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Daanu, my dear…

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Daanu, should I do your braids?

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Should I do your braids?

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Daanu, should I braid your hair?

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Daanu, should I braid your hair?

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Should I braid your hair?

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Should I braid your hair?

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Should I make some cute braids?

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Daanu, come here,
I'll braid your hair nicely…

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Okay?

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Look,

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I packed this from home, especially
for you.

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Care for some parathas?
- No.

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How much longer before we reach?

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It'll take another two hours.

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Do you want some
chips? I got some chips.

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No.

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Just trust me, I know...

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We'll make the best photo
essay for you at grandma's house.

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So, Daanu, I was just thinking…

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We shouldn’t rummage
through grandpa's old…

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Belongings, when we are
over at grandma’s, okay?

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Mom I have to make a photo
essay on YOUR side of the family…

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And grandpa is a
part of that, right?

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Of course, of course.

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Just that…

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We’ll try not to mention grandpa…

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A lot…in front of grandma…

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We’ll try not to seek
out his photos, hmm?

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'Perfect Family'

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I'm not a bad mother,
Megha, trust me.

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I didn't mean to hit Daani.

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It all just happened
so fast that day.

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She is wrong here!

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Even though we're
the “older generation”,

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But, we also know that one shouldn't
hit children.

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And this isn’t the first
time that she has hit Daani.

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Kamla, let’s just please calm down.

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See, all of them try to corner me.

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Every time there's an argument,
they all gang up on me.

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Yes, that’s because you don’t
have control over your tongue!

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Neeti, hitting your child is
definitely not okay.

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But if we want to move
forward in therapy…

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You’ve got to
forgive yourself first.

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Megha, my dear, we really want to
build a happier family…

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But she spares no efforts.

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Mom doesn't like Neeti much,

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because Neeti doesn't behave
the way mom wants her to.

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Is that how you think
of your own mother?

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She likes to keep control.

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What are you going on about?
Have I bound you in shackles?

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'Potatoes that are
boiled and mashed.'

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Hey, listen…

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Those undergarments
of yours in the bathroom…

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Why haven’t you
laundered them yet, huh?

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They’ll go damp and start to smell.

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Don't make such faces.

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Mom, what's your problem?

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'Finely chopped.'

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Your hair is so dry and frizzy…

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Should I apply some coconut oil?
- No.

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Mom, can you share the
that aloo tikki recipe with me,

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I want to try it at the
shop, for the snack counter.

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I'll tell you once your
father comes back later.

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Look at Vishnu, he isn't
answering any of my calls.

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Vishnu and your father seem
to be lost in some kind of bliss…

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God knows what channel
you keep watching?

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“…The film has been running for more
than five continuous years…”

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“DDLJ's Raj and
Simran brought such a

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romantic saga to
the big screen that…”

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“Even after 25 years, it still
lives fresh in people’s hearts.”

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I watched this film for the
first time when you were little.

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You know, the actor
who played the father in it,

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the late & much
respected Amrish Puri…

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His character was so strict…

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That despite living in England,

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He didn't let his
children enjoy any liberty.

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And look at us. We live here,
and yet we grant so much freedom.

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Hmm. - What happened?
Why are you laughing?

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Pinky!

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Don't do all of this in front of me!

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But, you were saying something
about ‘giving freedom’, right?

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Your father is right...

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You do act oversmart.

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Pass me the remote.

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We've never treated her
and Vishnu any differently.

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Whatever we provided for
Vishnu, we got her the same.

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I've always thought
about what's best for her.

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I can think for myself too,
you know.

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When you become a mother,
then you'll understand.

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I don't want to be one. I'm scared
that I’ll turn out to be like you.

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Please relax.

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The stress that you're experiencing…

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It depends on many things…

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Especially the upbringing.

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Neeti's anger, the long-standing
resentment between Kamla and Pooja,

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and Kamla's misunderstanding
towards Neeti and Pooja…

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All of it comes from
a deeper place.

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And today, we’ll try to
stand in each other's shoes…

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In order to understand
one another, better.

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In this house, nobody understands
everybody’s needs, better than me.

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There's a big difference
between understanding…

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People's needs and
understanding their feelings.

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Empathy comes from
truly understanding…

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What someone feels on the inside.

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And today, we'll try…

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To make sure your family…

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Understands your perspective,

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And you understand theirs.

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‘May no evil befall upon you…’

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‘Om Shanti Shanti…’

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How many times have I told you mom,

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To operate the touch screen phone.

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You've just kept it in the
cupboard in mint condition.

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Nowadays, nobody checks their
talktime balance like this mom.

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Hmm.

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There’s about an
eighty-nine rupee balance,

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With two months
of validity still to go.

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So it's done right?
What are you still going on about!?

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You know, when we were little,

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Grandma wouldn't even
allow me or your aunt Preeti

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To go anywhere near that mango tree.

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We used to joke that the mango
tree is granny’s favourite child.

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You used to pluck the raw mangoes.

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Yes, because I liked raw mangoes.

