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[gentle music playing]

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[woman reciting prayer in Arabic]

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[man praying in Hebrew]

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Is she going to pass away soon, Papa?

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Nobody except God knows.

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But which God knows that?
Is it Mom's or yours, Papa?

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Even though Mom and Dad
are of different faiths, son,

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even though we pray in different tongues,
we believe in one Creator, Özgür.

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We each still trust in God's grace
and love for us.

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Both of us are comforted
by the knowledge of God's wisdom.

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[mother] She's gone! She's dead!

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[music turns somber]

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[sobbing] She's gone!
My little girl is gone!

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-Musa! Musa, hurry!
-[heartbeat thumping]

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[music swells]

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[sobbing continues]

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[Özgür] When a death occurs,
the rituals, the church bells,

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the chants, Buddhist mantras,
all sing the same tune,

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due to the fact that death is one thing
all societies have in common.

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That doesn't mean the approaches
that people may take

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aren't unique to culture.

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For instance, in Spain and in Mexico,

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the folk legend la Llorona mourns
by crying loudly.

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By Kilimanjaro, people always incorporate
music and song in their mourning.

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[bright music playing]

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My question is, um, what shapes
our conceptions about death?

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Our societies and culture,
or something more personal?

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If none of you had ties to a religion,
culture, or any particular practice,

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and your farewell ritual
could look like anything,

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how might you handle death?

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-[phone vibrates]
-Please respond to this question for…

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ADA - HAPPY THE FUNDING WAS APPROVED.
I HOPE YOU ENJOY AFRICA.

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…your final assignment.

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So please, get something ready by Friday.

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-Professor, why don't you stay?
-Yes, please, Professor.

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Tell you what. Do well on your papers,
and I swear I'll give it some thought.

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Come on, now. Aren't you all bored by now?
Come on, get out.

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-Then I bid you arrivederci, Doctor.
-Arrivederci.

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-[excited chatter]
-[woman] Are you leaving now?

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ADA - HAPPY THE FUNDING WAS APPROVED.
I HOPE YOU ENJOY AFRICA.

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[gloomy piano music playing]

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ANOTHER SELF

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[music fades]

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[Ada clicks tongue] He didn't answer.

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You just told the guy, "Goodbye.
I'll be happy on my own."

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What's he meant to say, hmm?

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Try to be honest and answer yourself.

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Make your decision.
Do you want him or not?

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My text was my attempt to step up.

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And his response? "Bye.
I'll be home again in a year. Take care."

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Listen, so, um, you're telling me
that was your big gesture?

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Yeah. Right. It was.

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You asked Selim to wait
for you when you were going to Brussels.

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You expected that from him. Now this?

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And now you don't want to wait for Özgür?

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I'll give you my opinion.

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Özgür's trip isn't the actual problem.
There's a deeper matter here.

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So spill it.

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The man told you in very clear terms
he doesn't want to be a dad.

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So, do you want to be a mom?

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All right, then.

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I'm saying it.
I'm thinking of becoming a mom.

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[bright music playing]

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-Huh?
-[Sevgi] What? Hmm.

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-Mm-hmm.
-All right, let me plant one on you, Ada.

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-[chuckles]
-[Leyla] I'll kiss you too. Come here.

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-I got one for you too.
-Yes, me too.

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-Mwah.
-[both chuckle]

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Problem solved, right?
No more pining about Özgür.

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He's not interested in having babies.
You know that already. Easy.

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That's it. He's not the man for you.

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The right guy, the right relationship.

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But it's possible that my truth
and life's truths are different.

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[Sevgi] Look, he told you
he doesn't want kids, Ada.

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And since you do, for God's sake,
just let the thing go.

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Uh, no way! Let it go? No, never let go.

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Come on. Girl, your eyes have fireworks
popping in 'em. Do you know that?

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Men don't inspire that in women our age.
We hardly care anymore.

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Don't push away this opportunity. Y'know?

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As long as you're not married, honey,

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don't make sacrifices.

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[music fades]

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And what about Erdem, huh, Leyla?

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Boy, what am I supposed to do with Erdem?

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Eleni's has… burned down completely.
Our income's all gone.

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We got money from my mom and dad,
but that's going to run out soon.

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So what do I do with Erdem?
Do I just kick him out?

