WEBVTT 00:22.273 --> 00:23.218 Daanu, my dear… 00:24.186 --> 00:25.506 Daanu, should I do your braids? 00:26.194 --> 00:27.494 Should I do your braids? 00:28.442 --> 00:30.783 Daanu, should I braid your hair? 00:32.146 --> 00:33.526 Daanu, should I braid your hair? 00:36.570 --> 00:38.046 Should I braid your hair? 00:40.073 --> 00:41.465 Should I braid your hair? 00:41.796 --> 00:43.233 Should I make some cute braids? 00:43.573 --> 00:45.530 Daanu, come here, I'll braid your hair nicely… 00:51.705 --> 00:52.222 Okay? 00:54.432 --> 00:54.963 Look, 00:56.485 --> 00:58.070 I packed this from home, especially for you. 01:00.634 --> 01:02.164 Care for some parathas? - No. 01:04.193 --> 01:05.537 How much longer before we reach? 01:05.538 --> 01:06.512 It'll take another two hours. 01:06.513 --> 01:07.794 Do you want some chips? I got some chips. 01:08.200 --> 01:08.802 No. 01:10.890 --> 01:11.709 Just trust me, I know... 01:12.433 --> 01:14.687 We'll make the best photo essay for you at grandma's house. 01:19.795 --> 01:22.301 So, Daanu, I was just thinking… 01:23.914 --> 01:24.676 We shouldn’t rummage through grandpa's old… 01:25.858 --> 01:28.166 Belongings, when we are over at grandma’s, okay? 01:29.520 --> 01:31.784 Mom I have to make a photo essay on YOUR side of the family… 01:32.517 --> 01:33.803 And grandpa is a part of that, right? 01:34.922 --> 01:36.322 Of course, of course. 01:37.099 --> 01:37.907 Just that… 01:39.256 --> 01:40.920 We’ll try not to mention grandpa… 01:42.033 --> 01:43.623 A lot…in front of grandma… 01:45.219 --> 01:47.499 We’ll try not to seek out his photos, hmm? 02:06.648 --> 02:08.367 'Perfect Family' 02:18.355 --> 02:20.459 I'm not a bad mother, Megha, trust me. 02:22.018 --> 02:23.443 I didn't mean to hit Daani. 02:24.507 --> 02:26.009 It all just happened so fast that day. 02:28.376 --> 02:29.187 She is wrong here! 02:29.188 --> 02:30.907 Even though we're the “older generation”, 02:31.114 --> 02:33.154 But, we also know that one shouldn't hit children. 02:33.818 --> 02:35.607 And this isn’t the first time that she has hit Daani. 02:37.714 --> 02:39.592 Kamla, let’s just please calm down. 02:40.354 --> 02:41.864 See, all of them try to corner me. 02:42.754 --> 02:44.958 Every time there's an argument, they all gang up on me. 02:45.185 --> 02:46.603 Yes, that’s because you don’t have control over your tongue! 02:49.698 --> 02:53.174 Neeti, hitting your child is definitely not okay. 02:54.658 --> 02:56.616 But if we want to move forward in therapy… 02:57.458 --> 02:59.108 You’ve got to forgive yourself first. 03:00.602 --> 03:03.281 Megha, my dear, we really want to build a happier family… 03:04.250 --> 03:05.773 But she spares no efforts. 03:09.633 --> 03:10.763 Mom doesn't like Neeti much, 03:10.764 --> 03:12.756 because Neeti doesn't behave the way mom wants her to. 03:14.458 --> 03:16.342 Is that how you think of your own mother? 03:17.473 --> 03:19.111 She likes to keep control. 03:19.618 --> 03:22.236 What are you going on about? Have I bound you in shackles? 03:27.669 --> 03:29.991 'Potatoes that are boiled and mashed.' 03:31.210 --> 03:32.097 Hey, listen… 03:32.098 --> 03:33.929 Those undergarments of yours in the bathroom… 03:33.930 --> 03:35.801 Why haven’t you laundered them yet, huh? 03:37.308 --> 03:39.060 They’ll go damp and start to smell. 03:39.698 --> 03:40.591 Don't make such faces. 03:40.970 --> 03:42.371 Mom, what's your problem? 03:42.458 --> 03:43.833 'Finely chopped.' 03:43.938 --> 03:45.380 Your hair is so dry and frizzy… 03:46.314 --> 03:47.662 Should I apply some coconut oil? - No. 03:57.521 --> 03:59.257 Mom, can you share the that aloo tikki recipe with me, 03:59.258 --> 04:01.578 I want to try it at the shop, for the snack counter. 04:01.802 --> 04:03.734 I'll tell you once your father comes back later. 04:06.111 --> 04:07.845 Look at Vishnu, he isn't answering any of my calls. 04:08.065 --> 04:10.556 Vishnu and your father seem to be lost in some kind of bliss… 04:14.914 --> 04:16.465 God knows what channel you keep watching? 04:16.466 --> 04:18.626 “…The film has been running for more than five continuous years…” 04:19.058 --> 04:21.059 “DDLJ's Raj and Simran brought such a 04:21.060 --> 04:22.981 romantic saga to the big screen that…” 04:23.338 --> 04:25.134 “Even after 25 years, it still lives fresh in people’s hearts.” 