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You’ve come here to
click photos my sweety?

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It’s a school project?

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Yes, I have to capture
the maternal side of my family…

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For a photo essay.

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Well all of that just
went over my head!

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For me, the fact that you came
to visit is more than enough.

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Otherwise, whether I live or die,

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Nobody asks after me.

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Did you have fun on
your birthday, sweety?

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To seek birthday blessings for you,
I even offered sweets at the temple.

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But grandma, why didn't you come?

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Your mother didn't invite me.

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Mom, I invite you every single year.

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Are you serious!?

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At this age, you expect an old woman

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to board the train and
travel all the way alone?

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It’s customary for
the son in law to come

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and accompany his
mother-in-law in person…

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Whenever there’s an invite to
the daughter’s in-laws’ house.

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He’s got a job, you know that.

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He doesn't have
the time even for us–

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What did I even say to you?

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Just eat your mango.

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Daanu, there's still
a lot of pulp left in it.

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Squeeze it properly,

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And eat it like this, see.

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Grandpa called to wish me
on my birthday.

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Very good.

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Have you packed my thick
wool sweater? - Yes.

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I have wrapped it in the newspaper.

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Hey brother, take this.

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I'll call you once
I reach Delhi airport.

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What will I do here without you?

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It feels like someone is choking me.

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Renu, just stop with this melodrama.

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I'll earn dollars over there.
Our lives will improve.

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What would I do with the money,

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If my whole world is
slipping away from me?

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I have the responsibility
of two daughters on my head.

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Stop it now.

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You have to swear
on Neeti and Preeti,

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To return to us!

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Else I’ll die!

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I’d never seen my
mother act like that before.

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I felt scared for her.

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And after that,

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She got caught up in all kinds
of strange, superstitious beliefs.

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Mother,

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He will return to me, right?

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Would a ‘fair skinned’, woman
snatch him away from me?

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That was all that kept playing in
my mother's mind, everyday.

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I had to run the house…
Take care of Preeti.

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Preeti, are you hungry?

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Yes.

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So eventually, I learnt to
do everything by myself.

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I used to think…

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That, if I helped around the house,

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Became a 'good girl'...

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My mother would be happy.

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But that didn't happen.

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Hey, Scotchy!

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Come here, my baby. Eat this, eat!

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Just think about it…

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Raj was different, wasn't he?

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Instead of eloping with Simran,

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He tried to win over her
parents’ approval instead.

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And now imagine how much
better Kuljeet was.

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Strong, well-built young man–
- Kuljeet who?

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Parmeet.

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You know Archana right?

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The woman who keeps laughing
on Kapil Sharma’s show? Her husband.

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He even owned so much farmland.

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That guy?
- Yes.

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You’d prefer him to Raj?

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Wow!

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I'm thinking about Simran's future.

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And what does Raj have?

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An easy go lucky lad, roaming
around playing his little ukulele.

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Had she married Kuljeet, he
would've treated her like a queen.

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Right, Scotchy?

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But Scotchy, Simran loved Raj.

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Love etc. happens... eventually….

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Prince, this is the last time…

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After this, you can fail,

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For all I care.
- Sorry.

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I don't know…I just
blank out at economics.

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But it's so interesting!

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Supply and demand is my favourite.

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Yeah, all that is fine.
First, eat this.

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Did you eat?

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People who work need more food.

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Did you love him?

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Huh!

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Kamlaji!

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Oh sorry. Kindness.

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Continue, Pinky.

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I did.

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Not anymore.

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Kamlaji, now you can speak.

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Look, teenagers don't fall
in any real kind of love.

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And the Mehras used to
be mechanics back then,

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And their son, Prince was
a good for nothing...

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Like an empty taxi
wandering on the road.

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I loved him.

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Kamlaji,

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Did you ever fall in
love with Mr. Somnath?

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Congratulations!
- Congratulations to you too!!

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Both our families were Punjabis.

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Our class and caste also matched,

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And even our parents were happy.

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Oh my, such a lovely girl…

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To be honest,

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At first, I wasn't
impressed seeing him.

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His face was all tanned…

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And he had this big moustache…

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Were you expecting to have superstar
Rajesh Khanna as a match?

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He’s hardworking...

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He has even built a big
shop all by himself.

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And before you’ll even have to ask…

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He'll put his earnings in your hand.

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He'll treat you like a queen.
A real queen.

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There’ll be servants
at your service.

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Not everyone lucks
out like you Kamla.

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Did you see that burly
moustache though?

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Then get it shaved off
after the wedding.

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Who doesn't follow a beautiful
bride’s orders after all?

00:15:02.627 --> 00:15:04.589 align:center
So did Mr. Somnath finally
shave off his moustache?

00:15:04.986 --> 00:15:07.088 align:center
Not really, he seldom listens to me.

00:15:08.338 --> 00:15:09.433 align:center
Then how did you fall in love?

00:15:09.826 --> 00:15:11.384 align:center
One eventually ends up
loving their husband.