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Not care about what he's going to eat
and if he's got a roof over his head?

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Why should you care?
That's what he gets, the dumbass.

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Are you his parent now?
His mommy or something?

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-Exactly, sweetie.
-Let him rot in hell.

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Should've thought of that
instead of cheating. Asshole.

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Hey! Erdem is the reason
we're all able to be here together.

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I would've burned in the fire
if not for him.

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Pardon? Could you explain to me
exactly how he did that?

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Oh, Leyla, Leyla, Leyla.

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Take a look.

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Here. You tell me what happened.

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[Leyla] Is this a joke?

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Erdem and I were rescued by Yorgos?

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Yorgos is the person who pulled us
out of the fire?

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I'm tired of your lies, Erdem. [inhales]

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Take it away, Sevgi. [sighs]

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So ladies… you see?

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Decide what your priorities are
as soon as possible.

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'Cause life's too short.
I'd better go now.

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-[Ada] Where?
-I have to get with the prosecutor.

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I have to report
how that idiot threatened me. [sighs]

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-Okay, babe. Just try to watch your back.
-I will.

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-See you later.
-[huffs]

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I can't take the lies anymore.

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-[somber music playing]
-[sighs]

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[Leyla exhales]

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Hello, my lovelies.

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Many of you know our restaurant
burnt down recently in a monstrous attack,

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at this point, exactly a month ago.

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Look.

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No one was terribly hurt, praise God,
but take a peek at the result.

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My Eleni's is gone.

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The perpetrators were arrested
but released,

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thanks to a lack of usable evidence.

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But do not worry,
because I still haven't lost hope.

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Darlings, I need to thank you.
Everybody's support means so much.

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My DMs are overflowing.
I read them all, and I love all of you.

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Take care of yourselves until we can
all meet again at Eleni's Tavern.

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Mwah! I miss everybody.

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[sighs deeply]

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Yorgos, there's no way
I can thank you enough.

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I've been oblivious.

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I didn't realize you were my rescuer.

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We both owe you our lives,
Erdem and myself.

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-I have no way to thank you, Yorgos.
-[chuckles]

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No need to be grateful.
As long as you're safe.

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[Leyla sighs]

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What's your plan now?

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I've decided to go back
to Greece before long.

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Except if someone says I shouldn't.

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Please give me time
to figure some things out.

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[tender music playing]

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[Ada] Sometimes we become addicted
to a relationship, a substance.

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Or an emotion.

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But maybe the really hard part
isn't breaking the addiction.

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Maybe the hard part is figuring out
what to do with the void it leaves behind.

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It hurts a little right here.

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[Ada sighs]

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[Ada] As I spend more time with Deniz,

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I realize some things
were changing within me.

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Maybe what they call unconditional love

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isn't about loving someone blindly
and unquestioningly.

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Maybe what we need
isn't unconditional love,

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but accepting love.

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Maybe that kind of love is
about accepting the ones we love

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and what they've been through,

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the story that led them to this day.

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[tender music fades]

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[grunts] I got you something.

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[Deniz giggles]

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-Is that for me?
-Look.

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What do you think?

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-Oh, it's beautiful.
-[gentle music playing]

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-[Deniz laughs]
-[Ada] Let me help.

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Here.

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Do you like it?

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Aw, It's wonderful. Thank you so much.

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[Ada] I hope it brings good luck.

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[Deniz chuckles, sighs]

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[Ada] Maybe the problem wasn't my past,

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my family, or what happened
to my ancestors anymore.

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It was now time to take responsibility
for my own decisions.

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[sighs]

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You're finally here, Halime, hm?

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We're so happy you got here safe.
See? Everyone's waiting.

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[music fades]

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-Halime. Hello, honey.
-Hi, honey.

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Here, for you, my dear.

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-Oh! Here, I'll tie it in place for you.
-[all laugh]

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Let me introduce you to everyone.
Meet Muko. She's my mother.

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Mr. Rıza here, he's Fiko's father.

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[Muko] It's wonderful
to meet you, sweetheart.

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[chuckles, sighs]

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Behind me here is our beautiful home.

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Plus all this is our massive garden.

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-And you're such a darling little girl.
-So sweet.

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Sir, are you from Hatay?
My grandfather looked like you.

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Oh, I… I… No.

