WEBVTT 00:10.886 --> 00:13.013 No, Mom. We can do better than this. 00:13.096 --> 00:15.849 It's going underground, what's the difference? 00:15.933 --> 00:17.726 He would've wanted something nicer. 00:17.809 --> 00:20.229 Well, he should have thought about that before he left us. 00:29.363 --> 00:31.281 Lilies are a classic option. 00:31.365 --> 00:34.785 Some prefer something more exotic, like an orchid. 00:35.285 --> 00:39.164 You can also spring for a custom arrangement for the wreath. 00:39.248 --> 00:41.667 We have an agreement with the florist down the street. 00:42.251 --> 00:46.255 They will work with you if you have a design or color scheme in mind. 01:02.563 --> 01:05.190 Your father and I weren't big on parties. 01:05.274 --> 01:06.650 He only gets one of these. 01:06.733 --> 01:10.362 Well, I just don't see why it has to be such a big to-do. 01:10.445 --> 01:13.740 We hired caterers, Mom. You don't have to actually do anything. 01:13.824 --> 01:17.619 Having help is always more work. They don't know where anything is. 01:17.703 --> 01:20.455 - There's never enough food. - There'll be plenty of food. 01:22.165 --> 01:24.585 This house isn't big enough for so many people. 01:24.668 --> 01:26.670 Well, Mel offered to host. 01:26.753 --> 01:28.338 And how would that look? 01:58.744 --> 01:59.745 Dad? 02:25.437 --> 02:30.150 A paper shadow in a house of stone 02:30.901 --> 02:35.948 The wooden flag Of a drifting dreamboat 02:36.031 --> 02:40.160 I never knew How far the ride was gonna go 02:40.244 --> 02:43.705 Till I looked back at the smoke 02:43.789 --> 02:48.252 You can't keep up with the Joneses 02:49.044 --> 02:53.882 Don't wanna run for the roses 02:53.966 --> 02:59.137 I got my pocket of posies 02:59.221 --> 03:01.723 Sometimes I wonder why 03:01.807 --> 03:03.851 Sometimes I wonder why 03:04.351 --> 03:08.939 I just don't run with the Joneses 03:09.565 --> 03:14.611 Don't wanna smell the dying roses 03:14.695 --> 03:19.700 I got my pocket full of posies 03:19.783 --> 03:24.746 I don't keep up with the Joneses 03:41.597 --> 03:44.266 As we prepare to commit our brother, Ronald Cooper, 03:44.349 --> 03:46.351 to his final resting place, 03:46.435 --> 03:50.939 I'd like to invite his daughter, Allison, to honor her father with a song. 03:57.112 --> 03:59.114 I used to play this song when I was younger. 04:00.282 --> 04:01.742 And it meant a lot to me. 04:02.993 --> 04:05.120 I'd like to think it meant a lot to him too. 04:11.168 --> 04:16.005 Shadows are fallin' And I'm runnin' out of breath 04:17.007 --> 04:20.010 Keep me in your heart for a while 04:22.221 --> 04:27.559 If I leave you it doesn't mean I love you any less 04:28.435 --> 04:31.647 Keep me in your heart for a while 04:33.357 --> 04:38.904 When you wake up in the mornin' And you see that crazy sun 04:39.821 --> 04:42.908 Keep me in your heart for a while 04:44.701 --> 04:49.915 There's a train leavin' nightly called "When All is Said and Done" 04:50.832 --> 04:54.044 Keep me in your heart for a while 04:55.629 --> 05:01.510 Lo-lo-lo-lo-lo-lo-lo-lo-lo Lo-lo-love 05:02.010 --> 05:05.097 Keep me in your heart for a while 05:06.723 --> 05:07.724 Lo-lo-lo… 05:07.808 --> 05:09.268 This is what happens. 05:10.102 --> 05:12.437 You marry your high school sweetheart. 05:13.021 --> 05:14.606 You have a couple kids. 05:15.190 --> 05:16.441 You start making money. 05:17.192 --> 05:18.402 It's not a lot, 05:18.986 --> 05:21.864 but if you keep your nut small, you can save for a rainy day. 05:24.324 --> 05:25.951 And those do come. 05:27.119 --> 05:30.080 So, you tell yourself next year is the year you'll travel, 05:30.873 --> 05:31.874 buy the nice car. 05:33.166 --> 05:35.669 You get so accustomed to postponing the reward, 05:35.752 --> 05:38.172 you forget what it was you wanted in the first place. 05:39.214 --> 05:40.424 But that's all right. 05:41.800 --> 05:43.343 At least you have your health. 05:44.761 --> 05:46.680 Then, on a day like any other day, 05:47.681 --> 05:50.100 you go to sleep, and you don't wake up. 05:51.602 --> 05:54.062 And your carefully managed life ends just like that, 05:55.189 --> 05:56.273 with no warning 05:57.316 --> 05:58.442 and no fanfare. 05:59.484 --> 06:02.487 Laid to rest by a pastor who's never even met you. 06:03.363 --> 06:06.325 And knowing my father, he would have been okay with that. 06:06.992 --> 06:09.328 But I think he would've liked to say goodbye. 06:13.498 --> 06:14.499 Andrew. 