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Oops.

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Hello?

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Hello?

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Hi.

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Mm.

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How late can we go?

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I don't know.

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Do we have to go?

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No.

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Oh!

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You're lying.

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I am.

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I am.

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Monster bubbles!

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I think he wants you.

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♪ Now I am singing so beautifully ♪

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Oh, Mommy's funny.

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It's like she has a mustache
right under her nose.

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She does?

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Yeah.

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I think she has really big lips.

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Hey!

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Tom, just want to say congratulations.

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Thank you.

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Yeah, only 10 years of purgatory, right?

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Oh, right.

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My brother-in-law, Greg.

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Hey.

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Hi, nice to see you.

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I think Jake's like twice the size

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he was at Christmas.

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Oh, yeah.

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You know, we should
really stop feeding him.

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Come on, enjoy yourself.

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Corinne, my daughter, Alex.

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Hi, nice to meet you.

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Um, sorry...

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She worked with Paul Schuster from the

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Public Defender's office,
you remember Paul.

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And it turns out before that,

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she and your brother
overlapped at Fordham,

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but they never met.

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Oh, how funny.

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You must be so proud.

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I heard he's the youngest
partner in the firm's history?

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Well, he's always been driven.

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What can I say?

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And you're an attorney as well?

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Uh, no.

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I mean, I was.

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But I stopped practicing
when I had my son.

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Thank God for the women's movement.

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She'll go back, trust me.

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Oh, is this you?

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Oh, Jesus.

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What?

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It's adorable!

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Oh, she was so good.

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Now, if she had stuck
to it, can you imagine?

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She's got the natural
pose, the natural arch.

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Look at that, slim legs,
everything she needed.

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Gave up.

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What can you do?

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Can't push, push, push.

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Gotta let go, right?

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Right?

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She's humble.

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Ha, where'd she get that?

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Thank you.

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And where are you guys applying?

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Oh, boy.

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What?

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Well, we loved our local public school,

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but it just got rezoned.

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No!

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It'll be fine.

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The whole reason we moved and

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now they won't let us send him.

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I swear, if Pembrooke hadn't discovered

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that Kimmy had perfect pitch
halfway through her interview,

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which, mind you, we
didn't even know

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I mean, just forget it.

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Dizzy!

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Dizzy!

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Oh!

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Honk, honk!

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Wait, come back!

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But I must go.

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Please don't go!

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That's when you say, "I
don't even know your name."

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But I do know your name.

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That's not how it goes.

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Well, maybe Mommy was improvising!

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Maybe she was improvising!

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My sister-in-law comes from serious money.

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I swear, all she does is shop for the kid.

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Meanwhile, I'm lucky if I can get Jake

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out of his pajama bottoms half the time.

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He likes to be comfortable.

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Hell, I'd do the same thing if I could

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get away with it.

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You think the other parents would mind?

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Their preschool director in a tracksuit?

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You would look hot in a tracksuit.

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You are such a liar.

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But, you know, is that
even what I want for Jake?

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A private school full of Kimmys?

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Even if we could afford
it, which we can't.

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Honey, honey.

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We're just talking options right now,

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casting a wide net.

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Here you go, ladies.

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Thank you.

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Uh-uh, uh-uh, I got this.

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No, no.

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Okay?

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You just get me the essay
by Thursday, no excuses.

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Sandra?

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Mm-hmm.

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Come on back.

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I should probably warn
you, I'm not sure I buy it.

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This, I mean, was um, Ben's idea.

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Ben's my husband.

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For now.

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How long ago did he move out?

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Six days ago.

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Yeah, he found a temporary place.

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He says he'll do marriage counseling,

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but only if I work on me first.

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Suddenly, he's Dr. Phil.

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Can I ask, how does this work?

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I just sit here and talk and...

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It seems like it's important
for you to have a plan.

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That what I have to look forward to?

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A rich man's wife became sick

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and when she felt that
her end was drawing near,

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she called her only
daughter to her bedside

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and said, "Dear child, remain good."

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The girl went out to her
mother's grave every day

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and wept.

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When winter came, the
snow spread white cloth

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over the grave

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and when the spring sun
had removed it again,

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the man took himself another wife.

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Times soon grew very bad
for the poor stepchild.

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"Why should that stupid goose

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"sit in the parlor with us," they said.

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"Out with this kitchen maid!"

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Home again, home again.

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There you are.

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I stopped by Gristedes.

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God, what a zoo.

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Oh, thanks.

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You didn't have to go tonight.

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Oh, hello, hello, hello.

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Hey.

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What is all this?

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It's a draft for the parent essay

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for the private schools.

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Alex...

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I know, I know,

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but I had lunch with Judy today

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and she thinks we might have
a shot at a scholarship.

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Really?

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Here, here, you relax.

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No, no, no, I've got this.

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I mean, you don't...

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You don't think that's a waste of time?

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I mean, you know,

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it's a long shot, obviously, but...

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Right.

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I went by the public school
that we are zoned for now

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and it's not great, honestly.

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The classrooms are overcrowded,

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I'm just worried he
could get totally lost.

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I know we've always said
we're not those parents,

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but I don't know.
- We can't afford to be.

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Maybe...

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Greg!

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Relax.

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Anyway.

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She said we should at
least try a few privates

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along with the magnet program,

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so I was hoping you
could help me brainstorm.

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Tonight?

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You are so much better
at this than I am.

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I am not better at this than you.

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No, you are wonderful, Alex!
- No, no, no, you are!

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Everything I write seems so cloying.

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Is there a prompt?

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Oh, you know...

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How is Jake more special
than all the other

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hundreds of thousands of...

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Okay, okay, is there an actual prompt?

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Um, let's see.

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All right.

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Imagine someone were to see a room full of

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children playing.

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Ignoring physical attributes,

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how would they identify your child?

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Show 'em about this.

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No!

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That is not funny!

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That's exactly the kind of thing

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that sounds like parent bullshit.

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But that is not bullshit.

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He was hours old.

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Developmentally, babies
don't typically do that

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for days at least.

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Yeah.

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- He was clearly, oh shit...
- Oh, be careful, be careful!

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What is she doing on the toaster oven?

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She's drying.

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Her head broke off.

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I guess she fell and he came out sobbing

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with this decapitated Cinderella,

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like she'd been guillotined.

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So what, you super-glued her?

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Well, yeah.

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I kept insisting, you know, she's fine.

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I told him it was another necklace.

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Aww.

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He buy that?

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I think.

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Mm-hmm.

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I've always said the
more attention we pay now,

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the more we really listen,

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the more engaged and confident they'll be.

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Not just in school, but their whole lives.

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Which is why it is so important to create

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a preschool atmosphere where children

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are encouraged to be their truest,

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most authentic selves.

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At this age, that's really
the most important thing.

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Yeah, but they're just
playing all day, right?

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I mean, basically what you got here is

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a well-funded playroom.

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Well,

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the truth is creativity and imagination

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are both foundational for
all types of higher learning.

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A colleague of mine wrote a
great book on the subject,

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if you're interested.

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It's very accessible.

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If it's crap you can tell me.

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No, no, shh.

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It's just so hard to pitch him...

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Oh, trust me, I get it.

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I get it.

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I am almost...

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Done.

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Okay.

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My God, your face.

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What?

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Maybe this is not even worth it.

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Stop.

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It's terrific.

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Really?

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Yes.

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There's only one thing I...

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No, of course, I mean,
you must have notes.

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You talk about his imagination,

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which is great,

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since that's really the best indicator.

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Why not use that as a lead-in

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to talk a little about
his gender expansive play?

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With anecdotes.

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So, you mean like...

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It could be anything, really.

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I was in his classroom on Tuesday

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and he and Emily and Michelle

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were creating their own fairy tale,

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this enchanted forest,

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and they'd made trees
out of chairs and pillows

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and Jake...

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Jake was this princess who
didn't know she was a princess

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and Emily was the witch who
was keeping her locked up

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and Michelle was somebody's
helper or something, but...

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Anyway, it was really Jake
who was the ringleader.

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You think talking about that would...

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I mean, I'm sure you're right,

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I just wanna make sure that I understand.

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Well, for one thing,
someone's gonna read this

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and then they're gonna meet Jake

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and it always a good sign

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when parents seem to
really know their kids,

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which, of course, you do.

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Right.

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But there's sort of a
big part of his personality

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that you don't even mention, right?

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Here's the second thing.

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The numbers are ridiculous.

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Especially when it comes to which families

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they're gonna help financially.

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But what you have to remember is

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everybody wants diversity.

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Mm-hmm.

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Let's be honest, Jake,

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he's very special.

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And believe me, this is the part of my job

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I hate the most, this, this strategizing.

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But I really think that this
is a card you could play.

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That's all.

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Not to mention, you
want him to be somewhere

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he can thrive, right?

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And the prince fell on Rapunzel.

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Standing on Rapunzel.

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Look what I made.

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All right, so it's all
about progression, right?

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It's like you have to
have the right story,

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so this is my pulled together,

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you don't have to worry about me

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because I'm a modern, independent,
working woman picture.

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Right?

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Very slick, yeah.

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Thank you.

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And then this one,
which is loving mommy.

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Aww!

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Loving mommy, yes, I have a kid,

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and if that freaks you out, well, too bad,

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'cause I'm not going to
apologize about it kinda picture.

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Sort of pimping him
out, though, aren't you?

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Stop!

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No, I'm not.

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Wait, wait, wait, wait,
show him the message.

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Sanjay, come on, baby, it's that time.

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We're not done yet.

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Right, okay.

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"Wowza, Amal!

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"You are truly an exotic beauty

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"and your English is so impressive!

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"Maybe we could go for a ride sometime.

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"No magic carpet here,
but I do have a Prius!"

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No, no!

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What is wrong with people?

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Right?

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I know, and it's not even the half of it.

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Come on, baby, I'm not jo-

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Where did they?

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Oh, what in the world?

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I'm so sorry, Alex.

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No, no, no, I got it.

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This is all Jake.

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Are you sure?

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Yes.

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- Let me take that.
- Thank you.

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Okay, bye.

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Sanjay, come on!

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Mommy's had a long day.

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He can't leave!

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Well, he has to.

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You really don't think it's weird?

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About Judy.

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Mm.

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I don't know, I mean...

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She was strategizing, right?

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Yeah, no, the strategizing I get,

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but the way she was talking,
it was just a little...

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I don't know.

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I mean, he does like to play dress-up,

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that's not news.

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Not that I care, obviously, but,

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he's not exactly Johnny Basketball.

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Johnny what?

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You know.

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That's not an expression.

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I know it's not, I'm just saying.