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Adana's my home. Uh, but Hatay
and Adana are pretty much neighbors.

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[Fiko chuckles]

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Halime, we've got such a lovely room
ready for you to stay in.

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[Songül] Halime, for now,
we'll just be visiting here,

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while we're in
the testing period, remember?

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And then when you're ready and at ease,
and Sevgi and Fiko are too,

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we can discuss a permanent arrangement.

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If you want to, that is. Hm?

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-[Fiko] Yeah.
-[Muko chuckles]

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In the meantime, maybe I could convince
you to let me kiss you once?

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[hopeful music playing]

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[Sevgi chuckles] Okay.

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[Muko] Aw.

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All right, everyone, come.
Let's head over to the courtyard.

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I've made us lots to eat.
And I'll just bet you're starved.

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Come on, everybody.
Let's come have food together.

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-Let's eat a meal.
-Please, after you.

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[Ada] No matter how great
our losses are in this life,

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is it possible to embrace the stories
we leave behind?

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[Carla] Did you ever work
on your previous relationships, Ada?

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And what did they mean to you?

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I'm ready. Would you help me do that?

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Well, you've been my student
for two years.

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You know what to do.

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Okay, thank you.

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[intense rock music playing]

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[Ada] Sometimes we think what keeps us
from starting a new relationship

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are the wounds inflicted
from our previous relationships.

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But what about the wounds we inflicted?

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Is it possible to have closure
without confronting them?

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♪ It's why my future… ♪

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[screams]

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[Ada] Toprak. When I terminated
my pregnancy without telling you,

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my anger had gotten the best of me.

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Running into you after so many years,

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it's only now that I'm able to see
I was blaming you for your priorities,

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and that I treated you harshly.

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We shared so much between us.
Thank you so much, Toprak.

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I'll be keeping a corner of my heart
for that time.

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And for my part in our hardships,
I'm taking responsibility.

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I'm leaving your part to you.

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I'm giving our unborn child
a place in my heart.

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Selim, I blamed you for cheating on me.

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For not being honest.

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But how honest was I towards you?

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How receptive was I
towards your wants and needs?

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I can only now see how manipulative I was

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in order to persuade you
into doing what I wanted.

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[Selim] Tonight is supposed to be
a great night to conceive.

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[Ada] I received news from Brussels.

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There are three people left in the finals.
Maybe you can come with me, huh?

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[scoffs] Sure.

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I'm cold. I'll get out.
You enjoy yourself.

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[Ada] Selim, I shared a wonderful part
of my life with you.

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I learned how to be a friend.
I felt safe because you were there.

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I'm grateful, now and always,
for all that you gave me.

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And I'll keep a place for you too.

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I wish you great happiness.
And a wonderful future.

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♪ The spark, the taste, and the destiny… ♪

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[Ada] Diyar, I was disappointed

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because I thought
you had been lying to me.

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I used that as an excuse
to break up with you.

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But actually, I was with you
because you made me feel good,

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even though I couldn't
fully reciprocate your feelings.

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Only now can I see
how badly I broke your heart.

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I hope you have a beautiful life.

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And I'll keep a place for you as well.

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Good luck in your future.

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Sometimes we need a wind
to help us let go of the heartbreaks,

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the old anger, and the burdens we carry.

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And once in a while,

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that wind sneaks in through a window
we've never opened before.

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And I catch fish in my dress at the ocean.

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See, I have my own issues as well.

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And I'm very far from perfect.

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[song fades]

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My romantic life has… just always…

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always been the story of a girl
abandoned by her dad.

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I left people first,
so I couldn't be abandoned.

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I did the same thing with Özgür.

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The moment I sensed that he might leave,

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that he had things that might very well
have mattered more to him than I did,

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I just broke up with him.

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For my entire life,

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I've just expected people
to want to fight for me.

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To choose being partners with me,

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to stay with me each and every time,
with no exceptions.

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But me, I'm not the one who fights.

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When have I ever actually just…
accepted someone for who they are?

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-[chuckles softly]
-[Ada sniffles]

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-Me.
-[sighs]

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[gentle music playing]

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You accepted me, Ada.

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I know you can do the same with Özgür.

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I think if you're willing
to take a different approach,

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you'll experience something else.