06:16.293 --> 06:19.254 - I am so sorry for your loss. - Oh, my goodness. Thank you so much. 06:19.338 --> 06:21.840 - Thanks for being here. Appreciate it. - Yeah. 06:45.113 --> 06:47.449 I kinda always hoped she'd die first, you know? 06:48.742 --> 06:51.912 Let Dad have a few years to enjoy himself. 06:52.663 --> 06:55.541 Yeah, well, she never seemed terribly happy about being alive. 06:57.501 --> 06:58.961 What about you? You gonna be okay today? 06:59.044 --> 07:01.880 Who, me? Oh, yeah. Why wouldn't I be? 07:02.631 --> 07:04.591 It's okay if you're not. 07:04.675 --> 07:06.635 Thanks. But you don't have to worry about me. 07:07.553 --> 07:10.305 I'm sad, but in the dead dad way. 07:10.389 --> 07:12.057 Not the bipolar way. 07:13.267 --> 07:14.434 Hey, Mel. 07:14.518 --> 07:16.979 - You sang beautifully. - Thank you. 07:18.272 --> 07:20.649 - And thanks for helping us out. - Oh, yeah. 07:20.732 --> 07:24.069 Your mom made me add and remove the leaf to that table like four times. 07:24.152 --> 07:25.779 - God. - Sorry. 07:26.488 --> 07:29.199 - Will you take these upstairs, dear? - Oh. Of course. 07:29.283 --> 07:30.868 - Mom. - It's… It's fine. 07:30.951 --> 07:33.203 - I'm happy to help. - Good, I'm glad, 07:33.287 --> 07:36.248 - because the caterer needs it. - Oh, she really doesn't. 07:36.331 --> 07:39.001 She doesn't even know how to use a vegetable peeler. 07:39.084 --> 07:41.420 She knows how to prepare food, Mom. She does it for a living. 07:41.503 --> 07:43.046 - Ali. - It's not a problem. 07:43.130 --> 07:47.009 I will drop these off and then go figure out the whole peeler/non-peeler situation. 07:47.092 --> 07:48.719 Why don't you let me take those upstairs? 07:48.802 --> 07:50.846 - It's okay, I got it. - I can take 'em up. 07:50.929 --> 07:53.932 Why don't you get yourself a drink 'cause I think you could use one? 07:59.771 --> 08:01.106 What? 08:01.190 --> 08:03.609 You two don't behave like a divorced couple. 08:03.692 --> 08:04.943 - Mom… - You don't. 08:14.077 --> 08:16.413 We're so sorry for your loss. 08:16.496 --> 08:19.750 He loved you so much. It's been ages. 08:20.959 --> 08:23.295 Honey, look at you. 08:24.213 --> 08:25.339 You are a woman. 08:25.839 --> 08:26.840 Isn't she, Glen? 08:27.382 --> 08:28.967 Am I allowed to say? 08:29.051 --> 08:30.302 And you. 08:30.385 --> 08:33.472 You are the spitting image of your father at the same age. 08:34.264 --> 08:35.682 You still doing the acting? 08:36.683 --> 08:38.684 - Music. - Right. 08:38.769 --> 08:42.147 You know, my sister's brother-in-law was off-Broadway once. 08:42.231 --> 08:43.482 I should connect you two. 08:43.565 --> 08:45.150 Again, not acting. 08:45.817 --> 08:47.486 I think they sang too. 08:47.569 --> 08:48.987 Didn't they sing, Glen? 08:50.822 --> 08:52.324 Oh, there's Marley. 08:54.243 --> 08:57.913 Well, I'm sorry about your grandpa. 08:57.996 --> 08:58.997 Thank you. 09:04.586 --> 09:06.338 How long do you think we have to stay? 09:06.421 --> 09:07.923 Oh, I think the whole time. 09:10.676 --> 09:12.761 Oh, God. Mom keeps staring at me. 09:12.845 --> 09:15.013 I can feel how badly she wants to lecture me. 09:15.097 --> 09:17.057 Okay, don't be a dick to her today. 09:17.140 --> 09:18.517 You're taking her side? 09:18.600 --> 09:21.478 I'm taking the side of whoever's not being a dick. 09:25.399 --> 09:27.109 Best trips I've ever taken! 09:27.192 --> 09:30.279 We went in October, December and March. 09:30.362 --> 09:32.197 That is a lot of cruises. 09:32.781 --> 09:34.741 Mar… Marley should come this year. 09:34.825 --> 09:36.118 She'll have a blast. 09:36.201 --> 09:37.786 Well, good luck getting her on a boat. 09:37.870 --> 09:43.584 I'm telling you, the singles scene on these things pu-puts Florida to shame. 09:43.667 --> 09:45.085 - Is that so? - Yeah. 09:46.962 --> 09:50.299 - Oh, wow. - So we worked together for over 20 years, 09:50.382 --> 09:52.384 and we did a Secret Santa 09:53.760 --> 09:54.928 every Christmas. 09:55.637 --> 09:57.014 We had a running gag 09:57.639 --> 10:00.642 where no matter who got Ron, they'd give him socks. 10:02.895 --> 10:04.104 I don't… I don't get it. 10:04.188 --> 10:06.815 Was it the socks? Did they say something funny? 10:07.316 --> 10:09.610 No. It was just a running gag. 10:09.693 --> 10:10.694 Oh. 10:10.777 --> 10:13.071 Ron was always a good sport about it. 10:17.743 --> 10:22.372 Andrew. Linda Marshall. I play canasta with your mother. 10:22.456 --> 10:24.249 I'm so sorry for your loss. 10:24.333 --> 10:25.334 Thank you. 10:26.043 --> 10:29.046 The Lord takes us when He takes us. 10:30.339 --> 10:32.132 That is literally true. 10:36.136 --> 10:37.804 You make such a lovely couple. 