00:15:11.979 --> 00:15:14.266 align:center
You take such vows, make promises…

00:15:15.129 --> 00:15:17.938 align:center
There isn't really any option.
One has to make it work.

00:15:21.794 --> 00:15:24.607 align:center
And if you ever had an option?

00:15:24.963 --> 00:15:26.563 align:center
That's immoral to even imagine.
No, not at all…

00:15:27.506 --> 00:15:30.670 align:center
We weren’t raised like that... To
leave one man and seek another.

00:15:32.042 --> 00:15:33.776 align:center
So Kamlaji, do you think…

00:15:34.458 --> 00:15:37.073 align:center
The women who choose
to do so, relish it?

00:15:37.187 --> 00:15:38.948 align:center
Maybe they do, who knows?

00:15:40.585 --> 00:15:41.804 align:center
God knows what these girls do!

00:16:46.690 --> 00:16:47.371 align:center
Daanu.

00:16:48.162 --> 00:16:48.715 align:center
Yes?

00:16:50.402 --> 00:16:51.281 align:center
Where did you find these?

00:16:51.818 --> 00:16:53.578 align:center
Here. In your diaries.

00:16:54.979 --> 00:16:57.921 align:center
Daanu, the whole house is available
for you to take pictures.

00:16:57.922 --> 00:16:59.625 align:center
Just leave grandpa's photos, okay?

00:16:59.626 --> 00:17:00.580 align:center
But why?

00:17:02.074 --> 00:17:03.283 align:center
I explained it to you
on the bus, right?

00:17:04.050 --> 00:17:06.690 align:center
Grandma won't like it.
Try to understand, please.

00:17:06.778 --> 00:17:08.294 align:center
It's just photos…

00:17:08.769 --> 00:17:13.377 align:center
And I love grandpa. He even sent me
the Gigi Hadid lip balm from the US.

00:17:35.100 --> 00:17:37.795 align:center
Let the girl do her project
the way she wants, Neeti.

00:17:38.073 --> 00:17:39.569 align:center
Why the drama?

00:17:41.442 --> 00:17:42.679 align:center
Use whatever you need my child.

00:17:43.506 --> 00:17:45.897 align:center
There are some more photographs too.
I'll give them to you.

00:17:49.603 --> 00:17:50.485 align:center
Thank you, grandma!

00:18:10.618 --> 00:18:12.578 align:center
Gosh, you're slicing up
such big chunks…

00:18:13.099 --> 00:18:14.578 align:center
Big chunks don't mix
evenly in the milk!

00:18:17.995 --> 00:18:19.215 align:center
What’s with you?
Why do you get irritated easily?

00:18:19.873 --> 00:18:20.973 align:center
Can't you just be joyful?

00:18:22.338 --> 00:18:24.058 align:center
Only if you ever let there be
any joy, maybe then I’ll be joyful.

00:18:25.091 --> 00:18:28.309 align:center
You behave like ‘Goddess
Sita‘ in front of my daughter…

00:18:28.818 --> 00:18:31.060 align:center
But, from the time you found out dad
wasn't coming back,

00:18:31.061 --> 00:18:34.367 align:center
You used to go crazy,
just hearing his name.

00:18:35.226 --> 00:18:36.468 align:center
And today you're
taking out his photos

00:18:36.469 --> 00:18:37.566 align:center
and showing them around yourself!?

00:18:38.370 --> 00:18:40.403 align:center
Because now it doesn't affect me.

00:18:41.074 --> 00:18:42.332 align:center
They're just pictures for me…

00:18:42.514 --> 00:18:44.106 align:center
At least unlike you, I don't go
around slapping people.

00:18:45.210 --> 00:18:46.895 align:center
That's because you’re old now.

00:18:47.835 --> 00:18:50.353 align:center
When you had the strength, you used
to slap me at the drop of a hat!

00:18:50.354 --> 00:18:51.630 align:center
What nonsense Neeti?

00:18:51.762 --> 00:18:53.177 align:center
I never hit you.

00:18:59.329 --> 00:19:00.607 align:center
She lives in denial.

00:19:01.667 --> 00:19:04.135 align:center
Or maybe just the
memory of it has faded.

00:19:04.849 --> 00:19:05.591 align:center
Mom?

00:19:06.618 --> 00:19:07.396 align:center
Mom?

00:19:08.258 --> 00:19:09.021 align:center
You’re back.

00:19:10.058 --> 00:19:10.607 align:center
Yes.

00:19:11.258 --> 00:19:12.962 align:center
Can you serve lunch?
- Yeah...

00:19:33.866 --> 00:19:34.605 align:center
I don't want more.

00:19:35.818 --> 00:19:37.289 align:center
But you’ve hardly eaten.

00:19:40.868 --> 00:19:42.539 align:center
Cook the lentil soup
thicker next time.

00:19:44.121 --> 00:19:44.465 align:center
Ew…

00:19:45.818 --> 00:19:46.613 align:center
Yuck...