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[Ada sighs, sniffles]

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[Deniz sighs]

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[Ada sniffles]

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[man] Here. Over here.

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-[man 2 grunts]
-[indistinct chatter]

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-[man 3] Get him!
-[man 4] Oh God.

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-[man 5] Come on.
-[somber music playing]

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[sighs]

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I wanted to meet up before your trip.

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Good, I'm glad.

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[Ada sighs]

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I couldn't quite bring myself
to develop them.

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I think I was afraid
I wouldn't be able to go if I saw you.

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It was a beautiful time, Ada.

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It really was.

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[Özgür] The fact that beautiful things
can hurt people,

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I'm not sure I'll ever be able
to really accept it.

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[reflective music playing]

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Here.

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[Ada sighs]

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Özgür.

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I regret it.

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I didn't give us enough time.
I was too impulsive.

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I hurt you. I'm sorry.

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Ada, you were right.

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It was right to ask about my future goals,

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and to make sure nobody's time
was being wasted.

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[Ada] Mm.

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That's why I made no arguments about it.

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[Ada] Mm-hmm.

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I need to remove this.

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[reflective music fades]

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-[Ada] Going back to the same place?
-To Kilimanjaro.

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[Ada] Mm.

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I wonder what it'll be like
this time around.

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I guess it's possible
my point of view will show me

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something unexpected, like you.

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[Ada sighs]

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What have you been searching for
so far away, Özgür?

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[somber music playing]

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Why do you choose
to research death rituals?

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There are so many questions
I should have asked.

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I've let time get away from us. [sighs]

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But I thought,
we could make this time count, at least.

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Come.

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My dad, Musa. A Sephardic Jew.

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He met my mother at university.
And Mom was the daughter of an Imam.

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Of course,
both their families disapproved.

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But they were in love.
They couldn't help it.

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Without even a penny,
the two of them married.

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My dad was shunned,
and my mom's family disowned her.

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They had my big sister, Kader.

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Then me.

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And two more years later, Güneş.

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Güneş had a bad heart.
And they found out too late.

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They said she had
no more than a few years.

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-The end was inevitable.
-[Ada sighs]

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My sister passed.

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[sobbing] My girl!

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[Özgür] No one from either family
called after my sister died.

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-Like it was a punishment.
-[mother] Why?!

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Like her death was the price
of betraying the families.

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The matter was so completely closed.

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But afterward, neither my mom
nor my dad were ever the same again.

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Then, when I was in high school,
my dad died too.

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I wonder if sometimes my choosing
anthropology was somehow related.

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Why is it that compassion
is so challenging,

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when the pain people feel is universal?

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Why is it that some beliefs,
some traditions,

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are even more important to us
than our shared humanity?

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Maybe that question is
what's been driving me.

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Mm.

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It's very understandable
that you don't want kids, Özgür.

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I'm so sorry.

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Remember on the plane,

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you said you had a sister
but you hadn't met her yet?

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I guess something about your story
called to me.

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Because I lost my sister, I suppose it…

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[inhales] …seemed really important…

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for yours to be found.

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Thank you so much, Özgür.

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For being there, for helping find Deniz,
for the trouble you've gone through.

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Thank you, really.

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You're welcome,
but I should be the grateful one.

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You came
right when I was gonna leave, Ada.

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[gentle music rises]

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Mm.

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What difference is there?

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Go to Africa.
Come back when you're finished up.

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And when you do return, I'll be here.

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Do you really mean that?

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[Ada] Mm-hmm.

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[Özgür] Are you sure
you want to be with me?

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Africa's so far away.
A year is such a long time.

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[Ada] I don't know what's gonna happen
today, tomorrow, or a year from now.

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But whatever does happen,
I'm ready to face it with you.

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-[Ada moans]
-[both breathing heavily]

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[music fades]

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[Leyla] Erdem, what are you doing here?

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You're not well yet. You need to rest.

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I… thought it was better
to talk here, without the kids.

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Don't want them to be affected.

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[Leyla sighs]

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I wasn't the person who saved you.

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Seems Yorgos saved us both.

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I'm aware.

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Have you made a decision?
Will you be with Yorgos?

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[Leyla scoffs]

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It's that simple? I pick him or not?

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I'm sorry what…
what happened with that girl.

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I mean, with Deniz.

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It was very wrong.