10:37.888 --> 10:40.807 Oh, you're sweet, but we've been divorced some time now. 10:40.891 --> 10:42.100 Well… 10:42.851 --> 10:45.521 my daughter Emily is divorced. 10:46.480 --> 10:47.981 I'll get you her number. 10:50.192 --> 10:52.277 - Okay. - Who's that? 10:52.361 --> 10:55.614 That's Hal Singer, Artie Stein, 10:56.281 --> 10:59.660 and that's me over there looking like I don't know my ass from my elbow. 10:59.743 --> 11:00.911 Which one is my dad? 11:01.787 --> 11:03.580 He wasn't there that day. 11:09.336 --> 11:12.673 …again and again, but they just ignored me. 11:16.760 --> 11:17.970 Hey, you okay? 11:20.305 --> 11:21.348 Yeah, I just miss him. 11:21.974 --> 11:23.600 You wanna step outside and get some fresh air? 11:23.684 --> 11:25.060 No, no, no, I'm fine. 11:25.143 --> 11:27.938 You need to tap out of this anytime, just tell me. 11:28.021 --> 11:29.690 - No questions asked. - Thanks. 11:29.773 --> 11:31.275 S-Same goes for you. 11:34.945 --> 11:36.238 Coop. 11:36.321 --> 11:38.574 - Hey, buddy. - Sorry we're late. 11:38.657 --> 11:40.242 Yeah, we had to, uh, make a stop. 11:40.868 --> 11:42.202 I threw up on his shoes. 11:42.286 --> 11:46.582 Oh, well, uh, does that mean you're hungry? 11:46.665 --> 11:48.166 Maybe a drink? 11:54.590 --> 11:55.674 Oh, Ali. 11:56.175 --> 11:57.426 Uh, I just need a minute. 11:57.509 --> 11:59.011 Hey, come here. 12:00.512 --> 12:01.847 What happened? 12:02.764 --> 12:04.349 My father died. 12:05.350 --> 12:07.227 I really don't want a scene today. 12:07.311 --> 12:09.313 Oh, my God, Mom, I am not making a scene. 12:09.396 --> 12:10.898 You take your pills this morning? 12:10.981 --> 12:13.317 - Jesus, Mom. - I'm just saying. 12:18.113 --> 12:19.323 How are you holding up? 12:19.406 --> 12:23.744 Well, I'll be doing better when all these people are gone. 12:23.827 --> 12:25.537 Is that a smudge? 12:26.288 --> 12:27.623 Maybe. 12:28.624 --> 12:29.625 Here. 12:30.542 --> 12:34.671 So, Nick is on TV now, hmm? How's that going? 12:34.755 --> 12:37.424 Oh, you know, we stopped seeing each other a while ago. 12:38.050 --> 12:39.051 Huh. 12:40.427 --> 12:41.803 You feeling all right, dear? 12:43.180 --> 12:44.598 Hot flash. 12:55.984 --> 12:58.195 Hold this on the back of your neck. 13:00.906 --> 13:03.742 - Thank you. - Women die twice. 13:03.825 --> 13:06.161 God forbid we complain about it. 13:06.245 --> 13:08.080 Excuse me. Thank you. 13:09.873 --> 13:11.750 - You okay? - Yeah, yeah, 13:11.834 --> 13:14.586 if I stay down here, I'll just kill my mom in front of all her guests. 13:14.670 --> 13:17.339 And then we'll have to come back here and do this all again next week. 13:17.422 --> 13:19.049 Hang on, I'll go with you. 13:23.470 --> 13:24.847 How's she doing? 13:24.930 --> 13:26.014 Which one? 13:26.849 --> 13:28.267 - Exactly. - Hey, Coop. 13:29.893 --> 13:31.770 - Hey, brother. - Hey… Oh, oh. 13:32.437 --> 13:34.022 I'm so sorry. 13:34.106 --> 13:36.567 - Thank you. - I brought you some Yamazaki. 13:36.650 --> 13:38.026 Thanks for coming. 13:38.110 --> 13:40.028 You didn't have to come. 13:40.112 --> 13:42.281 - Are you kidding? Of course I did. - Wanna go upstairs? 13:42.364 --> 13:45.367 Times like these, you… you shouldn't be alone. 13:47.035 --> 13:48.245 Right. Well, uh… 13:49.997 --> 13:51.832 things are moving ahead with Bailey Russell. 13:51.915 --> 13:53.876 We should have the final paperwork next week. 13:53.959 --> 13:56.003 Oh, we don't have to talk about that right now. 13:56.837 --> 13:58.255 What else are we going to talk about? 13:58.338 --> 14:01.675 Andy, do you wanna keep your father's hedge clippers? 14:01.758 --> 14:03.844 If not, I'm gonna give them to Neil. 14:05.053 --> 14:06.430 Neil can have them. 14:06.513 --> 14:08.765 And when you get a chance, I'd appreciate it 14:08.849 --> 14:11.560 if you would get that television set off the living room wall. 14:11.643 --> 14:15.022 - It's an eyesore. - Maybe not today, Mom. 14:15.105 --> 14:18.817 Well, when's the next time I'm gonna have a house full of strong backs? 14:18.901 --> 14:20.527 - You must be Mrs. Cooper. - Mmm. 14:20.611 --> 14:23.030 Hi, I'm Owen Ashe. A very close friend of your son's. 14:23.113 --> 14:25.824 - I'm so sorry for your loss. - Oh, thank you, dear. 14:25.908 --> 14:27.993 I lost my wife, uh, a few years back. 14:28.076 --> 14:29.453 Oh, I'm so sorry. 