00:19:51.769 --> 00:19:53.534 align:center
If you have a problem with it, why
don’t you cook it yourself next time?

00:20:09.362 --> 00:20:11.839 align:center
I think your mom couldn't…

00:20:12.258 --> 00:20:15.466 align:center
Handle the loss of
your father leaving.

00:20:15.467 --> 00:20:16.777 align:center
But for me, she was all I had…

00:20:18.626 --> 00:20:19.850 align:center
And she didn't care about me at all.

00:20:23.083 --> 00:20:24.006 align:center
It made me so angry.

00:20:25.035 --> 00:20:26.225 align:center
How did you express your anger?

00:20:27.169 --> 00:20:28.451 align:center
I used to work
really hard in school.

00:20:29.418 --> 00:20:31.286 align:center
I just wanted attention,
no matter how.

00:20:34.202 --> 00:20:36.211 align:center
Whatever little love there was,
It all went to Preeti.

00:20:38.210 --> 00:20:40.828 align:center
Maybe, Neeti, you're still…

00:20:41.514 --> 00:20:43.594 align:center
Holding all that anger inside.

00:20:46.091 --> 00:20:46.559 align:center
I don't know.

00:20:49.267 --> 00:20:50.926 align:center
You never told me this, dear…

00:20:53.289 --> 00:20:55.101 align:center
You never got to
live your childhood.

00:20:57.139 --> 00:20:58.379 align:center
This usually happens in families…

00:20:59.250 --> 00:21:00.796 align:center
Everyone feels like
their pain hurts the most.

00:21:01.328 --> 00:21:04.363 align:center
But, if we truly
listen to each other,

00:21:05.554 --> 00:21:07.548 align:center
We'll realize that in some way,

00:21:08.338 --> 00:21:09.837 align:center
Our pain is more in common than
one would assume….

00:21:13.418 --> 00:21:14.761 align:center
You'll make a mess of everything.

00:21:14.762 --> 00:21:16.922 align:center
Yes, I know. I mess up everything!
Even my memory is messed up,

00:21:17.018 --> 00:21:19.042 align:center
My work is a mess…
Even the food I cook is a mess…

00:21:19.130 --> 00:21:20.217 align:center
Everything I do is bad, right?
- Leave it,

00:21:20.218 --> 00:21:20.797 align:center
I'll make it.

00:21:20.798 --> 00:21:22.378 align:center
This damn mixer is
from another century!!

00:21:22.618 --> 00:21:24.017 align:center
Why don't you open the new one?

00:21:24.018 --> 00:21:25.205 align:center
I'm not doing the project!

00:21:26.299 --> 00:21:28.057 align:center
Please stop fighting, both of you.

00:21:28.907 --> 00:21:30.907 align:center
We're not fighting.
Not at all, we're not fighting.

00:21:31.002 --> 00:21:32.141 align:center
Mummy, we're not fighting, right?

00:21:32.266 --> 00:21:33.235 align:center
No, no, dear.

00:21:33.609 --> 00:21:35.013 align:center
We're not fighting at all.

00:21:35.562 --> 00:21:37.299 align:center
You sit outside,
I'll bring the shake.

00:21:39.833 --> 00:21:40.507 align:center
What the–!

00:22:00.978 --> 00:22:02.166 align:center
Ha ha!

00:22:21.578 --> 00:22:23.074 align:center
Neeti, I wanted
to say something to you...

00:22:24.498 --> 00:22:26.261 align:center
Your father didn't go away
because of you,

00:22:26.738 --> 00:22:28.363 align:center
Nor because of me.

00:22:30.306 --> 00:22:32.703 align:center
He wanted to leave, so he left.

00:22:34.658 --> 00:22:36.125 align:center
Mom, you just need to be all right.

00:22:37.283 --> 00:22:39.184 align:center
Nothing else matters to me.

00:22:40.826 --> 00:22:42.269 align:center
Nothing’s going to happen to me.

00:22:51.202 --> 00:22:52.882 align:center
You just get a grip on your anger.

00:22:55.106 --> 00:22:56.178 align:center
Look, who's talking...

00:22:57.018 --> 00:22:57.592 align:center
Yes, well…

00:23:00.026 --> 00:23:01.889 align:center
Anger hollows you
to the bone, dear...

00:23:04.714 --> 00:23:05.941 align:center
It tramples everything.
Leaves nothing behind.

00:23:28.285 --> 00:23:29.775 align:center
Now that the proposals have
started to come in, what can I do?

00:23:31.227 --> 00:23:32.204 align:center
No matter what I do,
your mom and dad

00:23:32.205 --> 00:23:33.103 align:center
are never going to
agree to this match.

00:23:33.923 --> 00:23:35.313 align:center
For them, I'll always
remain a mechanic's son.

00:23:36.618 --> 00:23:38.546 align:center
At least try to
prove yourself first.

00:23:39.073 --> 00:23:41.606 align:center
You know I can't do a 9-to-5 job,

00:23:41.607 --> 00:23:43.332 align:center
What else should I do?--
- And what exactly can you do?