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What's your day like tomorrow?

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I have a break around noon.

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I go into Legal Aide till three,

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then pick up Jake.

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You okay?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, of course.

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Laurel!

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Laurel.

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Hi, Greg.

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Hey.

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Listen, um, I've been meaning to mention,

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and maybe you've already noticed this,

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but the walls here are a little...

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And most of my patients,
they're pretty tame,

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but you know, if you ever,

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if there's a noise issue or...

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Oh, you're so sweet.

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I haven't even noticed.

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Oh, and I wouldn't want
you to worry about that.

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I know in my own work how important

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vocalizing can be.

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I find it so helpful in
releasing all kinds of

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emotional buildup.

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Right.

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I'm sure you're familiar
with Arthur Janov.

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It's scream therapy.

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It's what?

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Janov, he was big in the sixties.

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He's all about finding your primal scream

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and releasing it into the world.

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Jesus.

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Yeah, and apparently,
this is like her niche,

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you know?

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Which means this is not going to stop.

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Hello?

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Yeah, sorry, I...

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It's not his personality.

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I think that's what bugged me.

18:19.786 --> 18:20.946
What?

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About Judy.

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She was acting like I'd failed to mention

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some deep-seated part
of him and it's like,

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yeah, he likes fairy tales,

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but maybe that's not the most

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critical thing worth mentioning.

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He knows all 50 states, he's
already started reading.

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How many kids his age are reading?

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Hey, Allie, Allie,
okay, look, I love you,

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but I think that you're fixating.

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No, I'm not fixating, I just think

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he should get a clean slate.

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I don't want to send him
off to kindergarten labeled.

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I don't think anyone's
trying to label him.

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You know, Allie, Judy loves Jake.

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Judy loves you.

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She's on your side, all right?

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And she's not, you know, your mother.

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Hey.

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Hey, I was kidding.

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No, it's fine, um...

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Allie.

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Look, I gotta go.

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Uh, I love you.

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Nipples.

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I wanna touch your nipple.

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What if we pitched it
like Jake is not limited

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to trucks or whatever.

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Uh, he likes all sorts of toys and games,

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equal opportunity.

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Yeah, our son, who walks into a Toys R Us

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and he does not discriminate on the basis

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of perceived gender norms.

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That's actually not that bad.

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But that's just an idea, we don't have...

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Oh, my God.

20:20.907 --> 20:21.907
Allie.

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What's wrong?

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Whoa, whoa, you're not happy?

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No, no, of course I'm happy, I...

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Hey, hey.

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I just don't.

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I don't want to assume.

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No, of course not.

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And we won't.

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But with Jake everything was fine.

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It's not a pattern.

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I just, I...

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I guess I didn't think
it would happen so fast.

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Well, I am sorry that
I'm so damn virile.

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I don't know what else to
say besides that, though,

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I am sorry.

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Bye, Miss Matthews, thank you.

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This is a very dressed up mess.

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We believe
it's our job to harness

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every student's unique potential.

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Nurturing intellectual curiosity...

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Critical thinking...

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Problem solving...

22:10.350 --> 22:11.560
Artistic expression.

22:20.277 --> 22:22.517
Jake, breakfast!

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Socks make my feet sticky!

22:24.865 --> 22:26.235
Hey, buddy.

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We're running late.

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We do give priority to siblings.

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My wife is on a ton of boards.

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I don't know if that's helpful, or...

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You know, it's impossible to predict,

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but on average it's approximately 400.

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600.

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900.

22:42.507 --> 22:45.547
36,000 children applied for a spot

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in one of the cities
magnet programs last year.

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In a few weeks we'll
visit some new schools

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and you'll play with some
kids and meet some teachers

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and you should just be yourself.

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And that's all that matters, okay?

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So it's no big deal at all.

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Yes.

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No biggie.

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Um, you could
have a fruit roll-up

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later if you want.

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Yeah!

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Except they're kind of sticky.

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Hello?

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Wheeler, yeah.

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W-H-E-E-L-E-R.

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And my son is Jake.

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Preschools will receive
feedback in December.

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Of course we wish we had room
for all your little angels,

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but the numbers are what they are.

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The numbers are what they are.

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Oh, look at that!

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What's that?

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Is that for us?

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Yes!

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No, I did that.

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Let me try.

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That's what I clicked on.

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No, I think it's the one over there.

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I don't know.

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I can't deal with this.

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There.

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Right?

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I mean, it's insane.

24:33.243 --> 24:37.613
Between the down regs and the stems,

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trigger shots, blood samples.

24:39.958 --> 24:43.078
I mean, not to mention
anesthetic for egg retrieval.

24:43.086 --> 24:46.826
All in all, you're probably
stabbed about 75 times

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per cycle.

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And most of the stabbing
you're doing to yourself.

24:51.011 --> 24:54.001
I had this whole kit at the office.

24:54.014 --> 24:55.924
They say if you're
squeamish about needles,

24:55.932 --> 24:59.642
IVF will either cure you or break you.

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I actually...

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That doesn't bother you?

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You mean...

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The banshee next door.

25:18.997 --> 25:20.237
What about Ben?

25:20.248 --> 25:21.788
What about him?

25:21.791 --> 25:23.571
Was he supportive?

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Just, in all this.

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We've got a few minutes.

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He'd call the office.

25:33.595 --> 25:36.465
Constantly checking in, you know,

25:36.473 --> 25:38.383
he'd email me these fertility blogs,

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what to eat, what not to eat.

25:39.851 --> 25:41.631
That sounds like a lot of pressure.

25:42.771 --> 25:43.771
You have kids?

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Yeah, one.

25:47.567 --> 25:50.777
It's like when guys
say, "We're pregnant!"

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You know?

25:52.280 --> 25:53.740
Like, wow.

25:53.740 --> 25:56.030
Equality, great.

25:56.034 --> 25:58.494
But actually you're not,
so maybe you could just

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fuck off a little bit.

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Allie, come on.

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You're being ridiculous.

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I'm fine.

26:10.090 --> 26:11.430
You've got clients.

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So what, so I'll reschedule.

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Cue the ballerina.

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It's his first interview,
this is important.

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He's gonna be nervous.

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Exactly.

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You know, I'm sorry, but what happens

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if you puke on the train?

26:20.100 --> 26:22.100
You think that's gonna
put him in a good mood?

26:23.228 --> 26:25.438
All right, there's some apple slices

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with peanut butter in the kitchen.

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Make sure he eats on the way.

26:30.819 --> 26:34.489
Yeah, but Little
Mermaid's my favorite movie.

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Mm-hmm.

26:43.706 --> 26:44.536
Here you go.

26:44.541 --> 26:45.321
Thank you very much.

26:45.333 --> 26:47.793
Hey Jake, let's go over there.

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First time?

26:55.969 --> 26:56.969
Yeah.

26:57.846 --> 27:00.216
At our last one they left the door open,

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so I could peek in.

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And I saw my son was drawing a picture

27:03.977 --> 27:06.437
and I thought, "that's
good, that's good," right?

27:06.437 --> 27:07.847
So the teacher comes over and says,

27:07.856 --> 27:09.686
"Hey, what's that?"

27:09.691 --> 27:11.551
And he said, "A gun."

27:15.780 --> 27:18.370
Well, he can' fix America, no?

27:18.366 --> 27:19.526
No, he can't.

27:21.619 --> 27:22.619
Mr. Wheeler.

27:23.872 --> 27:26.072
Can I have a word with you?

27:29.169 --> 27:30.579
Alexandra, it's your mother.

27:30.587 --> 27:33.077
I haven't heard from you in over a week.

27:33.089 --> 27:34.579
Call me old-fashioned, but I don't think

27:34.591 --> 27:37.291
a simple phone call is so much to ask.

27:37.302 --> 27:39.502
An emoji does not count.

27:39.512 --> 27:41.672
In any case, listen, I
just talked to your brother

27:41.681 --> 27:44.261
and Kimmy's got a piano
recital on the eleventh.

27:44.267 --> 27:46.307
I don't know if you've
heard her play recently,

27:46.311 --> 27:49.221
but she's really getting very good.

27:49.230 --> 27:52.020
It's amazing, frankly,
the discipline at her age.

27:52.025 --> 27:53.895
I thought it might be
nice for Jake to see.

27:53.902 --> 27:55.982
It might inspire him, who knows.

27:55.987 --> 27:58.897
Oh, have you set a date
for his birthday party yet?

27:58.907 --> 28:01.117
I don't want a situation like last year.

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Really broke my heart.

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So call me.

28:03.077 --> 28:05.067
I'm at the office, be here all day.

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Remember what that's like?

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Of course it's ridiculous,
I'm not saying it's not...

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I mean, abusive was the word you used.

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Okay.

28:28.853 --> 28:30.383
You said whoever had the bright idea

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to evaluate toddlers using test scores

28:32.774 --> 28:33.604
deserves a special place in hell.

28:33.608 --> 28:35.518
He got a 96!

28:35.526 --> 28:36.356
He...

28:36.361 --> 28:37.471
Are you talking about out of a hundred?

28:37.487 --> 28:38.727
Yeah, well, I mean, it's percentile,

28:38.738 --> 28:40.318
so you can't get higher than 99, but...

28:40.323 --> 28:41.313
Wait, what is all this?

28:41.324 --> 28:42.154
Okay, look.

28:42.158 --> 28:43.698
So, they break it down, right?

28:43.701 --> 28:44.531
Mm-hmm.

28:44.535 --> 28:45.695
There's verbal ability,
spatial relations,

28:45.703 --> 28:46.533
fine motor skills...

28:46.537 --> 28:47.367
Fine motor skills.

28:47.372 --> 28:48.452
Yeah, like how he holds a pencil.

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And I was worried about that, too,

28:49.582 --> 28:50.742
'cause he's left-handed, which I mean,

28:50.750 --> 28:52.340
obviously they can't discriminate but...

28:52.335 --> 28:53.545
Okay, but wait, whoa,
you are out of your mind.

28:53.544 --> 28:56.534
Okay, okay, look at the narrative.

28:57.966 --> 29:00.876
Jake was enthusiastic and curious.

29:00.885 --> 29:01.745
Enthusiastic!

29:01.761 --> 29:04.461
And proved remarkably
focused on the task at hand

29:04.472 --> 29:07.052
with a keen eye, he was
able to group pictures

29:07.058 --> 29:08.388
based on common properties,

29:08.393 --> 29:10.423
copying several rows of
symbols to match a code.

29:10.436 --> 29:11.266
What the fuck?

29:11.271 --> 29:12.681
Well, sticks, shapes, and things, relax.