04:25.225 --> 04:27.736 I watched this film for the first time when you were little. 04:28.555 --> 04:29.840 You know, the actor who played the father in it, 04:29.841 --> 04:30.813 the late & much respected Amrish Puri… 04:31.094 --> 04:32.422 His character was so strict… 04:33.042 --> 04:34.555 That despite living in England, 04:34.556 --> 04:35.810 He didn't let his children enjoy any liberty. 04:36.338 --> 04:39.592 And look at us. We live here, and yet we grant so much freedom. 04:41.042 --> 04:42.969 Hmm. - What happened? Why are you laughing? 04:45.722 --> 04:46.490 Pinky! 04:47.770 --> 04:49.537 Don't do all of this in front of me! 04:49.744 --> 04:51.103 But, you were saying something about ‘giving freedom’, right? 04:53.721 --> 04:54.761 Your father is right... 04:55.458 --> 04:57.731 You do act oversmart. 05:00.442 --> 05:00.972 Pass me the remote. 05:02.234 --> 05:04.634 We've never treated her and Vishnu any differently. 05:05.052 --> 05:07.492 Whatever we provided for Vishnu, we got her the same. 05:08.138 --> 05:09.826 I've always thought about what's best for her. 05:09.827 --> 05:11.387 I can think for myself too, you know. 05:11.482 --> 05:13.179 When you become a mother, then you'll understand. 05:13.180 --> 05:16.266 I don't want to be one. I'm scared that I’ll turn out to be like you. 05:16.810 --> 05:17.486 Please relax. 05:19.083 --> 05:21.168 The stress that you're experiencing… 05:21.169 --> 05:23.373 It depends on many things… 05:24.329 --> 05:25.872 Especially the upbringing. 05:26.810 --> 05:31.766 Neeti's anger, the long-standing resentment between Kamla and Pooja, 05:32.714 --> 05:35.665 and Kamla's misunderstanding towards Neeti and Pooja… 05:36.490 --> 05:38.425 All of it comes from a deeper place. 05:38.910 --> 05:42.151 And today, we’ll try to stand in each other's shoes… 05:42.755 --> 05:45.292 In order to understand one another, better. 05:45.874 --> 05:49.928 In this house, nobody understands everybody’s needs, better than me. 05:50.538 --> 05:52.413 There's a big difference between understanding… 05:52.553 --> 05:55.153 People's needs and understanding their feelings. 05:56.338 --> 05:58.088 Empathy comes from truly understanding… 05:58.089 --> 05:59.530 What someone feels on the inside. 06:00.138 --> 06:01.655 And today, we'll try… 06:01.864 --> 06:03.204 To make sure your family… 06:03.714 --> 06:05.142 Understands your perspective, 06:05.913 --> 06:07.416 And you understand theirs. 06:20.673 --> 06:23.433 ‘May no evil befall upon you…’ 06:24.081 --> 06:27.001 ‘Om Shanti Shanti…’ 06:27.416 --> 06:29.072 How many times have I told you mom, 06:29.431 --> 06:30.902 To operate the touch screen phone. 06:31.244 --> 06:32.876 You've just kept it in the cupboard in mint condition. 06:35.442 --> 06:37.452 Nowadays, nobody checks their talktime balance like this mom. 06:46.971 --> 06:47.361 Hmm. 06:48.098 --> 06:48.994 There’s about an eighty-nine rupee balance, 06:49.530 --> 06:50.647 With two months of validity still to go. 06:50.962 --> 06:53.061 So it's done right? What are you still going on about!? 07:02.939 --> 07:04.010 You know, when we were little, 07:04.219 --> 07:05.663 Grandma wouldn't even allow me or your aunt Preeti 07:05.882 --> 07:07.945 To go anywhere near that mango tree. 07:08.562 --> 07:11.399 We used to joke that the mango tree is granny’s favourite child. 07:12.410 --> 07:13.745 You used to pluck the raw mangoes. 07:14.426 --> 07:15.816 Yes, because I liked raw mangoes. 07:16.672 --> 07:18.513 You’ve come here to click photos my sweety? 07:19.242 --> 07:20.594 It’s a school project? 07:21.034 --> 07:23.296 Yes, I have to capture the maternal side of my family… 07:23.297 --> 07:24.861 For a photo essay. 07:25.498 --> 07:26.377 Well all of that just went over my head! 07:27.258 --> 07:29.307 For me, the fact that you came to visit is more than enough. 07:30.531 --> 07:33.037 Otherwise, whether I live or die, 07:33.633 --> 07:35.100 Nobody asks after me. 07:36.395 --> 07:37.654 Did you have fun on your birthday, sweety? 07:39.026 --> 07:42.546 To seek birthday blessings for you, I even offered sweets at the temple. 