:31.007 align:center She hates my guts, doesn't she? 01:18:31.019 --> 01:18:32.019 align:center She'll get over it. 01:18:49.621 --> 01:18:50.731 align:center What's the matter with you? 01:18:50.747 --> 01:18:52.157 align:center This is a child! 01:18:52.165 --> 01:18:53.745 align:center Get off that bike! 01:18:53.750 --> 01:18:55.420 align:center You're not in control! 01:18:55.418 --> 01:18:57.838 align:center If I ever see you on a bike without a helmet, 01:18:57.837 --> 01:19:00.957 align:center it will not be a pretty picture, okay? 01:19:33.790 --> 01:19:34.790 align:center Can't sleep? 01:19:38.336 --> 01:19:41.456 align:center I've noticed some things about this movie. 01:19:43.842 --> 01:19:45.292 align:center Things that don't make sense. 01:19:47.971 --> 01:19:50.251 align:center 'Cause the idea is that Cinderella is this 01:19:50.265 --> 01:19:52.305 align:center abused servant girl, right? 01:19:53.935 --> 01:19:55.675 align:center But she's got an entourage of animals 01:19:55.687 --> 01:19:57.427 align:center waiting on her hand and foot. 01:19:58.648 --> 01:20:02.188 align:center They bathe her, they dress her. 01:20:04.821 --> 01:20:06.481 align:center Honestly, she's not doing too bad. 01:20:23.048 --> 01:20:24.758 align:center It's a good school. 01:20:29.304 --> 01:20:30.584 align:center I think he'll be happy. 01:20:40.690 --> 01:20:42.900 align:center You know, when he was a baby, 01:20:42.901 --> 01:20:45.731 align:center I was so convinced he knew things. 01:20:49.366 --> 01:20:51.856 align:center I would look at him and wish so badly he could talk 01:20:51.868 --> 01:20:54.328 align:center 'cause I was sure he wanted to tell me. 01:20:59.709 --> 01:21:00.829 align:center He's got time. 01:21:05.548 --> 01:21:06.788 align:center Maybe he'll come around. 01:21:21.940 --> 01:21:22.940 align:center Come to bed. 01:21:54.514 --> 01:21:55.514 align:center Hi. 01:21:59.686 --> 01:22:01.596 align:center Mr. and Mrs. Wheeler? 01:22:01.604 --> 01:22:02.604 align:center Come on in. 01:22:03.815 --> 01:22:06.805 align:center Do you know what I've been meaning to ask you about? 01:22:07.694 --> 01:22:09.434 align:center Which one is Aurora again? 01:22:10.822 --> 01:22:11.652 align:center Who's Aurora? 01:22:11.656 --> 01:22:12.486 align:center Aurora? 01:22:12.490 --> 01:22:14.360 align:center Yeah, that's who you dressed up as, isn't it? 01:22:14.367 --> 01:22:15.777 align:center Aurora's Sleeping Beauty. 01:22:15.785 --> 01:22:16.995 align:center That's right. 01:22:16.995 --> 01:22:19.075 align:center Oh, yes, and they have those three little fairies 01:22:19.080 --> 01:22:19.920 align:center that travel... 01:22:19.914 --> 01:22:22.824 align:center And they take her to a cottage 01:22:22.834 --> 01:22:25.124 align:center and then she doesn't know she's a princess. 01:22:25.128 --> 01:22:25.958 align:center Mm-hmm. 01:22:25.962 --> 01:22:27.642 align:center They can't tell her and they're all like... 01:22:33.511 --> 01:22:34.341 align:center Ready, ready? 01:22:34.345 --> 01:22:36.135 align:center One, two, three, whee! 01:22:48.943 --> 01:22:53.903 align:center ♪ You are the sun to the earth ♪ 01:22:54.073 --> 01:22:58.733 align:center ♪ You are the light of this world ♪ 01:22:58.745 --> 01:23:03.115 align:center ♪ Won't you see ♪ 01:23:03.124 --> 01:23:08.034 align:center ♪ Why won't you see ♪ 01:23:10.215 --> 01:23:15.175 align:center ♪ You are the hand I can't reach ♪ 01:23:15.595 --> 01:23:20.055 align:center ♪ You are the words I can't speak ♪ 01:23:20.058 --> 01:23:24.558 align:center ♪ Won't you say ♪ 01:23:24.562 --> 01:23:29.522 align:center ♪ Why won't you say ♪ 01:23:31.986 --> 01:23:36.106 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:23:42.956 --> 01:23:47.126 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:23:53.758 --> 01:23:57.548 align:center ♪ You twist the light in your hands ♪ 01:23:57.554 --> 01:24:02.514 align:center ♪ Losing thoughts so you move you can't give ♪ 01:24:02.850 --> 01:24:07.850 align:center ♪ Reasons fall from every storm that you live ♪ 01:24:07.855 --> 01:24:12.145 align:center ♪ We move through the dark helpless ♪ 01:24:36.759 --> 01:24:41.719 align:center ♪ You are the quiet in my soul ♪ 01:24:41.889 --> 01:24:46.809 align:center ♪ You are the pieces of gold ♪ 01:24:46.811 --> 01:24:50.891 align:center ♪ Won't you shine ♪ 01:24:50.898 --> 01:24:55.858 align:center ♪ Why won't you shine ♪ 01:24:58.531 --> 01:25:02.691 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:25:09.250 --> 01:25:13.340 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:25:19.969 --> 01:25:24.139 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:26:03.429 --> 01:26:06.929 align:center ♪ You twist the light in your hands ♪ 01:26:06.933 --> 01:26:11.803 align:center ♪ Losing thoughts so you move you can't give ♪ 01:26:11.979 --> 01:26:16.939 align:center ♪ Reasons fall from every storm that you live ♪ 01:26:17.235 --> 01:26:21.475 align:center ♪ We move through the dark helpless ♪ 01:26:46.472 --> 01:26:51.182 align:center ♪ You are the quiet in my soul ♪ 01:26:51.185 --> 01:26:55.645 align:center ♪ You are the pieces of gold ♪ 01:26:55.648 --> 01:27:00.268 align:center ♪ Won't you shine ♪ 01:27:00.278 --> 01:27:05.198 align:center ♪ Why won't you shine ♪ 01:27:07.910 --> 01:27:12.000 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:27:18.504 --> 01:27:22.664 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪ 01:27:29.432 --> 01:27:33.512 align:center ♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