29:12.689 --> 29:13.979
Okay.

29:13.982 --> 29:15.642
Wait, wait, this is my favorite part.

29:15.650 --> 29:18.990
Using an unconventional,
but still affective,

29:18.987 --> 29:22.827
left-handed grip, a delight to work with.

29:25.618 --> 29:26.618
What's wrong?

29:28.496 --> 29:29.616
I don't understand.

29:29.622 --> 29:32.032
I guess Jake had made friends

29:32.041 --> 29:33.701
with one of the girls in his group

29:33.710 --> 29:36.920
and one of the boys overheard
what they were talking about

29:36.921 --> 29:40.031
and uh, that boy told some other boy,

29:40.049 --> 29:41.539
who told some other boy,

29:41.551 --> 29:43.961
who started teasing Jake.

29:43.970 --> 29:44.960
What were they saying?

29:44.971 --> 29:46.711
I don't know, but apparently,

29:46.723 --> 29:48.803
before the teacher could intervene,

29:48.808 --> 29:50.178
things got physical.

29:50.184 --> 29:51.424
They started shoving each other,

29:51.436 --> 29:52.426
I think Jake fell down.

29:52.437 --> 29:53.347
Jesus.

29:53.354 --> 29:56.094
Yeah, and then I guess Jake
shoved the other kid back.

29:56.107 --> 29:57.817
Then I guess he started crying.

29:57.817 --> 29:59.397
But did you tell them
he's not like that?

29:59.402 --> 30:00.432
When has he ever shoved anyone?

30:00.445 --> 30:01.275
Oh, no, no, they knew.

30:01.279 --> 30:02.949
They knew that he was being teased, okay.

30:02.947 --> 30:04.657
The man was really nice about it.

30:05.658 --> 30:07.868
I actually think he was
a little embarrassed.

30:07.869 --> 30:08.699
Why?

30:08.703 --> 30:10.483
Well,

30:10.496 --> 30:12.576
he kept dancing around what had happened,

30:12.582 --> 30:15.242
talking about Jake's creative
role play or whatever

30:15.251 --> 30:18.361
and then suddenly I realized, oh God,

30:18.379 --> 30:19.969
this guy doesn't know how to tell me

30:19.964 --> 30:22.004
that my son was uh,

30:22.008 --> 30:24.548
well, he was the Little
Mermaid, it turns out.

30:24.552 --> 30:25.552
Damn this thing.

30:26.429 --> 30:27.889
Anyway, once it was over, the teacher,

30:27.889 --> 30:29.889
she sat both of them down, they had a talk

30:29.891 --> 30:31.421
about respectful behavior

30:31.434 --> 30:35.094
and she encouraged Jake to
use his words if he was angry.

30:37.357 --> 30:39.227
He couldn't talk.

30:39.233 --> 30:40.143
No, I guess not.

30:40.151 --> 30:41.231
No, no, no, no, I mean,

30:41.235 --> 30:43.145
the Little Mermaid loses her voice.

30:43.154 --> 30:45.944
She can't talk for like half the movie.

30:45.948 --> 30:47.358
You never thought of that?

30:49.619 --> 30:52.079
Well, are you mad at me?

30:52.080 --> 30:55.620
Well, now they're gonna
think he's got anger issues

30:55.625 --> 30:57.745
or doesn't know how to
communicate his feelings.

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I should have taken him.

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Well, thanks.

31:01.130 --> 31:02.630
No, I'm not saying it's your fault...

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Because it's not.

31:03.466 --> 31:05.956
Well, it's a red flag, okay?

31:05.968 --> 31:08.808
They're looking for anything.

31:10.014 --> 31:11.124
Shit.

31:14.018 --> 31:15.008
Well, somehow I was a little more

31:15.019 --> 31:17.939
concerned about Jake than how
it might affect his chances.

31:17.939 --> 31:18.769
Excuse me?

31:18.773 --> 31:19.973
I just...

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Maybe we've got things
a little backwards here.

31:20.942 --> 31:22.932
Hey, hey, that is not fair.

31:22.944 --> 31:25.934
Being concerned for his chances
is being concerned for Jake.

31:25.947 --> 31:26.777
Yeah, I realize that.

31:26.781 --> 31:27.891
And frankly, if you're worried about him

31:27.907 --> 31:30.317
being teased at Sibley
Hall, maybe you know,

31:30.326 --> 31:31.656
think about what it'd be like for him

31:31.661 --> 31:33.901
someplace where the teacher's got 40 kids

31:33.913 --> 31:35.493
crammed into a class half the size.

31:35.498 --> 31:36.328
Okay, okay.

31:36.332 --> 31:37.162
You think this won't happen again?

31:37.166 --> 31:38.826
Okay, fine.

31:38.835 --> 31:41.165
So don't tell me I'm
not concerned about Jake.

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I mean, okay, I'm not a crazy mom, Alex,

32:59.624 --> 33:01.284
I don't want to hoard him.

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I want him to have his father in his life,

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but he needs routine right now.

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It's so important at this age.

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Of course.

33:08.925 --> 33:12.255
I mean, honestly, I
shouldn't even complain, it's,

33:12.261 --> 33:14.791
it's a good thing that
he wants to be involved,

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I just...

33:16.432 --> 33:18.292
I honestly think
sometimes it's the lawyers

33:18.309 --> 33:19.679
that make it all impossible.

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No offense.

33:22.271 --> 33:23.131
No!

33:23.147 --> 33:24.307
I'm sure you're right.

33:27.318 --> 33:28.398
You ladies need any help?

33:28.402 --> 33:29.432
Yes, I do.

33:29.445 --> 33:31.565
I was looking at the
Power Rangers costumes

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and I couldn't see anything in red.

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My son's like, yea high.

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We may be sold out of that color.

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I can check.

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Oh, no, no you see, it's,

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it really has to be red.

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Okay.

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Yeah, okay.

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So what does Jake want to be, hmm?

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Oh, you know, Jake.

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He has a different idea every other day.

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Probably just grab a few options.

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- Yeah, smart.
- Miss?

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Oh my God, my hero!

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Yes, you found it.

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Hey, Teresa,
can we get a price check

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on a baby Frankenstein kit?

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Thanks.

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Maybe we should explain to him

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why Rapunzel's not a good idea.

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I just think...

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What if someone says something

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or even a funny look?

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I know.

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You know, it's our job to protect him.

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Meredith.

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Come on.

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You really don't have to stay.

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There's a good chance he'll just forget.

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Why?

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Why can't I be Rapunzel?

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Did you see the pirate?

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- No!
- It's awesome!

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- It's got these tassels!
- No!

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No, no!

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You've got all
these other options.

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Hey, buddy, come on.

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Mommy's trying really hard to...

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It's not fair!

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Jake.

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I don't
understand, you promised me!

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You haven't even
looked at them, babe.

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- Trick or treat!
- Trick or treat.

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I hate you!

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Jake, I need you to calm down.

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Please.

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Just for one second.

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You're not, you can't...

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Happy Halloween.

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Listen, if you're...

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No.

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He was Ben.

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He just had the face of
the man from the bodega.

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Like the man from the bodega
was playing Ben in my dream.

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Okay.

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And we get to
the top of the mountain.

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Mm-hmm.

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And the snaps on my pack pop off

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and all of my gear just falls off,

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just rolling down this ravine

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and I'm watching it go
and I know this is bad,

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but for some reason I just start laughing.

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So I guess I'm wondering,
what does that mean?

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Well, that depends.

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Yeah, I know.

36:45.015 --> 36:47.635
I'm just wondering what
you think it means.

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I mean, just give me your two cents.

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I mean, isn't that why we're here?

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I think that's less important

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than your own associations.

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Oh my god!

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I'm sorry, are you always like this?

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Or just here?

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I'm sorry.

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I think we should end early today.

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You're allowed
to feel frustrated.

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Yeah, I know I'm allowed.

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With me, I mean.

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What am I like?

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Switzerland.

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That's what Ben and I call you.

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'Cause when I first started coming,

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he would always ask me
whose side you were on.

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I told him

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you don't like taking sides.

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Whoa, slow down, boys.

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Greg!

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Nice to see you.

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Oh, hey.

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Hi.

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I just, I got here early today,

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so I figured I would just, I don't know,

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check in, see if there were any updates.

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Truth is I haven't talked
to Bethany this week,

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but we spoke on Friday and she said

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that Jake had actually
been a little better.

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Better?

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I mean, I just meant the schools.

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Oh.

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What's up with Bethany?

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No, there were, uh, one
or two incidents in class.

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I spoke with Alex about
it briefly over the phone.

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She didn't tell me.

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Uh, here, honey, come on in.

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It was nothing serious.

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He's always liked doing
things his own way.

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You know that.

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Yes.

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But lately, according to Bethany,

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he's been a little more...

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Obsessive?

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Refusing to leave the dress-up corner

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when it's time to move
on to something else.

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He'll act out the uh,
oh, what do you call it?

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The stroke of midnight.

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Over and over again.
- Oh, right.

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Right.

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Bong, bong, bong.

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Yeah, wait come back!

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I don't even know your name.

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Exactly.

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Alex says he's been fine at home.

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No, no, he's just, it's,
he's been a handful lately.

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It's normal stuff.

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Alex thinks that maybe we need to set

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better boundaries, so that Jake can learn

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a little more self control.

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Do you agree?

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It's just that I also
know that she's not...

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She's not totally herself right now.

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And I don't blame her.

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You know, she's scheduling everything,

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the interviews, the tours.

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For a while there she was
nauseous every other morning.

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She's been sick?

40:24.485 --> 40:25.695
Oh, shit.

40:27.905 --> 40:29.025
Please don't tell anyone.

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Oh, I won't, I won't.

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I just, we're not telling anyone

40:30.741 --> 40:31.601
till we're past 13 weeks, you know?

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I understand.

40:32.451 --> 40:33.941
She told people sooner last time

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and then when we lost the baby...

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I know how hard she took it.

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I just know how much she respects you.

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She always has.

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And I was thinking if you do talk to her

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that maybe...

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You could try to reassure her
that nothing's wrong, just,

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that things are gonna be okay.

40:56.475 --> 40:58.465
I'd like to show you something.

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If you have a minute.

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He did these last Thursday.

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I was going to show Alex,
but as long as you're here.

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Jake did these?

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Mm-hmm.

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But they don't...

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They don't look like his.

41:26.338 --> 41:28.378
I mean, I get it, it's...

41:29.800 --> 41:30.800
That's a lot of blood.

41:32.052 --> 41:34.882
Well, the blood's one thing.

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A lot of children are fascinated by it.

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And justifiably so.