07:44.122 --> 07:45.722 But grandma, why didn't you come? 07:45.858 --> 07:47.165 Your mother didn't invite me. 07:47.546 --> 07:49.154 Mom, I invite you every single year. 07:49.242 --> 07:50.310 Are you serious!? 07:50.463 --> 07:51.451 At this age, you expect an old woman 07:51.452 --> 07:52.560 to board the train and travel all the way alone? 07:53.562 --> 07:54.822 It’s customary for the son in law to come 07:54.823 --> 07:56.003 and accompany his mother-in-law in person… 07:56.554 --> 07:58.237 Whenever there’s an invite to the daughter’s in-laws’ house. 07:58.907 --> 08:00.613 He’s got a job, you know that. 08:01.890 --> 08:03.337 He doesn't have the time even for us– 08:03.338 --> 08:04.881 What did I even say to you? 08:06.019 --> 08:06.764 Just eat your mango. 08:13.782 --> 08:15.659 Daanu, there's still a lot of pulp left in it. 08:15.660 --> 08:16.553 Squeeze it properly, 08:16.554 --> 08:18.074 And eat it like this, see. 08:24.491 --> 08:27.017 Grandpa called to wish me on my birthday. 08:36.338 --> 08:37.304 Very good. 08:50.554 --> 08:52.397 Have you packed my thick wool sweater? - Yes. 08:52.689 --> 08:54.377 I have wrapped it in the newspaper. 08:54.378 --> 08:55.273 Hey brother, take this. 08:57.156 --> 08:58.897 I'll call you once I reach Delhi airport. 08:58.898 --> 09:00.678 What will I do here without you? 09:01.121 --> 09:03.601 It feels like someone is choking me. 09:03.714 --> 09:05.659 Renu, just stop with this melodrama. 09:06.050 --> 09:08.456 I'll earn dollars over there. Our lives will improve. 09:08.882 --> 09:10.526 What would I do with the money, 09:10.527 --> 09:11.973 If my whole world is slipping away from me? 09:13.736 --> 09:15.509 I have the responsibility of two daughters on my head. 09:15.871 --> 09:17.405 Stop it now. 09:26.220 --> 09:28.010 You have to swear on Neeti and Preeti, 09:28.249 --> 09:29.805 To return to us! 09:32.849 --> 09:34.739 Else I’ll die! 09:45.057 --> 09:46.859 I’d never seen my mother act like that before. 09:48.434 --> 09:49.861 I felt scared for her. 09:55.962 --> 09:56.688 And after that, 09:57.795 --> 10:00.313 She got caught up in all kinds of strange, superstitious beliefs. 10:01.642 --> 10:02.297 Mother, 10:04.065 --> 10:06.377 He will return to me, right? 10:08.170 --> 10:11.330 Would a ‘fair skinned’, woman snatch him away from me? 10:32.579 --> 10:34.296 That was all that kept playing in my mother's mind, everyday. 10:39.122 --> 10:41.090 I had to run the house… Take care of Preeti. 10:42.378 --> 10:44.495 Preeti, are you hungry? 10:44.932 --> 10:45.715 Yes. 10:52.097 --> 10:54.297 So eventually, I learnt to do everything by myself. 11:24.186 --> 11:24.979 I used to think… 11:26.161 --> 11:27.784 That, if I helped around the house, 11:28.370 --> 11:29.401 Became a 'good girl'... 11:30.770 --> 11:31.607 My mother would be happy. 11:35.026 --> 11:35.662 But that didn't happen. 11:45.739 --> 11:47.777 Hey, Scotchy! 11:47.778 --> 11:50.788 Come here, my baby. Eat this, eat! 11:52.199 --> 11:53.390 Just think about it… 11:54.153 --> 11:56.008 Raj was different, wasn't he? 11:56.914 --> 11:58.439 Instead of eloping with Simran, 11:58.440 --> 12:00.641 He tried to win over her parents’ approval instead. 12:01.115 --> 12:03.513 And now imagine how much better Kuljeet was. 12:03.514 --> 12:05.511 Strong, well-built young man– - Kuljeet who? 12:06.336 --> 12:07.136 Parmeet. 12:08.250 --> 12:09.274 You know Archana right? 12:09.275 --> 12:11.997 The woman who keeps laughing on Kapil Sharma’s show? Her husband. 12:12.498 --> 12:13.673 He even owned so much farmland. 12:13.674 --> 12:14.559 That guy? - Yes. 12:14.754 --> 12:16.473 You’d prefer him to Raj? 12:17.386 --> 12:18.546 Wow! 12:19.035 --> 12:21.267 I'm thinking about Simran's future. 12:21.434 --> 12:22.297 And what does Raj have? 12:22.298 --> 12:24.586 An easy go lucky lad, roaming around playing his little ukulele. 12:25.138 --> 12:28.154 Had she married Kuljeet, he would've treated her like a queen. 12:28.691 --> 12:29.731 Right, Scotchy? 12:30.859 --> 12:33.943 But Scotchy, Simran loved Raj. 12:34.475 --> 12:36.016 Love etc. happens... eventually…. 12:44.666 --> 12:45.910 Prince, this is the last time… 12:46.969 --> 12:48.129 After this, you can fail, 12:49.642 --> 12:51.473 For all I care. - Sorry. 12:53.019 --> 12:54.899 I don't know…I just blank out at economics. 