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You know that Deniz
isn't the main issue here.

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Marriage for us has become
a charade we engage in for our kids.

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That's what it is now.

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Don't you think it's unfair to both of us?

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[scoffs]

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Erdem.

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Please believe that I love you.
Your kids also love you.

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You're a wonderful father.
You're self-sacrificing.

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It's impossible for us
to keep on being spouses anymore.

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It's better to end it.

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Can we put this behind us?

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-[somber music playing]
-[sighs]

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For good?

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We'll be able to do it
without disturbing the kids,

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and we'll make it happen
without hurting each other, okay, Erdem?

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-[Erdem sighs]
-[Leyla huffs]

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[music fades]

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"It's the same as when
a new child is born and we rejoice,

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when someone dies,

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we see it as a rebirth
into a dimension we'll all go to."

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That's why we attend funeral services

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with flowers, music, and gifts
the person who died would've liked.

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It's like a way to honor them.

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Even though the body may well be gone,

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their love stays with us forever,
and that is worth honoring.

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Thank you all for these great papers.

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[tearfully] Doctor,
seeing you go is really hard.

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[students chattering indistinctly]

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I know. I'll miss you all as well.

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Believe me. [chuckles]

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[gentle music playing]

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You positive you don't want me
at the airport?

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It'll be harder to leave you there.

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You know about my tendency
to cry at the drop of a hat.

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I remember.

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I admire that tendency.

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I have something for you.

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[music fades]

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I did a bit of research about some grants.
When the clinic's ready to expand,

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you'll see there are plenty
of funding options available.

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You spent time on this for me?

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-[gentle piano music playing]
-[chuckles softly]

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[chuckles] Özgür, my patient list
is like two names.

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This is just the beginning.

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You're gonna need more doctors
and more space.

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Ada, your clinic
is going to grow and grow.

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Patients will be lined up outside.

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You'll see. Just trust me.

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You have to have worked on this
during the time we weren't speaking.

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[chuckles] Hit the ground running.

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I can't believe you.

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I believe in you and what you're doing.

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[music swells]

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Leave now, or I won't be able to let you.

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Maybe that's what I want.

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Go now.

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I love you.

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And I love you.

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[chuckles softly]

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[music fades]

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And voilà!

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Really, is this where I'll be sleeping?

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[Sevgi] Yes, really.

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What do you think?

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It's amazing. Thank you.

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You can rearrange
whatever you like about it later.

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We put all the toys out like this for now,
but when you're staying here,

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you can change things
however you want, 'kay?

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And… in here,

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there are tons of new clothes
just for you, honey.

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[gloomy music playing]

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Would you like to model a couple?

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[huffs]

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Mm. Not the biggest fan. This one better?

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-Why don't I make both you coffee?
-Sure. Hm.

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[Fiko] This way.

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[Sevgi] Baby girl.

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You're completely safe here.

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Whatever will make this place
perfectly secure and happy for you,

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I'm gonna get it done, you hear me?

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Now, I'm thinking maybe,
because dressing up is really fun,

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you could just pick out
something that you like, huh?

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[inhales shakily]

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Okay. It is your decision.

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And it's your timeline, honey.
When you're ready, tell me.

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[Sevgi] Hm.

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All right. Let's take a look.

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I bet we'll find some cookies
out there. [chuckles]

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You know, the world
is not a good place, Fiko.

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[music fades]

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Awful as it is, I believe it by now.
It's true. Evil exists. It is real.

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It's hard, but it's the truth.

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And I can't do anything at all about it.

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[gate creaks]

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-Miss?
-[Sultan] Sevgi.

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I caught that freak creeping around,

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trying to get his hands
on our little Halime.

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-[somber music playing]
-I want to give a statement.

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[Ada] "We are each always carrying
our own deaths within us,

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like the rind that carries the fruit,"
says Rilke.

31:49.416 --> 31:50.916
[crow cawing]

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[Ada] Since our inception,

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humankind has been seeking
the answer to one question.

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Is there life after death?

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When we die, our bodies cease to exist.

32:18.958 --> 32:22.333
But what about the love we feel
throughout our lives?

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Where does it go when we die?

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What does it become?

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Is there love after death?

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[somber music rises]

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FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS

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[dramatic music continues]

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[music fades]