41:40.352 --> 41:44.472
But sometimes artwork like
this can be an opportunity.

41:44.481 --> 41:46.591
It can help us understand something

41:46.608 --> 41:50.358
a child might be having
difficulty communicating.

41:58.120 --> 42:01.290
Do you ever see children in your practice?

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Uh, no.

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Couples, occasionally,
but mostly individuals.

42:04.835 --> 42:05.835
Why?

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I guess it's beside the point.

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I was uh, just curious if Jake has,

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you know, ever expressed
concern to either of you

42:17.139 --> 42:18.139
about his gender.

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No.

42:22.895 --> 42:24.305
I mean, I don't think so.

42:26.815 --> 42:29.525
There's a curiosity maybe.

42:29.526 --> 42:32.146
Um, he asked once, we were having dinner,

42:32.154 --> 42:37.024
and he asked why boys can't wear skirts.

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You know, 'cause girls can wear pants.

42:40.537 --> 42:41.657
What'd you tell him?

42:41.663 --> 42:42.773
We told him the truth, I guess,

42:42.790 --> 42:45.710
which is there is no good reason, really.

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But then I mentioned that um, in Scotland

42:50.172 --> 42:54.462
men wear kilts, which
are kinda like skirts.

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We Google imaged kilts,
looked at some pictures.

42:58.222 --> 43:00.332
He wasn't very impressed.

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So you didn't tell him there are men

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who do wear dresses in our culture?

43:18.408 --> 43:21.118
You talk to Judy at all recently?

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Week before last maybe.

43:24.164 --> 43:25.164
Why?

43:28.085 --> 43:31.325
I was just wondering if we might want to

43:31.338 --> 43:33.328
bring Jake to see someone.

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A professional.

43:34.466 --> 43:35.336
Why?

43:35.342 --> 43:38.202
It's a lot of change
all at once, you know?

43:39.346 --> 43:40.966
We visited a bunch of schools.

43:40.973 --> 43:42.083
Right.

43:42.099 --> 43:43.769
I mean, and if he's
already having trouble

43:43.767 --> 43:46.887
regulating his you know, I mean...

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Maybe it could be helpful.

43:51.775 --> 43:53.935
You don't think that
might make things worse?

43:53.944 --> 43:54.944
How?

43:56.363 --> 43:57.563
I don't know.

43:57.573 --> 43:58.983
He's only four.

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We put him in therapy and then there's,

44:03.996 --> 44:06.656
suddenly there's a stranger
asking all these questions.

44:06.665 --> 44:08.625
You know that's not how it works.

44:10.210 --> 44:11.080
But what if he starts thinking

44:11.086 --> 44:12.126
there's something wrong with him?

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That's not what I'm saying.

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No, I know it's not,
but, you know, it's...

44:18.927 --> 44:21.047
I don't know, it's the
message he might get.

44:28.937 --> 44:30.597
Kids are moody.

44:30.606 --> 44:31.606
He'll be fine.

44:38.822 --> 44:41.022
Okay, I think it's time
that we clean all this up

44:41.033 --> 44:41.863
and get ready to go home.

44:41.867 --> 44:43.447
♪ Clean up everybody clean up ♪

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Jake, I'd like you to come
out and help us, please.

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Come on, Jake.

44:46.663 --> 44:47.493
No.

44:47.497 --> 44:49.657
I really, really, really
need your help to clean up

44:49.666 --> 44:52.076
because we're getting ready to go home.

44:52.085 --> 44:52.915
Come on, Jake.

44:52.920 --> 44:53.840
Jake, I'd like you
to come out and help us

44:53.837 --> 44:55.577
clean this up.

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Please?

45:01.970 --> 45:03.340
Do you need help in there?

45:13.815 --> 45:14.935
Sandra, hi.

45:14.942 --> 45:16.602
It's Greg Wheeler.

45:16.610 --> 45:18.610
I thought we were scheduled for 2PM today.

45:18.612 --> 45:20.692
Um, maybe you're on your way.

45:20.697 --> 45:23.237
Or maybe something came up.

45:23.242 --> 45:26.532
Anyway, call me back so we can reschedule.

45:26.536 --> 45:27.536
If we need to.

45:42.386 --> 45:44.096
Here you go, bud.

45:44.096 --> 45:46.086
You working on your states again?

45:46.098 --> 45:46.928
Yeah.

45:46.932 --> 45:48.212
Oh, I bet that's your grandma.

45:51.103 --> 45:52.303
Ah, Catherine!

45:52.312 --> 45:53.262
You are a lifesaver.

45:53.272 --> 45:54.102
I'm so sorry.

45:54.106 --> 45:55.646
We had a sitter lined up.

45:55.649 --> 45:57.769
She's very reliable, I have no
idea what happened this time.

45:57.776 --> 45:59.236
Well, I don't know why
you would pay anyone.

45:59.236 --> 46:00.896
- Well...
- I've told Alex

46:00.904 --> 46:03.314
a thousand times, I'm happy
to have my time with you both.

46:03.323 --> 46:04.353
And that's very sweet, we just,

46:04.366 --> 46:05.276
we know that you're busy.

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Hi, Mom, hi.

46:06.118 --> 46:06.948
Here do you want me to...

46:06.952 --> 46:07.782
Hi, honey.

46:07.786 --> 46:09.946
Oh, I ran into Simon Weingold.

46:09.955 --> 46:11.615
He was asking after you.

46:11.623 --> 46:12.983
Said they're missing you terribly.

46:13.000 --> 46:13.960
Aw, that's nice of him.

46:13.959 --> 46:14.949
And I said with Jake
in school next year,

46:14.960 --> 46:18.050
you're gonna have a lot
more time on your hands.

46:18.046 --> 46:19.006
Uh, Jake!

46:19.006 --> 46:20.216
Come say hi to Nana.

46:20.215 --> 46:21.375
I still need Montana.

46:21.383 --> 46:22.713
Honey, no time to curl your hair?

46:22.718 --> 46:24.928
How often do you go
out for goodness sakes?

46:24.928 --> 46:27.018
Well, wear it behind if you can't, yeah.

46:28.432 --> 46:29.672
Oh, what have we got here?

46:29.683 --> 46:32.393
Oh, that's from the dress-up
corner at Jake's school,

46:32.394 --> 46:33.224
his teacher let him take it.

46:33.228 --> 46:34.268
Let me see it.

46:34.271 --> 46:37.761
Oh, no need to explain, I
do read the New York Times.

46:37.774 --> 46:39.984
God forbid anything should be off limits.

46:39.985 --> 46:40.815
So um...

46:40.819 --> 46:42.529
Where is my favorite grandson?

46:42.529 --> 46:44.019
His dinner's ready in the fridge,

46:44.031 --> 46:45.561
just zap it in the microwave
two, three minutes.

46:45.574 --> 46:47.364
Set the timer...
- Remember, keep it behind.

46:47.367 --> 46:48.197
Yeah, I have used a microwave before.

46:48.201 --> 46:49.561
Oh, and the super is right downstairs.

46:49.578 --> 46:51.568
If you need anything, just knock.

46:51.580 --> 46:53.670
He stays there, he's almost always home.

46:53.665 --> 46:55.995
I did raise two of my own.

46:56.001 --> 46:57.331
You remember that, don't you?

46:57.336 --> 46:58.166
Very true.

46:58.170 --> 46:59.010
Thank you.

46:59.004 --> 46:59.834
Okay, put a brush
through your hair, honey.

46:59.838 --> 47:00.668
- Okay.
- Really.

47:00.672 --> 47:01.502
Thank you again.

47:01.506 --> 47:02.336
Love you.
- All right, bye bye.

47:02.341 --> 47:05.041
- Thank you.
- Bye bye.

47:05.052 --> 47:07.502
Here I come, ready or not!

47:07.512 --> 47:09.592
Yeah, marketing has got to
be fascinating in that way,

47:09.598 --> 47:11.968
just the whole trying to
get inside people's heads.

47:11.975 --> 47:14.055
It must be such a creative challenge.

47:14.061 --> 47:16.141
You know, it is not
about being creative.

47:16.146 --> 47:17.556
That's what people don't get.

47:17.564 --> 47:18.724
Well, I think you're creative.

47:18.732 --> 47:20.642
Thank you, but you gotta understand.

47:20.650 --> 47:23.610
People are up against so
many goddamn options...

47:23.612 --> 47:24.892
- Do you want some?
- No.

47:24.905 --> 47:26.525
For everything, right?

47:26.531 --> 47:29.141
I mean, you walk into
a market you see like,

47:29.159 --> 47:31.249
twenty different kinds of
water for Christ's sake?

47:31.244 --> 47:32.454
I mean, so the best marketing strategy

47:32.454 --> 47:33.234
is not about being creative...

47:33.246 --> 47:34.286
- Here.
- Greg, I said no.

47:34.289 --> 47:35.119
I'm not gonna eat it anyway.

47:35.123 --> 47:36.323
No, it's about being direct.

47:36.333 --> 47:38.033
It's about being simple.

47:38.043 --> 47:42.203
And ultimately, people and
look, I'll just say this,

47:42.214 --> 47:45.254
I'm sorry, especially women,

47:46.218 --> 47:48.758
they wanna be told what to do.

47:48.762 --> 47:51.622
No, we don't.

47:51.640 --> 47:53.260
I call complete bullshit on that.

47:53.266 --> 47:54.136
It's not bullshit.

47:54.142 --> 47:54.972
So much bullshit.

47:54.976 --> 47:56.386
Can I get anyone another round?

47:56.395 --> 47:57.225
Yeah.

47:57.229 --> 47:59.439
I would love another drink, uh...

47:59.439 --> 48:00.269
I'm sorry.

48:00.273 --> 48:01.973
What is your favorite
specialty cocktail?

48:01.983 --> 48:03.143
Ah, case in point.

48:03.151 --> 48:04.181
No, that's not what I'm doing.

48:04.194 --> 48:05.224
I'm asking her opinion.

48:05.237 --> 48:06.527
I really like the elderflower...

48:06.530 --> 48:07.370
Hold on, I can't hear you.

48:07.364 --> 48:09.604
Um, yeah, sure I'll have one of those.

48:09.616 --> 48:11.106
Thank you.

48:11.118 --> 48:11.948
What's going on?

48:11.952 --> 48:12.952
I'm so sorry.

48:13.954 --> 48:14.954
He what?

48:17.249 --> 48:18.079
I'll be back.

48:18.083 --> 48:19.083
Yeah, okay.

48:20.585 --> 48:21.545
Calm down.

48:21.545 --> 48:23.085
No, no, I understand.

48:23.088 --> 48:24.248
What happened?