12:55.041 --> 12:56.450 But it's so interesting! 12:56.882 --> 12:59.202 Supply and demand is my favourite. 12:59.298 --> 13:02.046 Yeah, all that is fine. First, eat this. 13:08.291 --> 13:08.957 Did you eat? 13:09.313 --> 13:11.777 People who work need more food. 13:15.538 --> 13:17.072 Did you love him? 13:21.794 --> 13:22.260 Huh! 13:22.962 --> 13:23.881 Kamlaji! 13:24.969 --> 13:27.240 Oh sorry. Kindness. 13:28.698 --> 13:29.636 Continue, Pinky. 13:30.882 --> 13:31.699 I did. 13:32.938 --> 13:33.769 Not anymore. 13:35.642 --> 13:37.511 Kamlaji, now you can speak. 13:38.881 --> 13:42.281 Look, teenagers don't fall in any real kind of love. 13:42.914 --> 13:44.764 And the Mehras used to be mechanics back then, 13:45.195 --> 13:47.656 And their son, Prince was a good for nothing... 13:49.010 --> 13:50.062 Like an empty taxi wandering on the road. 13:50.258 --> 13:51.530 I loved him. 13:53.386 --> 13:54.010 Kamlaji, 13:55.793 --> 13:57.918 Did you ever fall in love with Mr. Somnath? 14:05.282 --> 14:08.602 Congratulations! - Congratulations to you too!! 14:08.746 --> 14:10.802 Both our families were Punjabis. 14:11.818 --> 14:13.607 Our class and caste also matched, 14:14.459 --> 14:15.779 And even our parents were happy. 14:16.338 --> 14:18.138 Oh my, such a lovely girl… 14:24.683 --> 14:25.667 To be honest, 14:26.915 --> 14:28.945 At first, I wasn't impressed seeing him. 14:29.715 --> 14:31.765 His face was all tanned… 14:32.171 --> 14:33.397 And he had this big moustache… 14:35.027 --> 14:36.355 Were you expecting to have superstar Rajesh Khanna as a match? 14:37.158 --> 14:38.258 He’s hardworking... 14:38.588 --> 14:40.197 He has even built a big shop all by himself. 14:40.707 --> 14:41.846 And before you’ll even have to ask… 14:41.847 --> 14:43.564 He'll put his earnings in your hand. 14:45.434 --> 14:47.352 He'll treat you like a queen. A real queen. 14:47.857 --> 14:49.470 There’ll be servants at your service. 14:51.174 --> 14:52.753 Not everyone lucks out like you Kamla. 14:53.818 --> 14:55.569 Did you see that burly moustache though? 14:56.306 --> 14:58.554 Then get it shaved off after the wedding. 14:59.395 --> 15:01.195 Who doesn't follow a beautiful bride’s orders after all? 15:02.627 --> 15:04.589 So did Mr. Somnath finally shave off his moustache? 15:04.986 --> 15:07.088 Not really, he seldom listens to me. 15:08.338 --> 15:09.433 Then how did you fall in love? 15:09.826 --> 15:11.384 One eventually ends up loving their husband. 15:11.979 --> 15:14.266 You take such vows, make promises… 15:15.129 --> 15:17.938 There isn't really any option. One has to make it work. 15:21.794 --> 15:24.607 And if you ever had an option? 15:24.963 --> 15:26.563 That's immoral to even imagine. No, not at all… 15:27.506 --> 15:30.670 We weren’t raised like that... To leave one man and seek another. 15:32.042 --> 15:33.776 So Kamlaji, do you think… 15:34.458 --> 15:37.073 The women who choose to do so, relish it? 15:37.187 --> 15:38.948 Maybe they do, who knows? 15:40.585 --> 15:41.804 God knows what these girls do! 16:46.690 --> 16:47.371 Daanu. 16:48.162 --> 16:48.715 Yes? 16:50.402 --> 16:51.281 Where did you find these? 16:51.818 --> 16:53.578 Here. In your diaries. 16:54.979 --> 16:57.921 Daanu, the whole house is available for you to take pictures. 16:57.922 --> 16:59.625 Just leave grandpa's photos, okay? 16:59.626 --> 17:00.580 But why? 17:02.074 --> 17:03.283 I explained it to you on the bus, right? 17:04.050 --> 17:06.690 Grandma won't like it. Try to understand, please. 17:06.778 --> 17:08.294 It's just photos… 17:08.769 --> 17:13.377 And I love grandpa. He even sent me the Gigi Hadid lip balm from the US. 17:35.100 --> 17:37.795 Let the girl do her project the way she wants, Neeti. 17:38.073 --> 17:39.569 Why the drama? 17:41.442 --> 17:42.679 Use whatever you need my child. 17:43.506 --> 17:45.897 There are some more photographs too. I'll give them to you. 17:49.603 --> 17:50.485 Thank you, grandma! 18:10.618 --> 18:12.578 Gosh, you're slicing up such big chunks… 18:13.099 --> 18:14.578 Big chunks don't mix evenly in the milk! 18:17.995 --> 18:19.215 What’s with you? Why do you get irritated easily? 18:19.873 --> 18:20.973 Can't you just be joyful? 18:22.338 --> 18:24.058 Only if you ever let there be any joy, maybe then I’ll be joyful. 