14:29.536 --> 14:31.371 Oh, I'm not gonna sugarcoat it. 14:31.455 --> 14:33.373 - Grief is a motherfucker. - Oh. 14:33.457 --> 14:35.542 The day of her funeral, it hadn't hit me yet. 14:35.626 --> 14:39.963 So, I kept looking at the door, thinking that she was just gonna come walking in. 14:40.047 --> 14:42.424 It was her house, after all. 14:42.508 --> 14:44.092 Yeah, you have your good moments, 14:44.176 --> 14:46.720 and that makes the bad moments land a little harder. 14:46.803 --> 14:49.264 But, look, you got a wonderful family and they love and support you. 14:49.348 --> 14:51.308 - You-You'll be okay. - Mmm. 14:51.391 --> 14:52.392 Oh. 14:54.853 --> 14:55.979 How old is that? 14:56.063 --> 14:57.606 Mmm. I don't know. 14:57.689 --> 14:59.900 Pot doesn't expire. It's organic. 15:00.400 --> 15:01.735 I don't think that's true. 15:05.239 --> 15:06.240 It's good enough. 15:07.199 --> 15:08.283 What'd she do this time? 15:09.117 --> 15:12.538 Well, apparently, everyone is allowed to be sad except for me. 15:14.915 --> 15:18.752 I can't even cry at my dad's funeral without her wanting to lobotomize me. 15:19.753 --> 15:21.922 I think she blames me for his death. 15:22.923 --> 15:24.132 Why? 15:24.216 --> 15:25.884 He was always worried about me. 15:26.802 --> 15:28.220 I didn't make it easy on him. 15:29.680 --> 15:30.764 He loved you. 15:32.057 --> 15:33.183 Yeah, I guess… 15:34.601 --> 15:38.605 I don't like the idea that he was stressed out his entire life because of me. 15:38.689 --> 15:41.733 Please. She stressed him out way more than you did. 15:44.903 --> 15:47.739 You know, being the family fuckup isn't all it's cracked up to be. 15:48.532 --> 15:50.701 Being the golden child isn't any better. 15:52.202 --> 15:55.289 - Sorry. Not to make it about me. - No, no. Please. 15:55.372 --> 15:56.456 Say more. 15:57.416 --> 15:58.709 I don't know. 15:59.543 --> 16:01.795 I guess I should've started fucking up way sooner. 16:01.879 --> 16:03.463 Yeah, that would've helped. 16:04.923 --> 16:08.760 Do you ever wonder how easier life would be if we were boys? 16:09.386 --> 16:10.387 And, like, mid. 16:10.470 --> 16:13.640 Yeah, just two totally unremarkable dudes. 16:13.724 --> 16:14.725 We'd skate by. 16:19.980 --> 16:21.190 Is that weed? 16:26.153 --> 16:29.656 Man, when my dad died, I think I was in shock for, like, a month. 16:29.740 --> 16:32.159 - I guess I thought he'd live forever. - Yeah. 16:32.242 --> 16:34.620 Never thought I'd be that shocked again. 16:36.121 --> 16:38.999 Then came Athens. Nobody saw it coming. 16:39.082 --> 16:42.002 Heart still breaks every time I look at that bronze medal. 16:42.794 --> 16:43.962 All right. Okay. 16:44.046 --> 16:45.964 I guess I'm saying it gets better, man. 16:47.174 --> 16:48.425 But it also gets worse. 16:50.093 --> 16:51.845 Thank you for that. 16:52.429 --> 16:53.847 No. Anytime. 16:54.723 --> 16:57.267 When I die, I wanna be cremated. No question. 16:57.351 --> 16:59.937 I just don't get why anybody would wanna be burned like trash. 17:00.020 --> 17:02.356 Well, I'd rather be burned than eaten by worms. 17:02.439 --> 17:05.233 Plus, there's this thing now where they can turn your remains into a diamond. 17:05.858 --> 17:07.194 Mmm. 17:07.277 --> 17:08.904 You'd just be carrying out my wishes. 17:08.987 --> 17:11.656 - Still, I couldn't. - I could. 17:11.740 --> 17:15.160 If it came to quality of life, I'd rip that cord right outta the wall. 17:15.243 --> 17:16.244 Thanks, honey. 17:16.954 --> 17:19.998 You know you don't literally pull the plug, right? 17:20.082 --> 17:21.834 You just make the call. 17:21.916 --> 17:23.085 That's less enticing. 17:23.167 --> 17:25.796 Trust me, you can wear it in his honor. 17:27.130 --> 17:29.383 I've been researching some of that antiaging stuff. 17:29.466 --> 17:31.385 Testosterone, HGH. 17:31.969 --> 17:33.720 I mean, it's not as out there as people think. 17:33.804 --> 17:35.806 I've been getting vampire facials for years. 17:35.889 --> 17:39.268 Vitamins, hormones, stem cell infusions. 17:40.060 --> 17:41.478 Hey, you better believe, 17:41.562 --> 17:44.314 I'll be talking my kids into pumping their blood into my veins. 17:44.398 --> 17:45.607 Why not, right? 17:46.984 --> 17:48.902 Are you and Hunter the same blood type? 17:49.903 --> 17:51.154 You should find out. 17:51.780 --> 17:53.115 You should. 17:54.074 --> 17:56.118 Diane had our plots picked out years ago. 17:56.201 --> 17:58.078 Yeah, of course I did. 17:58.161 --> 17:59.955 All the good spots get snapped up. 18:00.038 --> 18:03.083 If I left it to him, we'd be buried on opposite sides of the cemetery. 