48:24.256 --> 48:25.836
He threw Cinderella at her.

48:25.841 --> 48:26.671
What?

48:26.675 --> 48:28.665
The figurine.

48:30.011 --> 48:31.011
Look...

48:31.721 --> 48:33.461
Look, just put him on the phone, okay?

48:33.473 --> 48:34.473
I want to talk to him.

48:36.017 --> 48:37.887
Yeah, well tell him if
he doesn't stop now,

48:37.894 --> 48:39.304
we're canceling his birthday party.

48:39.312 --> 48:40.262
I'm serious.

48:40.272 --> 48:41.102
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, hey!

48:41.106 --> 48:41.936
No, let me talk to her.

48:41.940 --> 48:42.780
Let me talk to her, come here.

48:42.774 --> 48:43.554
Hey.

48:43.567 --> 48:44.397
Hi, Kate, it's Greg.

48:44.401 --> 48:45.231
I'm so sorry.

48:45.235 --> 48:46.065
Do you need us to come home?

48:46.069 --> 48:46.899
That's exactly what he wants.

48:46.903 --> 48:47.903
What's that?

48:48.697 --> 48:49.697
No, I know.

48:51.616 --> 48:53.486
No, we'll leave the phone on so you...

48:55.912 --> 48:56.912
Right, okay, well.

48:58.206 --> 48:59.036
Bye.

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I mean, he's not an idiot,
he knows what he's doing.

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Well, yeah, I mean, honestly
if you're this upset about it

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you might consider listening to me.

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Maybe we should bring him to see someone.

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Okay, can we not do this right now?

49:07.048 --> 49:08.838
He just assaulted his grandmother.

49:08.842 --> 49:10.172
Well, she's probably exaggerating.

49:10.177 --> 49:12.387
Okay, you threatened to
cancel his birthday party

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because she's probably exaggerating?

49:13.889 --> 49:15.759
Greg, I was setting a boundary.

49:15.765 --> 49:16.595
That's allowed.

49:16.600 --> 49:17.770
Yeah, it is, but don't flip it around

49:17.767 --> 49:18.597
and try to minimize it.

49:18.602 --> 49:19.632
If he's acting out, he's acting out.

49:19.644 --> 49:21.934
Greg, he's a kid!

49:21.938 --> 49:24.608
God forbid he should be a
little more aggressive than you.

49:30.322 --> 49:32.022
I'm so sorry, guys.

49:32.032 --> 49:33.062
No, of course.

49:33.074 --> 49:34.064
Is everything okay?

49:34.075 --> 49:35.035
Oh, you know.

49:35.035 --> 49:37.615
He's just punishing us
for having a night out.

49:37.621 --> 49:39.361
You know, maybe I should go.

49:39.372 --> 49:40.652
Greg, we offered.

49:40.665 --> 49:41.495
I know, but I just think
that if one of us was there...

49:41.500 --> 49:44.920
We can't just upend our plans
every time he's in a mood.

49:44.920 --> 49:46.040
Where's the lesson in that?

49:46.046 --> 49:47.586
Fine, you're the boss.

49:47.589 --> 49:48.419
Here you are, miss.

49:48.423 --> 49:49.283
The elderflower saki tea.

49:49.299 --> 49:50.589
Thank you, perfect timing.

49:50.592 --> 49:52.002
Cheers to grown up time.

49:52.010 --> 49:53.300
Cheers.

49:54.221 --> 49:57.961
So, Caitlyn Jenner.

49:57.974 --> 50:00.184
Is she a lesbian now or what?

50:00.185 --> 50:01.045
What?

50:01.061 --> 50:03.221
Well, okay, so I was
listening to this interview

50:03.230 --> 50:06.520
where um, he, she...

50:06.525 --> 50:09.605
Well, yeah, Miss Jenner,
uh, she said that she was

50:09.611 --> 50:12.521
still attracted to women and you know,

50:12.531 --> 50:14.521
even though now she's a...

50:14.533 --> 50:16.993
So I was just wondering is she,

50:16.993 --> 50:17.823
like what is she now?

50:17.827 --> 50:18.657
Is she a lesbian?
- I'm sorry,

50:18.662 --> 50:19.742
how did we get on to...

50:19.746 --> 50:22.326
I know, I was just, I have no idea.

50:22.332 --> 50:24.492
You know, he watches so much TV.

50:24.501 --> 50:25.331
Stop.

50:25.335 --> 50:26.165
I was just reminded of it because

50:26.169 --> 50:28.919
when you were outside we
were talking about your son.

50:30.924 --> 50:34.414
I was just explaining that...

50:35.929 --> 50:38.389
I was just saying it's hard, you know.

50:38.390 --> 50:40.930
Admissions time,
kindergarten, it's so hard

50:40.934 --> 50:43.644
for a child, you know who...

50:43.645 --> 50:45.555
Who what?

50:45.564 --> 50:48.354
Who has a unique expression, Alex...

50:48.358 --> 50:50.448
Listen, hey, you
know, my brother, Mikey,

50:50.443 --> 50:55.403
when he was a kid, he was
obsessed with that uh,

50:55.407 --> 50:58.777
that game Pretty Pretty
Princess and you know,

50:58.785 --> 51:01.655
you cut to freshman year of college

51:01.663 --> 51:04.873
and he's on the football team,
200 pounds six foot three.

51:04.874 --> 51:05.784
So, it just goes to show you...

51:05.792 --> 51:07.782
I'm not sure I follow this.

51:07.794 --> 51:09.404
I'm just saying that you may,

51:09.421 --> 51:12.661
you probably don't need
to worry, that's all.

51:12.674 --> 51:14.034
No one's worried.

51:14.050 --> 51:15.090
That's not what he meant.

51:15.093 --> 51:15.923
Well, that's not exactly true.

51:15.927 --> 51:17.007
I'm a little worried.

51:17.012 --> 51:19.002
And so are his teachers, apparently.

51:19.014 --> 51:19.924
All right, you know what?

51:19.931 --> 51:20.961
Amal, let me ask you something.

51:20.974 --> 51:24.264
You took Sanjay to see a
therapist last year, right?

51:24.269 --> 51:25.229
Greg.

51:25.228 --> 51:27.218
I'm sorry, is that a taboo subject?

51:27.230 --> 51:28.850
I just, we're all friends here.

51:28.857 --> 51:30.097
I think you've had
a little too much to drink.

51:30.108 --> 51:31.438
I just am curious

51:31.443 --> 51:34.733
about your experience as a parent.

51:34.738 --> 51:35.858
And it's fine.

51:37.198 --> 51:39.438
Well, with the divorce
we wanted to be safe,

51:39.451 --> 51:40.981
so I took him to a therapist.

51:40.994 --> 51:41.824
Thank you.

51:41.828 --> 51:44.288
Okay, well that was a
very different situation.

51:44.289 --> 51:45.119
How is that different?

51:45.123 --> 51:46.453
Because with Sanjay there
was an obvious problem.

51:46.458 --> 51:48.288
What do you mean by that?

51:48.293 --> 51:49.653
No, no, not problem, I...

51:49.669 --> 51:50.499
Right.

51:50.503 --> 51:52.083
No, no, no, I just meant,

51:52.088 --> 51:54.248
you know, there was
something external, not...

51:54.257 --> 51:55.797
just how he likes to play.
- I think we should just,

51:55.800 --> 51:56.640
I really think we should
just drop this right now.

51:56.635 --> 51:58.715
It's more than how he likes to play.

51:58.720 --> 51:59.560
What's that supposed to mean?

51:59.554 --> 52:00.384
It means...

52:00.388 --> 52:01.218
What?

52:01.222 --> 52:02.052
What were you going to say?

52:02.057 --> 52:02.887
We can talk about it later.

52:02.891 --> 52:04.001
No, what?

52:04.017 --> 52:04.847
Let's have it.

52:04.851 --> 52:05.681
What were you gonna say?

52:05.685 --> 52:06.685
We're all friends, right?

52:07.896 --> 52:08.766
Fine.

52:08.772 --> 52:11.352
Uh, I was giving Jake
a bath the other night

52:11.358 --> 52:14.978
and he tucked his penis
between his legs, okay?

52:14.986 --> 52:17.146
All boys do that.

52:17.155 --> 52:18.525
Right?

52:18.531 --> 52:19.441
- Well, not really.
- Sure.

52:19.449 --> 52:21.949
Oh, come on, you're
saying Sanjay's never...

52:21.951 --> 52:22.781
No.

52:22.786 --> 52:24.576
And you're saying he's done this before?

52:24.579 --> 52:26.619
Well, it's bath time.

52:26.623 --> 52:28.573
What am I supposed to say, no?

52:28.583 --> 52:30.363
Clearly you're the one
who had a problem with it.

52:30.377 --> 52:31.787
I didn't say I had a problem with it.

52:31.795 --> 52:34.035
I said that there are
people who specialize

52:34.047 --> 52:35.757
in exactly this type of behavior.

52:35.757 --> 52:37.797
Frankly, I'm not sure
what Jake needs right now

52:37.801 --> 52:39.081
is one more adult in his life

52:39.094 --> 52:40.554
gossiping behind his back.

52:40.553 --> 52:41.383
Oh my god.

52:41.388 --> 52:42.848
Trying to come up
with some sort of diagnosis.

52:42.847 --> 52:44.467
No one was gossiping,
Alex, you need to really...

52:44.474 --> 52:45.384
I'm sorry, I didn't
realize we were talking about

52:45.392 --> 52:46.222
a disease here.

52:46.226 --> 52:47.056
It's just...

52:47.060 --> 52:49.520
Hey, can I interest
anyone in some dessert?

52:49.521 --> 52:50.351
We're good.

52:50.355 --> 52:51.565
Just...

52:51.564 --> 52:52.564
Just the check.

53:33.773 --> 53:34.933
Okay.

53:34.941 --> 53:37.851
You can just take a seat back there.

53:40.155 --> 53:41.565
How much have I gained?

53:41.573 --> 53:44.283
Three pounds since last time.

53:44.284 --> 53:47.824
So a total of almost five.

53:49.414 --> 53:50.994
I feel like with my son it was more.

53:50.999 --> 53:53.459
Yeah, it varies, but it's definitely

53:53.460 --> 53:54.580
within the normal range.

53:56.171 --> 54:00.251
And your iron was a little low last time.

54:00.258 --> 54:03.178
I'm taking the
supplement he recommended.

54:18.109 --> 54:20.449
Take a deep breath.

54:20.445 --> 54:25.405
Okay.

54:28.077 --> 54:29.157
Just breathe.

55:04.823 --> 55:06.433
Hey!