18:25.091 --> 18:28.309 You behave like ‘Goddess Sita‘ in front of my daughter… 18:28.818 --> 18:31.060 But, from the time you found out dad wasn't coming back, 18:31.061 --> 18:34.367 You used to go crazy, just hearing his name. 18:35.226 --> 18:36.468 And today you're taking out his photos 18:36.469 --> 18:37.566 and showing them around yourself!? 18:38.370 --> 18:40.403 Because now it doesn't affect me. 18:41.074 --> 18:42.332 They're just pictures for me… 18:42.514 --> 18:44.106 At least unlike you, I don't go around slapping people. 18:45.210 --> 18:46.895 That's because you’re old now. 18:47.835 --> 18:50.353 When you had the strength, you used to slap me at the drop of a hat! 18:50.354 --> 18:51.630 What nonsense Neeti? 18:51.762 --> 18:53.177 I never hit you. 18:59.329 --> 19:00.607 She lives in denial. 19:01.667 --> 19:04.135 Or maybe just the memory of it has faded. 19:04.849 --> 19:05.591 Mom? 19:06.618 --> 19:07.396 Mom? 19:08.258 --> 19:09.021 You’re back. 19:10.058 --> 19:10.607 Yes. 19:11.258 --> 19:12.962 Can you serve lunch? - Yeah... 19:33.866 --> 19:34.605 I don't want more. 19:35.818 --> 19:37.289 But you’ve hardly eaten. 19:40.868 --> 19:42.539 Cook the lentil soup thicker next time. 19:44.121 --> 19:44.465 Ew… 19:45.818 --> 19:46.613 Yuck... 19:51.769 --> 19:53.534 If you have a problem with it, why don’t you cook it yourself next time? 20:09.362 --> 20:11.839 I think your mom couldn't… 20:12.258 --> 20:15.466 Handle the loss of your father leaving. 20:15.467 --> 20:16.777 But for me, she was all I had… 20:18.626 --> 20:19.850 And she didn't care about me at all. 20:23.083 --> 20:24.006 It made me so angry. 20:25.035 --> 20:26.225 How did you express your anger? 20:27.169 --> 20:28.451 I used to work really hard in school. 20:29.418 --> 20:31.286 I just wanted attention, no matter how. 20:34.202 --> 20:36.211 Whatever little love there was, It all went to Preeti. 20:38.210 --> 20:40.828 Maybe, Neeti, you're still… 20:41.514 --> 20:43.594 Holding all that anger inside. 20:46.091 --> 20:46.559 I don't know. 20:49.267 --> 20:50.926 You never told me this, dear… 20:53.289 --> 20:55.101 You never got to live your childhood. 20:57.139 --> 20:58.379 This usually happens in families… 20:59.250 --> 21:00.796 Everyone feels like their pain hurts the most. 21:01.328 --> 21:04.363 But, if we truly listen to each other, 21:05.554 --> 21:07.548 We'll realize that in some way, 21:08.338 --> 21:09.837 Our pain is more in common than one would assume…. 21:13.418 --> 21:14.761 You'll make a mess of everything. 21:14.762 --> 21:16.922 Yes, I know. I mess up everything! Even my memory is messed up, 21:17.018 --> 21:19.042 My work is a mess… Even the food I cook is a mess… 21:19.130 --> 21:20.217 Everything I do is bad, right? - Leave it, 21:20.218 --> 21:20.797 I'll make it. 21:20.798 --> 21:22.378 This damn mixer is from another century!! 21:22.618 --> 21:24.017 Why don't you open the new one? 21:24.018 --> 21:25.205 I'm not doing the project! 21:26.299 --> 21:28.057 Please stop fighting, both of you. 21:28.907 --> 21:30.907 We're not fighting. Not at all, we're not fighting. 21:31.002 --> 21:32.141 Mummy, we're not fighting, right? 21:32.266 --> 21:33.235 No, no, dear. 21:33.609 --> 21:35.013 We're not fighting at all. 21:35.562 --> 21:37.299 You sit outside, I'll bring the shake. 21:39.833 --> 21:40.507 What the–! 22:00.978 --> 22:02.166 Ha ha! 22:21.578 --> 22:23.074 Neeti, I wanted to say something to you... 22:24.498 --> 22:26.261 Your father didn't go away because of you, 22:26.738 --> 22:28.363 Nor because of me. 22:30.306 --> 22:32.703 He wanted to leave, so he left. 22:34.658 --> 22:36.125 Mom, you just need to be all right. 22:37.283 --> 22:39.184 Nothing else matters to me. 22:40.826 --> 22:42.269 Nothing’s going to happen to me. 22:51.202 --> 22:52.882 You just get a grip on your anger. 22:55.106 --> 22:56.178 Look, who's talking... 22:57.018 --> 22:57.592 Yes, well… 23:00.026 --> 23:01.889 Anger hollows you to the bone, dear... 23:04.714 --> 23:05.941 It tramples everything. Leaves nothing behind. 23:28.285 --> 23:29.775 Now that the proposals have started to come in, what can I do? 23:31.227 --> 23:32.204 No matter what I do, your mom and dad 23:32.205 --> 23:33.103 are never going to agree to this match. 