00:23:44.690 --> 00:23:46.027 align:center
Love..you.

00:23:52.345 --> 00:23:55.913 align:center
If you truly loved me,
you would've put in some effort.

00:23:57.546 --> 00:23:59.264 align:center
You would’ve done something
with your life.

00:23:59.265 --> 00:24:01.697 align:center
I helped you twice.
I gave you two chances.

00:24:04.393 --> 00:24:05.393 align:center
You won't be able to do anything.

00:24:24.602 --> 00:24:27.756 align:center
Destiny…Is greater than love...

00:24:28.587 --> 00:24:30.507 align:center
No matter how true your love is,

00:24:30.682 --> 00:24:32.979 align:center
One day, it loses to destiny.

00:24:34.082 --> 00:24:36.276 align:center
Match is made in heaven.

00:24:36.634 --> 00:24:37.986 align:center
We just seek it out in this world.

00:24:38.658 --> 00:24:41.181 align:center
Like Raj and Simran…
Your father and I,

00:24:41.466 --> 00:24:42.955 align:center
Neeti and Vishnu
became a pair…

00:24:43.161 --> 00:24:45.276 align:center
Even you and Ashok
became such soulmates.

00:24:45.786 --> 00:24:47.134 align:center
Ashok is not my soulmate.

00:24:48.882 --> 00:24:50.834 align:center
But weren’t you the one
to pick out Ashok?

00:25:09.138 --> 00:25:11.365 align:center
Hmm
- How was your meeting?

00:25:11.676 --> 00:25:12.912 align:center
How did you like Ashok?

00:25:14.457 --> 00:25:15.882 align:center
He was fine. Polite.

00:25:17.242 --> 00:25:17.867 align:center
He was nice.

00:25:18.258 --> 00:25:20.218 align:center
I knew you'd like him.

00:25:20.539 --> 00:25:21.814 align:center
I'll just call up his
mother right now

00:25:21.815 --> 00:25:23.179 align:center
and tell her that we
accept the proposal.

00:25:23.512 --> 00:25:24.852 align:center
What! Wait, Mom!

00:25:26.095 --> 00:25:28.228 align:center
When did I ever say that?
- You just said it!

00:25:28.744 --> 00:25:30.242 align:center
I only said he's polite.

00:25:30.554 --> 00:25:31.932 align:center
Polite... Like the airplane steward
is polite.

00:25:31.933 --> 00:25:33.689 align:center
That doesn't mean
I'm ready to marry him.

00:25:45.469 --> 00:25:45.969 align:center
Pooja,

00:25:48.587 --> 00:25:49.813 align:center
I'm tired now, dear.

00:25:54.840 --> 00:25:56.697 align:center
Look at Kamal... His daughter,

00:25:58.411 --> 00:25:59.957 align:center
Is five years younger to you

00:26:00.554 --> 00:26:02.074 align:center
And her wedding
is already fixed…

00:26:02.274 --> 00:26:03.868 align:center
But, with you, we have no idea
where all this heading.

00:26:04.258 --> 00:26:06.782 align:center
Mom, when have I said no
to marriage?

00:26:08.467 --> 00:26:11.963 align:center
Look, dear, at your insistence,
we even gave that Prince a chance.

00:26:13.091 --> 00:26:14.635 align:center
It's been two years since then.

00:26:15.194 --> 00:26:18.034 align:center
What does Ashok lack?
He's a decent boy.

00:26:18.779 --> 00:26:20.454 align:center
There won't be any restrictions
at his home, either.

00:26:21.211 --> 00:26:21.985 align:center
Mom…

00:26:22.650 --> 00:26:25.117 align:center
I'm your mother and I'll always
want what's best for you.

00:26:25.118 --> 00:26:26.348 align:center
Why would I wish anything bad?

00:26:35.860 --> 00:26:37.586 align:center
Let it be, it's fine.

00:26:39.562 --> 00:26:41.415 align:center
I've cooked rajma for lunch,
just the way you like them.

00:26:42.387 --> 00:26:43.137 align:center
Come and eat.

00:26:50.891 --> 00:26:51.391 align:center
Come.

00:26:56.192 --> 00:26:57.500 align:center
I'll work after marriage though.

00:26:59.434 --> 00:27:01.880 align:center
Of course! Who's stopping you?

00:27:03.298 --> 00:27:04.298 align:center
Hand me your phone. Fast!

00:27:04.674 --> 00:27:06.699 align:center
Your father will be so
happy to hear this.

00:27:08.211 --> 00:27:10.804 align:center
“I got duped by my
mother's emotional blackmail.”

00:27:14.572 --> 00:27:16.374 align:center
Did I force you onto
the wedding altar?

00:27:18.098 --> 00:27:20.651 align:center
All the girls of your age were
happily settling down in their lives,

00:27:21.178 --> 00:27:23.175 align:center
And I also just wanted you
to be happy like others.

00:27:26.023 --> 00:27:27.250 align:center
Was that a mistake?