55:06.449 --> 55:07.279
Hi, Kimmy!

55:07.283 --> 55:08.113
Good Lord!

55:08.117 --> 55:10.077
That's almost as big as Jake.

55:10.078 --> 55:11.198
Yeah, well, I kept the receipt.

55:11.204 --> 55:12.314
I know he's particular.

55:13.581 --> 55:14.911
Um, you guys know Amal, right?

55:14.916 --> 55:15.826
- Hi.
- Hi.

55:15.834 --> 55:17.074
Nice to see you!

55:17.085 --> 55:18.085
How are you?

55:19.671 --> 55:21.661
Oh, my goodness gracious.

55:22.757 --> 55:23.587
Hi, Mom.

55:23.591 --> 55:24.421
Oh, hi, honey.

55:24.425 --> 55:25.795
Don't you look nice?

55:25.802 --> 55:26.662
Who is uh...

55:26.678 --> 55:29.168
Hi, Kimmy, how are you doing?

55:33.309 --> 55:35.099
Kimmy, we don't run inside!

55:35.103 --> 55:37.013
It's a giant teddy bear.

55:37.021 --> 55:39.051
Can I hold it?

55:39.065 --> 55:39.895
Can I see it?

55:39.899 --> 55:41.769
Everybody, it's
for Jake, it's his present.

55:41.776 --> 55:44.016
It's his birthday, thank you.

56:01.170 --> 56:02.590
You need some help, sweetheart?

56:02.589 --> 56:03.629
No, I'm almost done.

56:03.631 --> 56:04.461
Ah.

56:04.465 --> 56:05.425
My daughter the baker.

56:05.425 --> 56:07.715
You know I wish you wouldn't do that.

56:07.719 --> 56:09.179
What?

56:09.178 --> 56:11.798
Like all this is just...

56:11.806 --> 56:12.926
A waste of time.

56:14.309 --> 56:17.099
I wasn't...

56:17.103 --> 56:20.393
I just meant you didn't
learn that from me.

56:26.029 --> 56:27.569
Stop it!

56:27.572 --> 56:28.852
Hey, stop it, Sanjay!

56:28.865 --> 56:30.655
What is the matter with you, baby?

56:30.658 --> 56:31.648
What happened?

56:31.659 --> 56:33.699
Sanjay pushed Bobby.

56:33.703 --> 56:37.073
He started it because
Bobby called Jake a flag.

56:37.081 --> 56:38.081
Oh.

56:39.751 --> 56:40.751
Flag?

56:44.130 --> 56:44.970
Jake, honey.

56:44.964 --> 56:46.204
Hey, Mom, no, no, no, no, I got it.

56:46.215 --> 56:47.215
I got it.

56:57.560 --> 56:58.560
Hey.

57:01.105 --> 57:02.105
Hey, you okay?

57:03.900 --> 57:05.610
It's almost time to make a wish.

57:09.572 --> 57:11.062
Babe, come on.

57:13.701 --> 57:14.701
Honey.

57:16.162 --> 57:18.612
Honey, talk to me, please?

58:18.725 --> 58:20.805
You know, just...

58:20.810 --> 58:22.180
Excuse me one moment.

58:22.186 --> 58:23.186
Sure.

58:31.070 --> 58:31.910
Laurel.

58:31.904 --> 58:32.734
It's gotta stop.

58:32.739 --> 58:34.359
Look, I know that you're
with a client right now

58:34.365 --> 58:35.985
and I really hate to
interrupt, but this is...

58:35.992 --> 58:37.352
I'm not with a client.

58:38.870 --> 58:39.710
What?

58:39.704 --> 58:41.914
I said I'm not with a client.

58:45.251 --> 58:46.781
You seem angry.

58:46.794 --> 58:48.704
Is there something you need to release?

59:04.812 --> 59:06.092
Well, we'll
talk to you next week.

59:06.105 --> 59:07.095
Thank you so much.

59:07.106 --> 59:08.476
Fingers crossed.

59:09.942 --> 59:11.182
Right on time.

59:11.194 --> 59:12.854
Yeah, got some good news for us?

59:14.113 --> 59:15.113
Come on in.

59:18.618 --> 59:22.908
Okay, but this is
preliminary feedback, right?

59:22.914 --> 59:24.624
They haven't made their decisions.

59:24.624 --> 59:25.484
That's true.

59:25.500 --> 59:28.040
So, is there any chance
one could still end up

59:28.044 --> 59:29.374
accepting him?

59:29.378 --> 59:32.628
It's possible, but I have to be honest.

59:32.632 --> 59:34.792
At this point it's unlikely

59:34.801 --> 59:36.541
it would come with financial aid.

59:36.552 --> 59:38.882
What about the magnets?

59:38.888 --> 59:40.378
BSI, PS20?

59:40.389 --> 59:42.099
We'll know more in a few weeks.

59:42.100 --> 59:44.060
But his scores were so high.

59:44.060 --> 59:45.770
They were very strong.

59:45.770 --> 59:47.140
But the cutoffs go up every year.

59:47.146 --> 59:48.766
There's just too much demand.

59:50.525 --> 59:53.685
So you're saying he could
be shut out everywhere?

59:54.862 --> 59:57.472
I'm saying we need to be prepared.

01:00:00.827 --> 01:00:02.947
You know, this is a numbers game.

01:00:02.954 --> 01:00:03.784
We knew this.

01:00:03.788 --> 01:00:05.278
I mean, we went to public school.

01:00:05.289 --> 01:00:07.499
We turned out okay, right?

01:00:07.500 --> 01:00:09.920
Remember, he could also
do another year with us,

01:00:09.919 --> 01:00:11.329
reapply next fall.

01:00:11.337 --> 01:00:15.127
I know it's not ideal, but
under the circumstances,

01:00:15.133 --> 01:00:17.243
I think it might be
the best thing for him.

01:00:18.219 --> 01:00:19.259
What do you mean?

01:00:19.262 --> 01:00:20.122
She's just listing options.

01:00:20.138 --> 01:00:21.678
I mean, if the gifted
programs don't work out.

01:00:21.681 --> 01:00:24.791
No, but, but what circumstances?

01:00:24.809 --> 01:00:26.399
Look.

01:00:26.394 --> 01:00:28.724
There's no question he's bright.

01:00:28.729 --> 01:00:32.149
He's creative, that comes
across in all of the feedback.

01:00:32.150 --> 01:00:36.240
But several places also
note that he gets stubborn

01:00:36.237 --> 01:00:38.317
and defensive when
dealing with other kids.

01:00:38.322 --> 01:00:40.522
Frankly, you two are very lucky to be

01:00:40.533 --> 01:00:43.573
raising a kid like Jake now
instead of 50 years ago,

01:00:43.578 --> 01:00:44.948
even 20 years ago.

01:00:44.954 --> 01:00:46.814
And what exactly does that mean?

01:00:46.831 --> 01:00:47.991
A kid like Jake?

01:00:47.999 --> 01:00:48.829
Okay, you know what,
I think we're getting

01:00:48.833 --> 01:00:49.663
off-topic here.

01:00:49.667 --> 01:00:51.537
Alex, I'm very sorry that this isn't

01:00:51.544 --> 01:00:52.784
the news we were hoping for,

01:00:52.795 --> 01:00:55.285
but you have to understand
the number of spots

01:00:55.298 --> 01:00:56.128
we're talking about.

01:00:56.132 --> 01:00:58.992
Of course, and I know how
many kids you have to place.

01:00:59.010 --> 01:01:02.430
Whoa, I'm not sure what
you're implying here,

01:01:02.430 --> 01:01:05.140
but you know that I care
very deeply about Jake,

01:01:05.141 --> 01:01:07.381
which is why I'm doing
everything in my power

01:01:07.393 --> 01:01:09.383
to place him somewhere where he feels safe

01:01:09.395 --> 01:01:10.765
and comfortable enough to...

01:01:10.771 --> 01:01:12.301
To dress like a girl.

01:01:12.315 --> 01:01:13.145
Okay.

01:01:13.149 --> 01:01:14.769
That's obviously what you're saying.

01:01:14.775 --> 01:01:15.605
Alex...

01:01:15.610 --> 01:01:17.780
And maybe the problem is that we all

01:01:17.778 --> 01:01:19.148
started pitching him as some kind of...

01:01:19.155 --> 01:01:19.985
Alex, he had no idea
what was in that essay.

01:01:19.989 --> 01:01:21.329
It doesn't matter.

01:01:21.324 --> 01:01:23.184
Obviously it's going to affect the way

01:01:23.201 --> 01:01:24.031
that people treat him.

01:01:24.035 --> 01:01:26.745
I'm talking about him
feeling safe and respected.

01:01:26.746 --> 01:01:27.576
Yes!

01:01:27.580 --> 01:01:29.420
But isn't there a danger of imposing...

01:01:29.415 --> 01:01:32.575
Imposing what exactly?

01:01:32.585 --> 01:01:35.575
No, not imposing.

01:01:35.588 --> 01:01:37.128
That was...

01:01:37.131 --> 01:01:38.131
That...

01:01:38.925 --> 01:01:40.215
Greg.

01:01:40.218 --> 01:01:43.338
Alex, do you think my sexual orientation

01:01:43.346 --> 01:01:46.756
has anything to do with my
advice regarding your son?

01:01:46.766 --> 01:01:47.596
What?

01:01:47.600 --> 01:01:48.440
Judy, of course not.

01:01:48.434 --> 01:01:50.764
Because every time I try
to bring up my concerns,

01:01:50.770 --> 01:01:53.810
you respond like I'm pushing
some political agenda.

01:01:53.814 --> 01:01:56.724
And let me tell you, the
impulse to embrace children

01:01:56.734 --> 01:01:58.194
as they are is not an agenda.

01:01:58.194 --> 01:01:59.524
No, I never said...

01:01:59.528 --> 01:02:00.358
And like it or not,

01:02:00.363 --> 01:02:02.143
you two have some choices to make here.

01:02:02.156 --> 01:02:03.066
There's a problem.

01:02:03.074 --> 01:02:05.864
If you don't believe me, just
read the feedback yourself.

01:02:05.868 --> 01:02:08.288
He's acting out verbally, physically.

01:02:08.287 --> 01:02:10.527
He is and I mean, maybe...

01:02:10.539 --> 01:02:14.539
Maybe he's sick of us, of us
pushing him into this role.

01:02:14.543 --> 01:02:15.623
Alex, you can't expect him

01:02:15.628 --> 01:02:17.718
to never realize he's different.

01:02:17.713 --> 01:02:20.503
No, but I can wait
until he tells me himself.