23:33.923 --> 23:35.313 For them, I'll always remain a mechanic's son. 23:36.618 --> 23:38.546 At least try to prove yourself first. 23:39.073 --> 23:41.606 You know I can't do a 9-to-5 job, 23:41.607 --> 23:43.332 What else should I do?-- - And what exactly can you do? 23:44.690 --> 23:46.027 Love..you. 23:52.345 --> 23:55.913 If you truly loved me, you would've put in some effort. 23:57.546 --> 23:59.264 You would’ve done something with your life. 23:59.265 --> 24:01.697 I helped you twice. I gave you two chances. 24:04.393 --> 24:05.393 You won't be able to do anything. 24:24.602 --> 24:27.756 Destiny…Is greater than love... 24:28.587 --> 24:30.507 No matter how true your love is, 24:30.682 --> 24:32.979 One day, it loses to destiny. 24:34.082 --> 24:36.276 Match is made in heaven. 24:36.634 --> 24:37.986 We just seek it out in this world. 24:38.658 --> 24:41.181 Like Raj and Simran… Your father and I, 24:41.466 --> 24:42.955 Neeti and Vishnu became a pair… 24:43.161 --> 24:45.276 Even you and Ashok became such soulmates. 24:45.786 --> 24:47.134 Ashok is not my soulmate. 24:48.882 --> 24:50.834 But weren’t you the one to pick out Ashok? 25:09.138 --> 25:11.365 Hmm - How was your meeting? 25:11.676 --> 25:12.912 How did you like Ashok? 25:14.457 --> 25:15.882 He was fine. Polite. 25:17.242 --> 25:17.867 He was nice. 25:18.258 --> 25:20.218 I knew you'd like him. 25:20.539 --> 25:21.814 I'll just call up his mother right now 25:21.815 --> 25:23.179 and tell her that we accept the proposal. 25:23.512 --> 25:24.852 What! Wait, Mom! 25:26.095 --> 25:28.228 When did I ever say that? - You just said it! 25:28.744 --> 25:30.242 I only said he's polite. 25:30.554 --> 25:31.932 Polite... Like the airplane steward is polite. 25:31.933 --> 25:33.689 That doesn't mean I'm ready to marry him. 25:45.469 --> 25:45.969 Pooja, 25:48.587 --> 25:49.813 I'm tired now, dear. 25:54.840 --> 25:56.697 Look at Kamal... His daughter, 25:58.411 --> 25:59.957 Is five years younger to you 26:00.554 --> 26:02.074 And her wedding is already fixed… 26:02.274 --> 26:03.868 But, with you, we have no idea where all this heading. 26:04.258 --> 26:06.782 Mom, when have I said no to marriage? 26:08.467 --> 26:11.963 Look, dear, at your insistence, we even gave that Prince a chance. 26:13.091 --> 26:14.635 It's been two years since then. 26:15.194 --> 26:18.034 What does Ashok lack? He's a decent boy. 26:18.779 --> 26:20.454 There won't be any restrictions at his home, either. 26:21.211 --> 26:21.985 Mom… 26:22.650 --> 26:25.117 I'm your mother and I'll always want what's best for you. 26:25.118 --> 26:26.348 Why would I wish anything bad? 26:35.860 --> 26:37.586 Let it be, it's fine. 26:39.562 --> 26:41.415 I've cooked rajma for lunch, just the way you like them. 26:42.387 --> 26:43.137 Come and eat. 26:50.891 --> 26:51.391 Come. 26:56.192 --> 26:57.500 I'll work after marriage though. 26:59.434 --> 27:01.880 Of course! Who's stopping you? 27:03.298 --> 27:04.298 Hand me your phone. Fast! 27:04.674 --> 27:06.699 Your father will be so happy to hear this. 27:08.211 --> 27:10.804 “I got duped by my mother's emotional blackmail.” 27:14.572 --> 27:16.374 Did I force you onto the wedding altar? 27:18.098 --> 27:20.651 All the girls of your age were happily settling down in their lives, 27:21.178 --> 27:23.175 And I also just wanted you to be happy like others. 27:26.023 --> 27:27.250 Was that a mistake? 27:28.850 --> 27:31.242 I just didn't want to see my daughter lonely. 27:31.579 --> 27:33.163 Mom, I was happy already. 27:34.298 --> 27:36.161 I was learning our business, 27:36.162 --> 27:38.897 I had plans to expand the shop, 27:39.875 --> 27:41.338 But you made it seem like, 27:41.339 --> 27:43.698 If I didn't get married, terrible things would happen to me. 27:45.162 --> 27:47.386 You were badgering me for two years! 27:48.203 --> 27:50.929 And to add to that, your tears, taunts, comments… 27:53.458 --> 27:56.070 I said yes to Ashok out of sheer exhaustion. 28:01.706 --> 28:03.369 What's your problem? 28:03.370 --> 28:04.952 Is he an alcoholic? A gambler? A drug addict? 28:04.953 --> 28:05.930 What exactly is the problem? 28:06.074 --> 28:07.372 Tell me! 28:07.373 --> 28:08.902 Mom, he's boring! 