18:04.960 --> 18:07.045 That's why they call it resting in peace. 18:14.094 --> 18:15.470 Let's see here. 18:16.680 --> 18:18.807 You have to start taking this stuff seriously, Coop. 18:18.891 --> 18:20.350 Heart disease runs in families. 18:20.434 --> 18:21.643 You're reaching that age, man. 18:21.727 --> 18:23.979 And it's not like you've had a stress-free life. 18:24.062 --> 18:26.648 Finance guys keel over at their desks all the time. 18:26.732 --> 18:28.984 It's a thing. Remember Johnny Arruda? 18:29.067 --> 18:31.153 - I think they would fit you perfectly. - He was fit. 18:31.236 --> 18:33.530 - Ran marathons, CrossFit, everything. - Uh, sure, thank you. 18:33.614 --> 18:36.825 Learned everything I know from him. But, uh, oof. Yeah. 18:36.909 --> 18:40.078 My dad was a bull in a china shop everywhere he went. 18:40.579 --> 18:43.081 This one time, he noticed inventory was light, right? 18:43.165 --> 18:45.417 So, he goes and checks into it, figures it's a port-level issue. 18:45.501 --> 18:47.753 So, he takes himself all the way to Brooklyn Piers 18:47.836 --> 18:50.756 in the middle of winter, asks his guys what's going on, right? 18:50.839 --> 18:52.341 No one's talking, okay? 18:52.424 --> 18:55.010 So, he elbows his way onto this massive freighter, 18:55.093 --> 18:56.678 I'm talking about one of those huge ships. 18:56.762 --> 19:00.015 Irina Class, 1,300 feet, propellers like the size of your house. 19:00.599 --> 19:03.936 Now, the guys start getting antsy because, you know, they got a schedule to keep. 19:04.019 --> 19:05.479 And this really pisses him off. 19:05.562 --> 19:10.067 So, he-he storms into the bridge, starts messing with the controls, right? 19:10.150 --> 19:13.445 Trying to cut the engines, which I guess is some sort of union violation, 19:13.529 --> 19:17.991 because this huge Longshoremen's Association motherfucker comes after him, 19:18.075 --> 19:19.284 says, "You can't touch shit." 19:19.368 --> 19:21.578 My dad gets in his face, yells at him, 19:21.662 --> 19:25.332 "These are my men, these are my goods, I'll touch whatever the fuck I want." 19:26.166 --> 19:28.460 Somebody throws the first punch. 19:29.169 --> 19:30.170 They get into it. 19:30.254 --> 19:33.090 Long story short, they both fall overboard. 19:33.674 --> 19:36.009 Yeah, 80-foot drop into the river 19:36.093 --> 19:38.554 and then… right under the hull. 19:39.888 --> 19:41.515 Jesus, that's a horrible way to die. 19:42.015 --> 19:44.560 Oh, no. My dad died at 78. 19:44.643 --> 19:46.061 Stage four, colon cancer. 19:46.645 --> 19:47.896 What are you gonna do? 19:52.776 --> 19:55.279 My Annie Lennox is missing. Fuck! 19:55.362 --> 19:56.572 Oh, no, wait. Here it is. 20:02.828 --> 20:05.080 - This tastes stale. - It's organic. 20:06.582 --> 20:09.042 The only reason I'm doing this is 'cause you're mad at me. 20:10.878 --> 20:13.255 And, you know, death. 20:17.217 --> 20:18.552 "It is decidedly so." 20:23.223 --> 20:24.558 Goddamn it. 20:24.641 --> 20:26.935 - What? - This goddamn dog. 20:27.019 --> 20:28.145 Wait, let me see. 20:28.896 --> 20:30.647 Oh. Hi, buddy. 20:30.731 --> 20:33.317 - Oh, are you a good boy? - He's not a good boy. 20:33.400 --> 20:35.611 He takes giant dumps on my lawn. 20:36.862 --> 20:39.198 God. I've told these people a million times, 20:39.281 --> 20:40.866 please keep your dog off our lawn. 20:40.949 --> 20:45.037 I don't think that's so much to ask, to have your dog stay in your own yard? 20:45.537 --> 20:47.623 You should see these people, they're so fucking condescending 20:47.706 --> 20:50.250 with their whole, like, my-dog-is-my-child bullshit. 20:50.334 --> 20:54.087 Really, would you have your kid shitting all over my lawn? 20:58.050 --> 20:59.051 What? 21:00.552 --> 21:01.678 Mom, you sound unhinged. 21:01.762 --> 21:03.931 I'm not unhinged. I'm totally hinged. 21:04.014 --> 21:05.224 - Mmm. - Okay. 21:05.891 --> 21:08.685 - You're perseverating. - I regret teaching you that word. 21:08.769 --> 21:11.855 I move out, and you go full Nextdoor narc. 21:11.939 --> 21:13.607 Excuse me, how could I be a narc? 21:13.690 --> 21:15.692 I'm literally doing drugs with my daughter. 21:15.776 --> 21:16.902 Is Mel a narc? 21:19.696 --> 21:21.448 "Reply hazy, try again." 21:21.532 --> 21:23.575 - It knows we're high. - Uh-huh. 21:27.996 --> 21:29.081 You know what I need? 21:29.164 --> 21:30.415 - A job. - A fuck. 21:30.499 --> 21:32.501 - A life. - Okay, wow. I was gonna say snacks. 