00:27:28.850 --> 00:27:31.242 align:center
I just didn't want to
see my daughter lonely.

00:27:31.579 --> 00:27:33.163 align:center
Mom, I was happy already.

00:27:34.298 --> 00:27:36.161 align:center
I was learning our business,

00:27:36.162 --> 00:27:38.897 align:center
I had plans to expand the shop,

00:27:39.875 --> 00:27:41.338 align:center
But you made it seem like,

00:27:41.339 --> 00:27:43.698 align:center
If I didn't get married, terrible
things would happen to me.

00:27:45.162 --> 00:27:47.386 align:center
You were badgering me for two years!

00:27:48.203 --> 00:27:50.929 align:center
And to add to that, your tears,
taunts, comments…

00:27:53.458 --> 00:27:56.070 align:center
I said yes to Ashok
out of sheer exhaustion.

00:28:01.706 --> 00:28:03.369 align:center
What's your problem?

00:28:03.370 --> 00:28:04.952 align:center
Is he an alcoholic?
A gambler? A drug addict?

00:28:04.953 --> 00:28:05.930 align:center
What exactly is the problem?

00:28:06.074 --> 00:28:07.372 align:center
Tell me!

00:28:07.373 --> 00:28:08.902 align:center
Mom, he's boring!

00:28:09.153 --> 00:28:10.619 align:center
I say something,
he gets something else.

00:28:10.620 --> 00:28:12.257 align:center
He says something
and I don't get it either.

00:28:12.258 --> 00:28:14.377 align:center
There's no connection between us.

00:28:14.378 --> 00:28:16.751 align:center
Do you want a circus clown
for a husband?

00:28:16.946 --> 00:28:19.040 align:center
Who'll dance around you just to keep
you entertained?

00:28:19.210 --> 00:28:20.410 align:center
You've become so selfish Pinky!

00:28:20.658 --> 00:28:23.202 align:center
Am I selfish?
You'll just say anything now?

00:28:23.203 --> 00:28:25.061 align:center
Just because I said
my husband should be,

00:28:25.062 --> 00:28:27.258 align:center
someone I actually like,
that just makes me selfish?

00:28:27.778 --> 00:28:29.422 align:center
I'm not like you, Mom!

00:28:29.547 --> 00:28:32.027 align:center
Keeping everyone
and everything before myself.

00:28:33.162 --> 00:28:35.860 align:center
Look at yourself,
look what you've become.

00:28:36.138 --> 00:28:37.470 align:center
And tell me... What did you get
from your marriage?

00:28:38.162 --> 00:28:40.979 align:center
You're talking as if you found
true love in your damn marriage!

00:29:03.820 --> 00:29:05.085 align:center
That was love…right?

00:29:08.874 --> 00:29:10.314 align:center
Whatever I cooked,

00:29:11.354 --> 00:29:13.157 align:center
He never refused to it.
He’d eat it happily.

00:29:20.138 --> 00:29:21.568 align:center
He gave me happiness.

00:29:22.435 --> 00:29:23.755 align:center
He treated me like a queen.

00:29:25.338 --> 00:29:27.179 align:center
He never let me feel
the lack of anything.

00:29:32.946 --> 00:29:33.727 align:center
And I…

00:29:36.970 --> 00:29:38.473 align:center
I used to find joy…

00:29:40.227 --> 00:29:41.732 align:center
In the smallest things.

00:29:45.921 --> 00:29:47.852 align:center
That's love…Isn't it..?

00:30:05.442 --> 00:30:06.127 align:center
Kamlaji,

00:30:06.955 --> 00:30:09.017 align:center
You wanted Pooja's happiness,

00:30:09.395 --> 00:30:10.575 align:center
In the best of sense that
you could comprehend.

00:30:12.418 --> 00:30:14.458 align:center
And Pooja…
Kamlaji comes from a place…

00:30:15.138 --> 00:30:18.375 align:center
Where the zenith of happiness
in life is to get married.

00:30:22.203 --> 00:30:24.523 align:center
Kamlaji, you're the one
who’s always said that,

00:30:24.835 --> 00:30:27.026 align:center
You gave Pooja the best upbringing
you could.

00:30:27.938 --> 00:30:28.745 align:center
So, obviously…

00:30:29.211 --> 00:30:31.715 align:center
She grew up believing that she
could be anyone or achieve anything.

00:30:32.338 --> 00:30:34.395 align:center
That’s confidence... And you're
the one who instilled that in her.

00:30:49.091 --> 00:30:50.419 align:center
Grandma, that one…

00:30:50.658 --> 00:30:52.138 align:center
This one…

00:30:56.963 --> 00:30:57.803 align:center
Aah!

00:30:59.218 --> 00:31:02.040 align:center
Wow, you’d never let me
pluck the raw mangoes!

00:31:06.842 --> 00:31:08.950 align:center
Mom, where are the papers
for my fixed deposit?

00:31:09.130 --> 00:31:10.013 align:center
What fixed deposit?