28:09.153 --> 28:10.619 I say something, he gets something else. 28:10.620 --> 28:12.257 He says something and I don't get it either. 28:12.258 --> 28:14.377 There's no connection between us. 28:14.378 --> 28:16.751 Do you want a circus clown for a husband? 28:16.946 --> 28:19.040 Who'll dance around you just to keep you entertained? 28:19.210 --> 28:20.410 You've become so selfish Pinky! 28:20.658 --> 28:23.202 Am I selfish? You'll just say anything now? 28:23.203 --> 28:25.061 Just because I said my husband should be, 28:25.062 --> 28:27.258 someone I actually like, that just makes me selfish? 28:27.778 --> 28:29.422 I'm not like you, Mom! 28:29.547 --> 28:32.027 Keeping everyone and everything before myself. 28:33.162 --> 28:35.860 Look at yourself, look what you've become. 28:36.138 --> 28:37.470 And tell me... What did you get from your marriage? 28:38.162 --> 28:40.979 You're talking as if you found true love in your damn marriage! 29:03.820 --> 29:05.085 That was love…right? 29:08.874 --> 29:10.314 Whatever I cooked, 29:11.354 --> 29:13.157 He never refused to it. He’d eat it happily. 29:20.138 --> 29:21.568 He gave me happiness. 29:22.435 --> 29:23.755 He treated me like a queen. 29:25.338 --> 29:27.179 He never let me feel the lack of anything. 29:32.946 --> 29:33.727 And I… 29:36.970 --> 29:38.473 I used to find joy… 29:40.227 --> 29:41.732 In the smallest things. 29:45.921 --> 29:47.852 That's love…Isn't it..? 30:05.442 --> 30:06.127 Kamlaji, 30:06.955 --> 30:09.017 You wanted Pooja's happiness, 30:09.395 --> 30:10.575 In the best of sense that you could comprehend. 30:12.418 --> 30:14.458 And Pooja… Kamlaji comes from a place… 30:15.138 --> 30:18.375 Where the zenith of happiness in life is to get married. 30:22.203 --> 30:24.523 Kamlaji, you're the one who’s always said that, 30:24.835 --> 30:27.026 You gave Pooja the best upbringing you could. 30:27.938 --> 30:28.745 So, obviously… 30:29.211 --> 30:31.715 She grew up believing that she could be anyone or achieve anything. 30:32.338 --> 30:34.395 That’s confidence... And you're the one who instilled that in her. 30:49.091 --> 30:50.419 Grandma, that one… 30:50.658 --> 30:52.138 This one… 30:56.963 --> 30:57.803 Aah! 30:59.218 --> 31:02.040 Wow, you’d never let me pluck the raw mangoes! 31:06.842 --> 31:08.950 Mom, where are the papers for my fixed deposit? 31:09.130 --> 31:10.013 What fixed deposit? 31:10.995 --> 31:11.960 There's just one. 31:11.961 --> 31:13.935 The one Dad started twenty years ago. 31:14.460 --> 31:15.955 There should be around 14 lac rupees in it by now. 31:16.513 --> 31:19.111 I don't remember… Check it the next time you come. 31:19.922 --> 31:21.728 Should I pack some aloo-poori for the road? 31:22.282 --> 31:22.671 Yes. 31:23.586 --> 31:25.444 Daani, go inside for a bit. 31:26.249 --> 31:26.639 Come, 31:27.507 --> 31:30.248 Let's wash these properly first… 31:30.562 --> 31:31.685 And then… 31:33.666 --> 31:34.255 You go on, dear. 31:37.130 --> 31:38.890 Wash them and eat. - Okay. 31:45.018 --> 31:45.815 What did you do with the fixed deposit? 31:47.858 --> 31:49.322 You came all the way from Delhi to settle accounts? 31:49.786 --> 31:52.166 Last year, rain dampened the walls of the whole house. 31:52.874 --> 31:54.236 How else was I supposed to get it fixed? 31:54.237 --> 31:55.248 Would Vishnu have paid for it? 31:56.294 --> 31:57.442 That was my fixed deposit. 31:58.298 --> 32:00.857 You could've asked me once. - It was a joint deposit. 32:01.498 --> 32:02.938 You didn't have sole right over it. 32:03.027 --> 32:05.034 I did have a right. I'm the daughter of this house. 32:06.266 --> 32:09.056 Papa made that deposit for me, in case I faced any hardship– 32:09.057 --> 32:10.395 And what hardship are you facing exactly? 32:11.611 --> 32:13.171 Married off into a rich Delhi family. 32:13.172 --> 32:14.231 You guys have a business, 32:14.698 --> 32:15.897 Your husband even earns additionally… 32:16.235 --> 32:18.131 I needed to fix my house. 32:18.482 --> 32:20.545 But, I wanted to buy my own house mom! 32:22.139 --> 32:23.267 And that was my money! 32:25.018 --> 32:26.955 Gosh, now you can't even live peacefully with your in-laws' too? 32:28.962 --> 32:30.897 Neeti, what do you want? 32:31.625 --> 32:32.608 How much more will you take? 32:33.338 --> 32:34.444 For once, look at your selfishness. 