21:32.584 --> 21:34.378 Well, snacks are downstairs. 21:35.504 --> 21:37.673 - It's too far. - Yeah. No, that's a nonstarter. 22:00.445 --> 22:02.823 Whoa. That's a first. 22:04.032 --> 22:05.033 Help me up. 22:08.704 --> 22:11.123 Wow. It's such a beautiful photo. 22:11.206 --> 22:13.625 But look at you. You look like a young Grace Kelly. 22:13.709 --> 22:14.793 Oh, shush. 22:14.877 --> 22:17.171 - I mean it. Spitting image. My gosh. - Oh, stop. 22:17.254 --> 22:19.381 Bet you had to beat them away with a stick, didn't you? 22:31.560 --> 22:32.561 Hey. 22:34.104 --> 22:35.772 These are from Bailey Russell? 22:35.856 --> 22:38.358 Why is Jack sending you flowers? 22:38.442 --> 22:41.236 - I'm doing a deal with him. - With Jack? Are you kidding me? 22:41.320 --> 22:44.406 Well, I'm on the other side of the table. It's completely different. 22:44.489 --> 22:46.742 The man screwed you. 22:48.035 --> 22:49.953 I'm sorry, are you high right now? 22:50.037 --> 22:51.038 What? 22:52.581 --> 22:53.582 No. 22:54.333 --> 22:56.335 Well, okay, yes. But not like high high. 22:57.044 --> 22:58.295 Why? Am I acting weird? 22:58.962 --> 23:01.381 You know what? I don't care. 23:01.465 --> 23:04.218 I'm not gonna apologize because your mother… 23:06.178 --> 23:07.971 - is a lot. - Yeah, that she is. 23:08.055 --> 23:10.807 She is all that and a bag of chips. 23:11.391 --> 23:13.227 - What? - Do we have chips? 23:16.313 --> 23:17.856 What happened here, bub? 23:17.940 --> 23:20.442 - Nothing. I'm fine. - Sweetheart, you are 16 years old. 23:20.526 --> 23:23.445 You have got to get better at lying to me. 23:24.112 --> 23:25.822 - He tripped. - See? Like that. 23:30.994 --> 23:32.287 Is Grandma pissed at us? 23:32.371 --> 23:35.332 No, that's just her face whenever I walk into a room. 23:35.415 --> 23:36.542 You get used to it. 23:38.001 --> 23:39.419 I'm not like that, am I? 23:39.503 --> 23:41.380 Don't sell yourself short, Mom. 23:58.647 --> 23:59.857 Where's the TV? 24:01.149 --> 24:02.693 Hey. Ho. What the fuck? 24:02.776 --> 24:04.319 Hello, where are you going? 24:04.403 --> 24:05.904 Wait, hold up, hold up, hold up. 24:06.572 --> 24:08.073 - What's wrong? - What the fuck are you doing? 24:08.156 --> 24:10.492 Your mom asked us to take it down, so we're bringing it to the garage. 24:10.576 --> 24:11.952 No, she was mistaken. 24:12.035 --> 24:14.204 Please, just… just put it back. 24:15.455 --> 24:16.540 Uh… 24:16.623 --> 24:18.500 - Really? Jesus Christ. - I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 24:18.584 --> 24:20.711 - Give me the goddamn TV. - Your mom seemed really sure about it. 24:20.794 --> 24:22.796 She doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about. 24:22.880 --> 24:24.923 And I don't even know what the fuck you're doing here. 24:25.007 --> 24:27.134 - That's the grief talking. - No, it isn't. 24:27.217 --> 24:29.511 Look, it was an honest mistake. I'm sorry. 24:30.012 --> 24:31.013 Yeah. It's fine. 24:34.641 --> 24:35.893 Is that my dad's belt? 24:36.977 --> 24:40.230 Oh, yeah. Your mom gave it to me. Said it looked nice with my suit. 24:40.314 --> 24:41.523 Wow. 24:43.150 --> 24:44.735 - Andy. - Where's Mom? 24:44.818 --> 24:47.070 I don't know. She's around here somewhere. What did I miss? 24:47.154 --> 24:49.364 - Nothing. I just need to find her. - I think you need to calm down. 24:49.448 --> 24:50.908 - I'm fine. - No, you don't look fine. 24:50.991 --> 24:53.869 You look like you're about to murder a widow with a flat screen, 24:53.952 --> 24:56.663 and believe me, nobody wants that more than me, but not today. 24:56.747 --> 24:58.999 - Not today, Andy. - Jesus, are you high too? 24:59.082 --> 25:00.709 Yeah, you want some? 25:00.792 --> 25:03.545 - It's s-stale but strong. - No, thank you. 25:03.629 --> 25:05.130 Okay, well, you need to take a break. 25:05.214 --> 25:07.299 - What? - Yeah, uh, tap out. 25:07.382 --> 25:10.385 Go to your room. I'll handle down the fort down here. 25:10.469 --> 25:11.803 She's giving away his stuff. 25:11.887 --> 25:14.139 Well, she's a real bitch on wheels, but what's new? 25:14.223 --> 25:15.807 - Ali… - Go. 26:28.088 --> 26:30.007 Cartier's Wax Seal Motif Cufflinks 26:30.090 --> 26:32.176 are designed to look like the burnt insignias 26:32.259 --> 26:34.553 they used to seal letters with back in the old days. 26:34.636 --> 26:37.222 This was before licking envelopes and text messages, 26:37.306 --> 26:40.392 back when people still put periods at the end of their sentences. 