01:02:20.508 --> 01:02:22.048
But it sounds like he's trying,

01:02:22.051 --> 01:02:23.581
but you're just determined to ignore it.

01:02:23.594 --> 01:02:24.544
I am not ignoring it, Jesus!

01:02:24.553 --> 01:02:26.963
Okay, okay, okay.

01:02:26.973 --> 01:02:29.003
Maybe if you had ever had your own kids.

01:02:34.397 --> 01:02:35.397
You know what?

01:02:36.065 --> 01:02:37.395
We're done, okay?

01:02:51.080 --> 01:02:52.080
Ah!

01:03:14.895 --> 01:03:16.105
And I'll come grab him.

01:03:16.105 --> 01:03:19.895
Um, I guess I'll just,
I'll text you when we're...

01:03:19.900 --> 01:03:21.190
No, no, everything's fine.

01:03:21.193 --> 01:03:24.023
Um, it'll be fine.

01:03:24.030 --> 01:03:25.450
Yeah, okay.

01:03:25.448 --> 01:03:26.448
Thank you.

01:03:27.116 --> 01:03:28.116
Bye.

01:04:22.004 --> 01:04:23.214
You should lie down.

01:05:07.925 --> 01:05:08.925
Here.

01:05:17.726 --> 01:05:18.726
Come on.

01:05:46.505 --> 01:05:48.625
I think you should leave.

01:05:53.304 --> 01:05:54.514
I'm not going anywhere.

01:05:55.639 --> 01:05:57.349
We don't have to talk,

01:05:57.349 --> 01:05:59.809
but I'm not leaving you alone right now.

01:05:59.810 --> 01:06:02.270
I don't think I can not talk

01:06:05.232 --> 01:06:06.682
if you're here.

01:06:06.692 --> 01:06:07.932
I don't think I can...

01:06:09.904 --> 01:06:13.894
Not say something, something mean.

01:06:13.908 --> 01:06:17.278
I'm very angry.

01:06:19.038 --> 01:06:20.038
I understand.

01:06:21.957 --> 01:06:23.787
I'm angry at you, Greg.

01:06:27.838 --> 01:06:31.008
You should have said something to Judy.

01:06:31.008 --> 01:06:32.968
She was out of line and

01:06:32.968 --> 01:06:35.428
you just sat there.

01:06:44.772 --> 01:06:46.472
We're not gonna have this
conversation right now.

01:06:46.482 --> 01:06:47.972
Yes, please tell me what conversations

01:06:47.983 --> 01:06:48.813
we're allowed to have.

01:06:48.817 --> 01:06:50.397
Alex, if you need to be
mad at me, that's fine,

01:06:50.402 --> 01:06:51.682
but I am not going to fight.

01:06:51.695 --> 01:06:52.685
That is really the last thing I...

01:06:52.696 --> 01:06:54.736
You should have said something!

01:06:55.824 --> 01:06:58.734
Well, frankly, I could
barely get a word in.

01:06:58.744 --> 01:07:01.114
I was trying to keep
things from escalating.

01:07:01.121 --> 01:07:03.781
Right, right, God
forbid anyone gets angry.

01:07:03.791 --> 01:07:05.901
God forbid you ever piss someone off.

01:07:05.918 --> 01:07:06.878
All right, this is ridiculous.

01:07:06.877 --> 01:07:08.997
You're in shock and we're both grieving.

01:07:09.004 --> 01:07:10.114
Oh, thank you.

01:07:10.130 --> 01:07:10.970
I'd forgotten.

01:07:10.965 --> 01:07:11.925
You're trying to make me feel as much

01:07:11.924 --> 01:07:12.954
pain as you do and the irony...

01:07:12.967 --> 01:07:14.127
That is not what I'm doing!

01:07:14.134 --> 01:07:15.164
Of course it is.

01:07:15.177 --> 01:07:16.917
Maybe not consciously, but
that's definitely part of...

01:07:16.929 --> 01:07:19.429
Oh my God, things I could
do without number one:

01:07:19.431 --> 01:07:21.261
The fucking unconscious!

01:07:21.267 --> 01:07:23.137
Please, please spare me that.

01:07:23.143 --> 01:07:24.753
Fine, let's blame Freud, right?

01:07:24.770 --> 01:07:26.690
It's Freud's fault you miscarried.

01:07:26.689 --> 01:07:28.229
Oh, I miscarried?

01:07:28.232 --> 01:07:30.262
No, that is not what I...

01:07:30.276 --> 01:07:33.236
You think if I'd just
taken better care of myself...

01:07:33.237 --> 01:07:34.227
Would you please stop.

01:07:34.238 --> 01:07:36.988
If I hadn't overburdened myself

01:07:36.991 --> 01:07:38.021
with Jake's applications?

01:07:38.033 --> 01:07:38.863
Allie, for God's sake.

01:07:38.867 --> 01:07:40.527
If I had let you call an ambulance

01:07:40.536 --> 01:07:41.576
instead of taking a cab,

01:07:41.579 --> 01:07:42.949
maybe we would have gotten there sooner.

01:07:42.955 --> 01:07:45.075
Yeah, well now we'll
never know, will we?

01:07:54.091 --> 01:07:55.701
Allie, I'm sorry.

01:07:55.718 --> 01:07:56.928
You're an asshole.

01:07:56.927 --> 01:07:57.797
Jesus.

01:07:57.803 --> 01:07:59.383
This is hard for me, too.

01:07:59.388 --> 01:08:01.098
Is that impossible for you to understand?

01:08:01.098 --> 01:08:03.718
I needed help, Greg.

01:08:03.726 --> 01:08:07.566
And you just sat there
like you were embarrassed.

01:08:07.563 --> 01:08:08.393
Do you have any idea...

01:08:08.397 --> 01:08:09.227
Okay, I'm not gonna do this.

01:08:09.231 --> 01:08:10.091
Where are you going?

01:08:10.107 --> 01:08:11.107
Greg!

01:08:11.984 --> 01:08:13.844
Greg, you can't just
walk away in the middle...

01:08:13.861 --> 01:08:15.891
In the middle of what, an argument?

01:08:15.904 --> 01:08:17.144
This is not an argument.

01:08:17.156 --> 01:08:18.616
This is you shitting on me.

01:08:19.825 --> 01:08:22.365
So I'm gonna go pick up Jake
and I'm gonna take him out

01:08:22.369 --> 01:08:24.909
and when I get back, I
hope that you're in bed.

01:08:24.913 --> 01:08:26.993
'Cause frankly, he doesn't
need to see you like this.

01:08:26.999 --> 01:08:27.999
Fine.

01:08:28.792 --> 01:08:30.822
Fine!

01:08:30.836 --> 01:08:32.546
Yeah, go take him out for ice cream.

01:08:33.714 --> 01:08:34.664
And when you're done why don't you both

01:08:34.673 --> 01:08:36.453
get your nails done, huh?

01:08:36.467 --> 01:08:38.047
I mean, why not?

01:08:38.052 --> 01:08:40.082
It's not like you've
ever taken him to a park

01:08:40.095 --> 01:08:42.175
or thrown a ball in his direction!

01:09:02.576 --> 01:09:05.536
That is a disgusting thing to say.

01:09:08.207 --> 01:09:10.197
You think it's my fault he likes dresses?

01:09:11.460 --> 01:09:14.300
Do you think I'm too effete a role model?

01:09:14.296 --> 01:09:15.586
Who the fuck are you?

01:09:15.589 --> 01:09:16.419
Greg, that's not...

01:09:16.423 --> 01:09:18.753
Did you listen to the feedback?

01:09:18.759 --> 01:09:22.679
Stubborn, defensive, did that
not remind you of anyone?

01:09:22.680 --> 01:09:24.430
Not to mention, you're the
one reading him fairy tales

01:09:24.431 --> 01:09:25.291
every night.

01:09:25.307 --> 01:09:28.267
You're the one buying him
every Disney Princess DVD

01:09:28.268 --> 01:09:29.388
you can get your hands on

01:09:29.395 --> 01:09:32.555
and then freaking out when
people start to notice.

01:09:32.564 --> 01:09:35.304
I mean, is it any wonder he's confused?

01:09:36.568 --> 01:09:38.028
You know, maybe the reason I
didn't say anything to Judy

01:09:38.028 --> 01:09:40.268
is because I agree with her.

01:09:40.280 --> 01:09:42.990
I think we need to make some choices

01:09:42.991 --> 01:09:44.821
about how to address the situation.

01:09:44.827 --> 01:09:45.657
Fine.

01:09:45.661 --> 01:09:48.021
You know, bring him to a
shrink, what do I know, right?

01:09:48.038 --> 01:09:50.708
I'm just the one at home
with him all day, every day!

01:09:50.708 --> 01:09:53.128
- Oh, for God's sake!
- What?

01:09:53.127 --> 01:09:55.367
You get to have a life
outside this apartment!

01:09:55.379 --> 01:09:56.209
I gave that up.

01:09:56.213 --> 01:09:57.373
You wanna go back to work, do it.

01:09:57.381 --> 01:09:58.211
No one's stopping you.

01:09:58.215 --> 01:09:59.045
No, no!

01:09:59.049 --> 01:10:01.219
I made a choice to be here because

01:10:01.218 --> 01:10:03.588
I wanted him to have a
mother who's devoted.

01:10:03.595 --> 01:10:05.835
And because you hated being a lawyer!

01:10:05.848 --> 01:10:06.808
Christ!

01:10:06.807 --> 01:10:09.647
Don't pretend like you
weren't desperate to get out!

01:10:09.643 --> 01:10:11.253
This is what you wanted.

01:10:11.270 --> 01:10:13.310
So I'm sorry if motherhood turns out to be

01:10:13.313 --> 01:10:15.553
just another disappointment,
but I am his father.

01:10:15.566 --> 01:10:17.896
I live here, too, and I
am sick of being treated

01:10:17.901 --> 01:10:19.311
like you're raising him alone.

01:10:20.404 --> 01:10:23.394
Jake is not a disappointment.

01:10:24.700 --> 01:10:26.620
I said motherhood, not Jake.

01:10:27.578 --> 01:10:30.038
This is so...

01:10:31.206 --> 01:10:33.166
I'm sorry, okay?

01:10:38.130 --> 01:10:40.800
I'm sorry for making you so unhappy.

01:10:40.799 --> 01:10:44.389
I'm sorry for taking you for granted.

01:10:44.386 --> 01:10:49.096
I'm sorry for all the ways I've
fucked things up with Jake.

01:10:49.099 --> 01:10:50.009
Allie.

01:10:50.017 --> 01:10:53.477
I am, I am sorry about the baby.