32:35.145 --> 32:36.225 It’s mind boggling to think of it. 32:36.890 --> 32:37.910 Can I say something? 32:39.799 --> 32:41.777 Dad left because of you. 32:43.211 --> 32:43.941 And that's the truth. 32:46.210 --> 32:49.014 He couldn't tolerate someone like you and that's why he left. 33:10.207 --> 33:13.355 I have dreams, which can't be fulfilled staying here. 33:13.658 --> 33:16.098 And when did I ever stop you from fulfilling your dreams? 33:16.297 --> 33:17.393 But why Delhi? 33:17.978 --> 33:19.792 Because I’m getting admission to a good college! 33:20.058 --> 33:20.995 Why shouldn't I go? 33:21.467 --> 33:24.375 All I know is that girls, who leave home young, never come back. 33:25.074 --> 33:25.976 I know that. 33:27.753 --> 33:28.593 I’m not Dad. 33:31.026 --> 33:32.730 You think if you go to Delhi, 33:33.586 --> 33:34.988 You'll get to trap some rich boy… 33:35.570 --> 33:36.738 And get rid of me that easily? 33:37.218 --> 33:38.145 Are you crazy?! 33:39.826 --> 33:41.099 Don't you ever call me crazy! 33:43.041 --> 33:44.393 Let me tell you something... 33:44.938 --> 33:48.910 Girls from broken families, never make a happy family of their own. 34:06.098 --> 34:06.817 Neeti, 34:07.554 --> 34:10.196 Your mom has taken a lot of blows in her life, 34:11.054 --> 34:13.656 And the stress of it all was taken out on you. 34:16.606 --> 34:18.505 Whatever she said to you… 34:19.114 --> 34:20.106 Wasn't really about you. 34:21.372 --> 34:23.005 It was her own fear talking. 34:23.954 --> 34:25.249 Please understand this. 34:28.587 --> 34:30.085 And now that stress you're carrying, 34:31.841 --> 34:33.300 Doesn't have to come out on Daani. 34:36.106 --> 34:38.065 You have to break the chain. 34:43.683 --> 34:44.523 Kamlaji, 34:46.031 --> 34:47.851 Do you not like it when Neeti and Pooja… 34:49.346 --> 34:51.144 Put their thoughts forward? 34:52.802 --> 34:55.682 Me…I–I love both of them… 34:56.361 --> 34:57.760 I’ve got nothing against them. 34:58.466 --> 34:59.791 I know Kamlaji. But maybe, 35:00.178 --> 35:01.580 Without meaning to, 35:02.122 --> 35:03.346 You end up hurting them. 35:04.115 --> 35:05.412 Because they are not like you. 35:06.642 --> 35:08.677 You compromised in your life… 35:09.865 --> 35:11.833 But, they don't want to. 35:12.583 --> 35:15.172 And maybe that is what bothers you. 35:41.676 --> 35:42.876 “My grandma's house…” 35:43.138 --> 35:45.363 “Is in the Malihabad area of Lucknow.” 35:46.152 --> 35:48.381 “For me, grandma's house means,” 35:48.970 --> 35:51.162 “Me, mom, and grandma.” 35:52.042 --> 35:53.037 “Grandma's house…” 35:53.858 --> 35:56.346 “Is like a time capsule of old memories...” 35:57.122 --> 35:58.920 “You can find anything in there.” 36:02.538 --> 36:05.045 “My grandma and mom fight a lot,” 36:05.258 --> 36:06.552 “But they love each other a lot, too.” 36:07.194 --> 36:07.994 “They're strange.” 36:09.202 --> 36:11.990 “Mom feels she's not like grandma,” 36:12.625 --> 36:15.465 “And I feel I'm not like mom.” 36:17.538 --> 36:19.338 “No matter what we do,” 36:19.786 --> 36:22.109 “We're never good enough for our mothers.” 37:22.035 --> 37:23.755 “But that doesn't mean…” 37:24.058 --> 37:26.338 “We give up on each other.” 37:34.658 --> 37:36.523 Daani?! 37:37.351 --> 37:39.624 “We stay connected, no matter what.” 37:40.571 --> 37:41.101 Take this. 37:42.955 --> 37:43.717 This is yours. 37:45.730 --> 37:47.556 “As if nothing ever happened.” 37:48.802 --> 37:50.761 And take this, - What’s this? 37:51.506 --> 37:52.504 See for yourself. 37:52.922 --> 37:56.084 “Like I said, it's a strange relationship…” 38:03.002 --> 38:05.274 Work hard, dear. 38:19.880 --> 38:21.058 Mom… - Hmm. 38:21.170 --> 38:24.012 Will my photo essay get selected for the school magazine? 38:24.394 --> 38:25.316 Of course it will. 38:26.234 --> 38:27.468 You're the smartest one. 38:33.530 --> 38:34.258 Daanu, 38:36.130 --> 38:36.888 I'm sorry. 38:45.106 --> 38:47.842 “In this big, scary world, 38:48.906 --> 38:50.580 “When we feel like we have no one,” 38:51.658 --> 38:52.898 “We always have our mother.” 38:54.579 --> 38:55.588 “Always.” 38:56.729 --> 38:57.276 Thank you. 39:01.818 --> 39:02.618 Come here. 39:05.707 --> 39:08.753 Three, two, one.