26:40.475 --> 26:43.312 The family seal told you who the letter was from. 26:43.854 --> 26:48.025 It told the family who they were too, or who they thought they were. 26:49.818 --> 26:51.778 Only a fool would give Cartier cuff links 26:51.862 --> 26:54.448 to a man who regularly shopped the Brooks Brothers sale rack. 26:55.574 --> 26:58.577 I doubt Ron Cooper even had a shirt that took cuff links. 26:58.660 --> 27:01.914 But it was his birthday, and I wanted to give him something nice. 27:01.997 --> 27:05.375 So I went with a pair of $4,800 designer cuff links 27:05.459 --> 27:07.586 that he, apparently, never took out of the box. 27:08.670 --> 27:12.841 Like all gifts, this one said more about the giver than the recipient. 27:13.592 --> 27:15.427 And I didn't love what it said about me. 27:47.167 --> 27:48.252 No. How dare you? 27:48.335 --> 27:51.839 I don't know why you have to take everything so personally. 27:51.922 --> 27:54.007 I take it personally because you're attacking my person! 27:54.091 --> 27:57.344 - What is going on here? - I don't know, but we can't get out. 27:57.427 --> 27:59.763 - What happened there? - Nothing. I'm fine. 27:59.847 --> 28:02.266 Hey, Mel. This is exactly like what we were talking about upstairs. 28:02.349 --> 28:04.768 - You were talking about me? - Of course not. 28:04.852 --> 28:07.271 - What's all this then? - Just tell her what you told me. 28:07.354 --> 28:10.482 You know what? This is a family matter. I just don't think I should get involved. 28:10.566 --> 28:12.025 No, you should not. 28:12.109 --> 28:14.152 - Mom. - What? She's not family anymore. 28:14.236 --> 28:15.362 - Oh, okay. - Wow. 28:15.445 --> 28:17.948 Okay, can we all just dial the temperature down a little bit? 28:18.031 --> 28:19.741 I have been biting my tongue all goddamn day, 28:19.825 --> 28:21.451 and she just keeps poking at me. 28:21.535 --> 28:23.620 She pokes. It's a poke, a poke, a poke. 28:23.704 --> 28:26.373 It's like she wants me to go off so she can poke me about that. 28:26.456 --> 28:28.876 I don't know what you're talking about. My husband just died. 28:28.959 --> 28:30.627 - Okay. Ali, Ali, Ali. - Oh. 28:30.711 --> 28:32.379 - I think you need to tap out, okay? - Me? 28:32.462 --> 28:34.631 Why don't you go to your room, take a deep breath, calm down and-- 28:34.715 --> 28:38.385 Coop. She's a grown woman. You can't send her to her room. 28:38.468 --> 28:40.220 I thought you said you weren't getting involved. 28:40.304 --> 28:41.388 I say a lot of things. 28:41.471 --> 28:43.056 Hold on! 28:43.140 --> 28:45.267 What in the sweet fuck are you doing here? 28:45.809 --> 28:46.810 Your mom invited us. 28:46.894 --> 28:50.731 And you thought it would be a good idea to come? 28:50.814 --> 28:52.441 I assumed she cleared it with you. 28:52.524 --> 28:53.734 No, she did not! 28:55.194 --> 28:57.029 I'm really sorry about Ron. He was a good man. 28:57.112 --> 28:59.781 Oh, thanks, Bruce. Now, why don't you just go fuck off? 28:59.865 --> 29:01.408 - Hi, Joan. - Allison. 29:01.491 --> 29:03.911 God, I cannot believe you would fucking invite him. 29:03.994 --> 29:06.872 It's ancient history. I just assumed we had all moved on. 29:06.955 --> 29:08.207 Bruce certainly has. 29:08.290 --> 29:11.543 Oh, if he had moved on, he wouldn't have fucked me last year, huh? 29:11.627 --> 29:13.003 Damn it, Ali. 29:13.086 --> 29:15.506 Wait, wait. This is that Bruce? Like, "Fuck Bruce" Bruce? 29:15.589 --> 29:17.132 Ali, I thought he'd be way hotter. 29:17.216 --> 29:19.092 - Ali… - Tori. Excuse her, she's high. 29:19.176 --> 29:21.386 What? You're getting high with the children now? 29:21.470 --> 29:22.888 We had a breakthrough. 29:22.971 --> 29:24.264 - Oh, my God. Really? - Yeah. 29:24.348 --> 29:25.766 I think we should probably leave. 29:25.849 --> 29:27.142 Yes, I-I think so too. 29:27.226 --> 29:28.519 Nonsense. 29:28.602 --> 29:29.978 You just got here. 29:30.062 --> 29:32.189 Are you fucking kidding me? 29:32.272 --> 29:34.983 - Joan is my friend. - Okay. New… New plan. 29:35.067 --> 29:36.443 New plan. Joan, please stay. 29:36.527 --> 29:38.153 Bruce, kindly fuck off. 29:38.237 --> 29:39.696 - I'm her ride. - I swear to God, Bruce. 29:39.780 --> 29:40.781 Okay. 29:46.078 --> 29:47.496 Oh, God. Oh. 29:47.579 --> 29:51.333 - Get my hair, get my hair, Barney. - Oh, I got it. I got it. You're okay. 29:51.416 --> 29:53.710 Oh, my God. I'm so, so sorry. 29:53.794 --> 29:55.879 - Can I get some water? - Yeah, I got it. 29:59.091 --> 30:00.801 Oh, God. 30:00.884 --> 30:02.886 Oh, I'm so sorry. 