00:31:10.995 --> 00:31:11.960 align:center
There's just one.

00:31:11.961 --> 00:31:13.935 align:center
The one Dad started
twenty years ago.

00:31:14.460 --> 00:31:15.955 align:center
There should be around
14 lac rupees in it by now.

00:31:16.513 --> 00:31:19.111 align:center
I don't remember…
Check it the next time you come.

00:31:19.922 --> 00:31:21.728 align:center
Should I pack some aloo-poori
for the road?

00:31:22.282 --> 00:31:22.671 align:center
Yes.

00:31:23.586 --> 00:31:25.444 align:center
Daani, go inside for a bit.

00:31:26.249 --> 00:31:26.639 align:center
Come,

00:31:27.507 --> 00:31:30.248 align:center
Let's wash these properly first…

00:31:30.562 --> 00:31:31.685 align:center
And then…

00:31:33.666 --> 00:31:34.255 align:center
You go on, dear.

00:31:37.130 --> 00:31:38.890 align:center
Wash them and eat.
- Okay.

00:31:45.018 --> 00:31:45.815 align:center
What did you do with
the fixed deposit?

00:31:47.858 --> 00:31:49.322 align:center
You came all the way
from Delhi to settle accounts?

00:31:49.786 --> 00:31:52.166 align:center
Last year, rain dampened the walls
of the whole house.

00:31:52.874 --> 00:31:54.236 align:center
How else was I
supposed to get it fixed?

00:31:54.237 --> 00:31:55.248 align:center
Would Vishnu have paid for it?

00:31:56.294 --> 00:31:57.442 align:center
That was my fixed deposit.

00:31:58.298 --> 00:32:00.857 align:center
You could've asked me once.
- It was a joint deposit.

00:32:01.498 --> 00:32:02.938 align:center
You didn't have
sole right over it.

00:32:03.027 --> 00:32:05.034 align:center
I did have a right.
I'm the daughter of this house.

00:32:06.266 --> 00:32:09.056 align:center
Papa made that deposit for me,
in case I faced any hardship–

00:32:09.057 --> 00:32:10.395 align:center
And what hardship are you
facing exactly?

00:32:11.611 --> 00:32:13.171 align:center
Married off into a
rich Delhi family.

00:32:13.172 --> 00:32:14.231 align:center
You guys have a business,

00:32:14.698 --> 00:32:15.897 align:center
Your husband even
earns additionally…

00:32:16.235 --> 00:32:18.131 align:center
I needed to fix my house.

00:32:18.482 --> 00:32:20.545 align:center
But, I wanted to buy my
own house mom!

00:32:22.139 --> 00:32:23.267 align:center
And that was my money!

00:32:25.018 --> 00:32:26.955 align:center
Gosh, now you can't even live
peacefully with your in-laws' too?

00:32:28.962 --> 00:32:30.897 align:center
Neeti, what do you want?

00:32:31.625 --> 00:32:32.608 align:center
How much more will you take?

00:32:33.338 --> 00:32:34.444 align:center
For once, look at your selfishness.

00:32:35.145 --> 00:32:36.225 align:center
It’s mind boggling to think of it.

00:32:36.890 --> 00:32:37.910 align:center
Can I say something?

00:32:39.799 --> 00:32:41.777 align:center
Dad left because of you.

00:32:43.211 --> 00:32:43.941 align:center
And that's the truth.

00:32:46.210 --> 00:32:49.014 align:center
He couldn't tolerate someone
like you and that's why he left.

00:33:10.207 --> 00:33:13.355 align:center
I have dreams, which
can't be fulfilled staying here.

00:33:13.658 --> 00:33:16.098 align:center
And when did I ever stop
you from fulfilling your dreams?

00:33:16.297 --> 00:33:17.393 align:center
But why Delhi?

00:33:17.978 --> 00:33:19.792 align:center
Because I’m getting admission
to a good college!

00:33:20.058 --> 00:33:20.995 align:center
Why shouldn't I go?

00:33:21.467 --> 00:33:24.375 align:center
All I know is that girls, who leave
home young, never come back.

00:33:25.074 --> 00:33:25.976 align:center
I know that.

00:33:27.753 --> 00:33:28.593 align:center
I’m not Dad.

00:33:31.026 --> 00:33:32.730 align:center
You think if you go to Delhi,

00:33:33.586 --> 00:33:34.988 align:center
You'll get to trap some rich boy…

00:33:35.570 --> 00:33:36.738 align:center
And get rid of me that easily?

00:33:37.218 --> 00:33:38.145 align:center
Are you crazy?!

00:33:39.826 --> 00:33:41.099 align:center
Don't you ever call me crazy!

00:33:43.041 --> 00:33:44.393 align:center
Let me tell you something...

00:33:44.938 --> 00:33:48.910 align:center
Girls from broken families, never
make a happy family of their own.

00:34:06.098 --> 00:34:06.817 align:center
Neeti,

00:34:07.554 --> 00:34:10.196 align:center
Your mom has taken
a lot of blows in her life,

00:34:11.054 --> 00:34:13.656 align:center
And the stress of it all was
taken out on you.