01:10:53.479 --> 01:10:54.309
No.

01:10:54.313 --> 01:10:56.173
For whatever I did wrong.

01:10:56.190 --> 01:10:58.560
I am not asking you to apologize.

01:10:58.567 --> 01:11:01.527
Just please, please, let's just stop.

01:11:30.724 --> 01:11:31.724
It's Judy.

01:11:34.937 --> 01:11:36.807
She called before at the hospital.

01:11:38.982 --> 01:11:41.262
Just wanted to make sure
everything was okay.

01:11:50.494 --> 01:11:51.854
Well, it's not.

01:13:32.429 --> 01:13:34.269
What do you think is holding you back?

01:13:36.350 --> 01:13:37.770
I mean, like I said, it's stupid.

01:13:37.768 --> 01:13:38.978
It's just a signature.

01:13:41.104 --> 01:13:43.144
It's not like it changes anything.

01:13:44.566 --> 01:13:46.146
His stuff's already gone.

01:13:47.235 --> 01:13:49.975
The financials are straightforward.

01:13:49.988 --> 01:13:51.478
There's no custody battle.

01:13:55.535 --> 01:13:57.445
Silver linings, right?

01:14:02.834 --> 01:14:06.574
You know, you never
really talked about that.

01:14:08.256 --> 01:14:09.256
What?

01:14:11.218 --> 01:14:12.218
Well...

01:14:14.972 --> 01:14:15.972
Kids.

01:14:17.724 --> 01:14:19.384
There's not much to talk about.

01:14:22.646 --> 01:14:25.016
We talked about IVF

01:14:26.650 --> 01:14:28.990
and how hard that was on both of you.

01:14:30.821 --> 01:14:35.731
But I don't think you ever
mentioned the decision to stop.

01:14:38.954 --> 01:14:42.864
Does that matter at this point?

01:14:46.461 --> 01:14:47.461
I think it might.

01:14:50.465 --> 01:14:52.925
It's just my two cents.

01:14:56.722 --> 01:14:59.962
Well, it was always
part of the plan, I guess.

01:15:02.561 --> 01:15:04.471
And when it didn't happen right away,

01:15:06.314 --> 01:15:09.934
we both kept assuming with all the options

01:15:10.944 --> 01:15:14.064
the next one, this'll be the one.

01:15:16.616 --> 01:15:17.736
Then the one after that.

01:15:20.245 --> 01:15:22.735
Then the one after that and
then at a certain point,

01:15:25.250 --> 01:15:26.710
I think we both just realized.

01:15:30.088 --> 01:15:31.878
We were eating takeout one night

01:15:31.882 --> 01:15:34.912
and he looked at me and said,

01:15:40.348 --> 01:15:41.928
"We're done, aren't we?"

01:15:47.814 --> 01:15:48.814
I guess we were.

01:15:52.778 --> 01:15:53.938
And how did you feel?

01:15:55.614 --> 01:15:56.614
Honestly?

01:16:03.246 --> 01:16:04.246
I felt relieved.

01:16:10.045 --> 01:16:12.755
I knew how much Ben wanted it.

01:16:15.300 --> 01:16:18.590
I knew it was what I should want.

01:16:22.182 --> 01:16:23.182
But...

01:16:27.521 --> 01:16:29.101
I don't know.

01:16:29.106 --> 01:16:30.106
I thought...

01:16:30.899 --> 01:16:33.569
Oh, thank God.

01:16:39.574 --> 01:16:41.484
You didn't think you could tell him?

01:16:43.286 --> 01:16:44.286
I think he knew.

01:16:53.755 --> 01:16:55.585
It's so quiet in here.

01:16:55.590 --> 01:16:59.180
Ah, Dr. Hendricks decided to relocate.

01:17:09.104 --> 01:17:10.434
I miss the banshee.

01:17:28.623 --> 01:17:29.623
Okay.

01:17:31.001 --> 01:17:32.001
Here you go.

01:17:32.836 --> 01:17:33.836
Thank you.

01:17:35.589 --> 01:17:36.589
Judy, I...

01:17:38.967 --> 01:17:40.427
It's really good to see you.

01:17:46.474 --> 01:17:47.474
You try...

01:17:50.812 --> 01:17:53.262
You try so hard to protect them, but...

01:17:56.610 --> 01:17:59.570
It's never gonna be
easy to really see people.

01:18:01.573 --> 01:18:03.273
Especially the ones we love.

01:18:09.164 --> 01:18:09.994
Hon?

01:18:09.998 --> 01:18:10.998
In here.

01:18:12.542 --> 01:18:13.452
Alex, hi.

01:18:13.460 --> 01:18:14.460
Hi, Lynn.

01:18:18.882 --> 01:18:19.882
Hey.

01:18:20.675 --> 01:18:23.715
I am gonna go get changed.

01:18:23.720 --> 01:18:24.720
Okay.

01:18:29.267 --> 01:18:31.007
She hates my guts, doesn't she?

01:18:31.019 --> 01:18:32.019
She'll get over it.

01:18:49.621 --> 01:18:50.731
What's the matter with you?

01:18:50.747 --> 01:18:52.157
This is a child!

01:18:52.165 --> 01:18:53.745
Get off that bike!

01:18:53.750 --> 01:18:55.420
You're not in control!

01:18:55.418 --> 01:18:57.838
If I ever see you on a
bike without a helmet,

01:18:57.837 --> 01:19:00.957
it will not be a pretty picture, okay?

01:19:33.790 --> 01:19:34.790
Can't sleep?

01:19:38.336 --> 01:19:41.456
I've noticed some
things about this movie.

01:19:43.842 --> 01:19:45.292
Things that don't make sense.

01:19:47.971 --> 01:19:50.251
'Cause the idea is that Cinderella is this

01:19:50.265 --> 01:19:52.305
abused servant girl, right?

01:19:53.935 --> 01:19:55.675
But she's got an entourage of animals

01:19:55.687 --> 01:19:57.427
waiting on her hand and foot.

01:19:58.648 --> 01:20:02.188
They bathe her, they dress her.

01:20:04.821 --> 01:20:06.481
Honestly, she's not doing too bad.

01:20:23.048 --> 01:20:24.758
It's a good school.

01:20:29.304 --> 01:20:30.584
I think he'll be happy.

01:20:40.690 --> 01:20:42.900
You know, when he was a baby,

01:20:42.901 --> 01:20:45.731
I was so convinced he knew things.

01:20:49.366 --> 01:20:51.856
I would look at him and
wish so badly he could talk

01:20:51.868 --> 01:20:54.328
'cause I was sure he wanted to tell me.

01:20:59.709 --> 01:21:00.829
He's got time.

01:21:05.548 --> 01:21:06.788
Maybe he'll come around.

01:21:21.940 --> 01:21:22.940
Come to bed.

01:21:54.514 --> 01:21:55.514
Hi.

01:21:59.686 --> 01:22:01.596
Mr. and Mrs. Wheeler?

01:22:01.604 --> 01:22:02.604
Come on in.

01:22:03.815 --> 01:22:06.805
Do you know what I've been
meaning to ask you about?

01:22:07.694 --> 01:22:09.434
Which one is Aurora again?

01:22:10.822 --> 01:22:11.652
Who's Aurora?

01:22:11.656 --> 01:22:12.486
Aurora?

01:22:12.490 --> 01:22:14.360
Yeah, that's who you
dressed up as, isn't it?

01:22:14.367 --> 01:22:15.777
Aurora's Sleeping Beauty.

01:22:15.785 --> 01:22:16.995
That's right.

01:22:16.995 --> 01:22:19.075
Oh, yes, and they have
those three little fairies

01:22:19.080 --> 01:22:19.920
that travel...

01:22:19.914 --> 01:22:22.824
And they take her to a cottage

01:22:22.834 --> 01:22:25.124
and then she doesn't
know she's a princess.

01:22:25.128 --> 01:22:25.958
Mm-hmm.

01:22:25.962 --> 01:22:27.642
They can't tell her
and they're all like...

01:22:33.511 --> 01:22:34.341
Ready, ready?

01:22:34.345 --> 01:22:36.135
One, two, three, whee!

01:22:48.943 --> 01:22:53.903
♪ You are the sun to the earth ♪

01:22:54.073 --> 01:22:58.733
♪ You are the light of this world ♪

01:22:58.745 --> 01:23:03.115
♪ Won't you see ♪

01:23:03.124 --> 01:23:08.034
♪ Why won't you see ♪

01:23:10.215 --> 01:23:15.175
♪ You are the hand I can't reach ♪

01:23:15.595 --> 01:23:20.055
♪ You are the words I can't speak ♪

01:23:20.058 --> 01:23:24.558
♪ Won't you say ♪

01:23:24.562 --> 01:23:29.522
♪ Why won't you say ♪

01:23:31.986 --> 01:23:36.106
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:23:42.956 --> 01:23:47.126
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:23:53.758 --> 01:23:57.548
♪ You twist the light in your hands ♪

01:23:57.554 --> 01:24:02.514
♪ Losing thoughts so you
move you can't give ♪

01:24:02.850 --> 01:24:07.850
♪ Reasons fall from every
storm that you live ♪

01:24:07.855 --> 01:24:12.145
♪ We move through the dark helpless ♪

01:24:36.759 --> 01:24:41.719
♪ You are the quiet in my soul ♪

01:24:41.889 --> 01:24:46.809
♪ You are the pieces of gold ♪

01:24:46.811 --> 01:24:50.891
♪ Won't you shine ♪

01:24:50.898 --> 01:24:55.858
♪ Why won't you shine ♪

01:24:58.531 --> 01:25:02.691
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:25:09.250 --> 01:25:13.340
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:25:19.969 --> 01:25:24.139
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:26:03.429 --> 01:26:06.929
♪ You twist the light in your hands ♪

01:26:06.933 --> 01:26:11.803
♪ Losing thoughts so you
move you can't give ♪

01:26:11.979 --> 01:26:16.939
♪ Reasons fall from every
storm that you live ♪

01:26:17.235 --> 01:26:21.475
♪ We move through the dark helpless ♪

01:26:46.472 --> 01:26:51.182
♪ You are the quiet in my soul ♪

01:26:51.185 --> 01:26:55.645
♪ You are the pieces of gold ♪

01:26:55.648 --> 01:27:00.268
♪ Won't you shine ♪

01:27:00.278 --> 01:27:05.198
♪ Why won't you shine ♪

01:27:07.910 --> 01:27:12.000
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:27:18.504 --> 01:27:22.664
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪

01:27:29.432 --> 01:27:33.512
♪ I will walk till I've no shadow ♪