30:04.888 --> 30:05.973 I'm so sorry. 30:09.351 --> 30:12.312 I would like the feeling 30:12.396 --> 30:15.190 I would like the feeling 30:15.274 --> 30:19.194 I would like the feeling gone 30:21.405 --> 30:24.491 'Cause I don't like the way it's 30:24.575 --> 30:27.536 I don't like the way it's 30:27.619 --> 30:31.248 I don't like the way it's looking 30:33.083 --> 30:37.921 I get caught looking in the mirror On the regular 30:39.214 --> 30:43.844 What I see there resembles Some competitor 30:45.304 --> 30:49.766 I see things behind things Behind things 30:51.351 --> 30:56.273 And there are rings within rings Within rings 31:30.557 --> 31:31.808 What can I get ya? 31:31.892 --> 31:33.810 - Size 12, please. - Got it. 31:37.648 --> 31:38.649 Okay. 32:11.473 --> 32:13.809 Hi. Sorry, you were at the cemetery. 32:13.892 --> 32:15.477 Elaine Naft. 32:15.561 --> 32:18.063 - Hi. Uh, Andrew Cooper. - I know. 32:19.106 --> 32:20.440 Do you want to sit down? 32:21.441 --> 32:23.610 Uh, sure. Yes, I'd love to. 32:29.825 --> 32:31.702 So, how did you know my dad? 32:31.785 --> 32:34.705 - We were on a bowling team together. - Huh. 32:34.788 --> 32:38.417 We met every Thursday for the past ten years. 32:39.042 --> 32:42.212 I… I thought the bowling team disbanded years ago. 32:43.088 --> 32:45.090 We didn't let that stop us. 32:46.717 --> 32:47.718 Oh. 32:49.469 --> 32:51.680 I see. So, you, uh… 32:54.725 --> 32:56.101 Does that shock you? 32:58.854 --> 33:01.607 - He was a pretty straitlaced guy. - He was. 33:02.608 --> 33:04.443 He was also a lot of other things. 33:05.611 --> 33:06.945 Is that so? 33:12.367 --> 33:13.702 He loved you very much. 33:14.828 --> 33:16.205 I'm sure you know that. 33:16.288 --> 33:17.289 Yeah. 33:19.666 --> 33:21.543 He talked about you a lot. 33:21.627 --> 33:23.170 You and your sister. 33:25.422 --> 33:26.840 That's funny. He never mentioned you at all. 33:28.592 --> 33:30.636 No. I don't suppose he would've. 33:32.596 --> 33:35.390 So, what was the plan? You guys were gonna run off together or something? 33:35.474 --> 33:38.227 God, no. We were both too old for that. 33:40.270 --> 33:41.563 I think we were… 33:43.482 --> 33:45.484 just lonely in the same way. 33:47.694 --> 33:49.029 And having each other… 33:51.740 --> 33:53.200 well, it made things better. 33:55.536 --> 33:57.663 Is it weird that it makes me happy to hear that? 34:03.126 --> 34:05.045 Honestly, I thought we'd have more time. 34:06.380 --> 34:07.381 Yeah. 34:08.090 --> 34:09.216 You and me both. 34:11.176 --> 34:12.969 He worried about you, you know? 34:13.053 --> 34:15.889 Well, I got into some trouble last year, 34:15.973 --> 34:18.475 but I'm… It's all sorted out. 34:18.559 --> 34:20.561 No, he worried about you before that. 34:21.143 --> 34:23.480 He worried you might never be happy. 34:27.693 --> 34:28.694 Is anyone? 34:29.360 --> 34:31.154 I'd like to think he was. 34:31.237 --> 34:34.116 Yeah, I don't know. He took a lot of shit at home and at work. 34:35.784 --> 34:38.161 I think sometimes it felt like he had just given up. 34:41.123 --> 34:42.291 Is that funny? 34:44.168 --> 34:46.128 You're exactly like he said. 34:46.210 --> 34:47.212 What do you mean? 34:47.963 --> 34:49.715 You're angry at the world. 34:50.632 --> 34:52.426 Yeah. The world can be a shitty place. 34:53.177 --> 34:54.469 Maybe. 34:55.179 --> 34:58.140 Maybe there's something in you that expects too much out of it. 34:58.849 --> 35:00.559 So, I should just settle for less? 35:02.144 --> 35:03.228 Like he did. 35:03.812 --> 35:05.147 You think he settled? 35:05.898 --> 35:07.357 I think he deserved more. 35:16.825 --> 35:19.286 Ron's life might've looked small to you, 35:19.369 --> 35:22.831 but the way he saw it, he had his whole world under one roof. 35:25.334 --> 35:26.919 That made him happy. 35:33.300 --> 35:34.927 I already miss him. 35:40.724 --> 35:42.142 You and me both, honey. 35:47.356 --> 35:49.733 You really believe that? That he was happy? 35:50.526 --> 35:52.027 I think he was happy by nature. 35:53.320 --> 35:55.864 I think he found things to be happy about. 35:57.491 --> 36:01.411 And for everything else, there was bowling. 36:05.082 --> 36:06.083 Yeah. 38:03.534 --> 38:04.993 - Mom in here? - Yep. 38:05.077 --> 38:06.078 Come on. 38:06.161 --> 38:07.162 - Bye. - Bye. 38:08.121 --> 38:09.122 Bye. 40:05.989 --> 40:07.908 - Hello. - How many? 40:07.991 --> 40:12.871 Just three of us. She's a size 3, he's a 9, I'm a 12.