00:34:16.606 --> 00:34:18.505 align:center
Whatever she said to you…

00:34:19.114 --> 00:34:20.106 align:center
Wasn't really about you.

00:34:21.372 --> 00:34:23.005 align:center
It was her own fear talking.

00:34:23.954 --> 00:34:25.249 align:center
Please understand this.

00:34:28.587 --> 00:34:30.085 align:center
And now that stress you're carrying,

00:34:31.841 --> 00:34:33.300 align:center
Doesn't have to come out on Daani.

00:34:36.106 --> 00:34:38.065 align:center
You have to break the chain.

00:34:43.683 --> 00:34:44.523 align:center
Kamlaji,

00:34:46.031 --> 00:34:47.851 align:center
Do you not like it when
Neeti and Pooja…

00:34:49.346 --> 00:34:51.144 align:center
Put their thoughts forward?

00:34:52.802 --> 00:34:55.682 align:center
Me…I–I love both of them…

00:34:56.361 --> 00:34:57.760 align:center
I’ve got nothing against them.

00:34:58.466 --> 00:34:59.791 align:center
I know Kamlaji. But maybe,

00:35:00.178 --> 00:35:01.580 align:center
Without meaning to,

00:35:02.122 --> 00:35:03.346 align:center
You end up hurting them.

00:35:04.115 --> 00:35:05.412 align:center
Because they are not like you.

00:35:06.642 --> 00:35:08.677 align:center
You compromised in your life…

00:35:09.865 --> 00:35:11.833 align:center
But, they don't want to.

00:35:12.583 --> 00:35:15.172 align:center
And maybe that is
what bothers you.

00:35:41.676 --> 00:35:42.876 align:center
“My grandma's house…”

00:35:43.138 --> 00:35:45.363 align:center
“Is in the Malihabad
area of Lucknow.”

00:35:46.152 --> 00:35:48.381 align:center
“For me, grandma's house means,”

00:35:48.970 --> 00:35:51.162 align:center
“Me, mom, and grandma.”

00:35:52.042 --> 00:35:53.037 align:center
“Grandma's house…”

00:35:53.858 --> 00:35:56.346 align:center
“Is like a time capsule of
old memories...”

00:35:57.122 --> 00:35:58.920 align:center
“You can find anything in there.”

00:36:02.538 --> 00:36:05.045 align:center
“My grandma and mom fight a lot,”

00:36:05.258 --> 00:36:06.552 align:center
“But they love each
other a lot, too.”

00:36:07.194 --> 00:36:07.994 align:center
“They're strange.”

00:36:09.202 --> 00:36:11.990 align:center
“Mom feels she's not like grandma,”

00:36:12.625 --> 00:36:15.465 align:center
“And I feel I'm not like mom.”

00:36:17.538 --> 00:36:19.338 align:center
“No matter what we do,”

00:36:19.786 --> 00:36:22.109 align:center
“We're never good enough
for our mothers.”

00:37:22.035 --> 00:37:23.755 align:center
“But that doesn't mean…”

00:37:24.058 --> 00:37:26.338 align:center
“We give up on each other.”

00:37:34.658 --> 00:37:36.523 align:center
Daani?!

00:37:37.351 --> 00:37:39.624 align:center
“We stay connected, no matter what.”

00:37:40.571 --> 00:37:41.101 align:center
Take this.

00:37:42.955 --> 00:37:43.717 align:center
This is yours.

00:37:45.730 --> 00:37:47.556 align:center
“As if nothing ever happened.”

00:37:48.802 --> 00:37:50.761 align:center
And take this,
- What’s this?

00:37:51.506 --> 00:37:52.504 align:center
See for yourself.

00:37:52.922 --> 00:37:56.084 align:center
“Like I said, it's
a strange relationship…”

00:38:03.002 --> 00:38:05.274 align:center
Work hard, dear.

00:38:19.880 --> 00:38:21.058 align:center
Mom…
- Hmm.

00:38:21.170 --> 00:38:24.012 align:center
Will my photo essay get
selected for the school magazine?

00:38:24.394 --> 00:38:25.316 align:center
Of course it will.

00:38:26.234 --> 00:38:27.468 align:center
You're the smartest one.

00:38:33.530 --> 00:38:34.258 align:center
Daanu,

00:38:36.130 --> 00:38:36.888 align:center
I'm sorry.

00:38:45.106 --> 00:38:47.842 align:center
“In this big, scary world,

00:38:48.906 --> 00:38:50.580 align:center
“When we feel like we
have no one,”

00:38:51.658 --> 00:38:52.898 align:center
“We always have our mother.”

00:38:54.579 --> 00:38:55.588 align:center
“Always.”

00:38:56.729 --> 00:38:57.276 align:center
Thank you.

00:39:01.818 --> 00:39:02.618 align:center
Come here.

00:39:05.707 --> 00:39:08.753 align:center
Three, two, one.

