WEBVTT 00:26.484 --> 00:29.237 Okay, since you guys got multiple rooms with us, 00:29.320 --> 00:32.949 we are happy to offer you guys the bulk room discount rate. 00:33.533 --> 00:36.161 Also, I have to ask, who's getting married? 00:36.244 --> 00:37.996 I actually just got engaged last week. 00:38.079 --> 00:40.749 No, it's not a wedding. It's just an event. 00:40.832 --> 00:41.875 Big birthday? 00:41.958 --> 00:43.877 Nope, just a family event. 00:43.960 --> 00:44.961 Family reunion! 00:45.044 --> 00:46.087 Jesus Christ. 00:46.171 --> 00:47.922 Sorry. I'm just kind of dying to know. 00:48.006 --> 00:50.050 My colleague wrote "fun" next to your name. 00:50.133 --> 00:51.968 It's a funeral, Mikayla. 00:52.635 --> 00:53.470 Oh my God. 00:54.888 --> 00:55.930 I'm so sorry. 00:56.014 --> 00:57.807 No, you didn't know. It's fine. 00:58.391 --> 01:03.396 My, um, sincerest condolences for the loss of your loved one. 01:03.480 --> 01:06.149 No, it was… my ex-husband. 01:06.232 --> 01:07.233 I hated him. 01:07.317 --> 01:08.276 I didn't hate him. 01:08.860 --> 01:13.156 But I was just getting over our divorce before all this happened. 01:14.407 --> 01:16.451 And now I am stuck planning a celebration of life 01:16.534 --> 01:18.453 for a man who did not want a life with me. 01:18.536 --> 01:21.122 Annie, honey, Mikayla needs to just focus on the reservation… 01:21.206 --> 01:22.207 And here's the kicker. 01:22.290 --> 01:25.168 The tween he left me for is coming over today 01:25.251 --> 01:27.962 to help me plan said funeral. 01:28.463 --> 01:29.297 So… 01:30.465 --> 01:32.509 Not quite as fun as the note suggested. 01:34.385 --> 01:38.181 Okay, so that's 12 rooms, all non-smoking. 01:38.264 --> 01:40.391 You guys can smoke if you need. 01:42.227 --> 01:43.728 -Thanks. -Thank you, dear. 01:53.279 --> 01:55.949 Oh! Hey, remember this? 01:57.450 --> 01:59.452 It's Hershey Bar Man from Hersheypark. 01:59.536 --> 02:00.787 That was real? 02:00.870 --> 02:02.705 I thought that was, like, a nightmare I had. 02:02.789 --> 02:06.125 Oh, it was a really fun trip. You don't remember at all? 02:06.209 --> 02:07.710 Not really. I'm sorry. 02:07.794 --> 02:08.962 I might have been too little. 02:09.045 --> 02:10.380 Ginny's here. 02:11.881 --> 02:12.757 Hey. 02:14.509 --> 02:15.426 You're fine. 02:18.221 --> 02:19.514 Hi, Anne. 02:20.140 --> 02:22.225 Um, thanks for having me over. 02:22.308 --> 02:23.309 Of course. 02:23.893 --> 02:28.898 Um, I was thinking about the service tomorrow, and I… 02:29.732 --> 02:30.692 I have a few ideas. 02:30.775 --> 02:34.279 Uh, to be honest, I've never really been to a funeral before 02:34.362 --> 02:36.948 because all my grandparents are still alive. 02:37.031 --> 02:37.907 You know what, Ginny? 02:37.991 --> 02:41.119 We're already taking care of everything, so you can just relax. 02:43.288 --> 02:44.122 Uh… 02:44.914 --> 02:45.748 Okay. 02:46.249 --> 02:48.168 Well, I brought a few of Nick's favorite things, 02:48.251 --> 02:49.878 if you want to incorporate them. 02:49.961 --> 02:55.174 Um, these are his sand goggles from Burning Man. 02:55.258 --> 02:56.384 And, um… 02:56.467 --> 02:59.679 Oh, this is this album that Nick really loved. 02:59.762 --> 03:02.265 It's from this band called Mannequin Pussy. 03:02.348 --> 03:03.975 -I was thinking… -Okay, know what, Ginny? 03:04.058 --> 03:06.269 Why don't you come help me with the slideshow? 03:06.352 --> 03:07.228 Oh, sure. 03:11.816 --> 03:12.650 Hey. 03:14.527 --> 03:15.445 Where are you going? 03:15.528 --> 03:17.947 I have to pick up a couple cousins at the train station, 03:18.031 --> 03:20.783 and then I need to, uh, go back to the funeral home and… 03:20.867 --> 03:23.203 Why do you have to go back? I thought everything was done. 03:23.286 --> 03:28.166 Yeah, well, they're trying to gouge us. They want Anne to pay $2,500 for an urn. 03:28.249 --> 03:30.877 What? That's how much it cost to get my tooth fixed. 03:30.960 --> 03:34.547 Yeah, they sneaked a bunch of extra bullshit into the estimate too. 03:34.631 --> 03:36.132 -It's horrible. -Hey. 03:37.550 --> 03:40.303 You want me to go? I don't mind talking them down. 03:42.430 --> 03:43.264 What? 03:43.848 --> 03:46.601 You're usually better at talking up the price of things. 03:46.684 --> 03:49.312 Remember, you got swindled into buying Geek Squad insurance 03:49.395 --> 03:50.605 for that $12 power cord? 03:50.688 --> 03:53.399 Yeah, but if you'll recall when that power cord died, 03:53.483 --> 03:55.026 we got a new one for free. 03:55.109 --> 03:58.112 Minus the shipping and the restocking fee. 03:58.821 --> 04:01.074 I know you feel like I don't do enough, 04:01.157 --> 04:03.534 but sometimes you have to trust me to help you. 04:04.035 --> 04:07.413 Okay, thank you. Yes, you can go to the funeral home. 04:12.669 --> 04:15.713 Look, I know we've been having a rough time, 04:15.797 --> 04:18.007 and neither of us knows how to get out of it, 04:18.091 --> 04:20.885 but we've gotten through other bad times before. 04:21.511 --> 04:25.098 Like, remember when we bought the house and the next day I lost my job? 04:25.181 --> 04:26.015 That sucked. 04:26.099 --> 04:27.850 Yeah, or when you were nine months pregnant, 04:27.934 --> 04:30.228 you said you didn't want to have to deliver the baby. 04:30.311 --> 04:33.189 And I missed my epidural window 'cause I wouldn't take my pants off. 04:33.272 --> 04:34.232 Yeah. 04:35.149 --> 04:36.442 But we know what we have to do. 04:36.526 --> 04:39.779 We just have to buckle down and push through 04:39.862 --> 04:41.406 and just work on it 04:41.489 --> 04:44.450 and just, like, keep working until it's okay. 04:46.202 --> 04:47.954 This is just what marriage is. 04:48.538 --> 04:49.372 Yeah. 04:56.963 --> 04:57.880 This is hard. 05:00.425 --> 05:01.551 It's okay. 05:01.634 --> 05:02.927 It'll be okay. 05:03.011 --> 05:03.845 How? 05:03.928 --> 05:05.888 He's dead. It's fucked up. 05:06.389 --> 05:07.223 I know. 05:07.765 --> 05:11.436 But it's also beautiful because Nick is a butterfly now. 05:12.478 --> 05:13.313 What? 05:14.063 --> 05:16.649 Last night, I had a dream. It was about Nick. 05:16.733 --> 05:19.694 He was surrounded by dozens of butterflies, 05:19.777 --> 05:20.820 and he looked so happy. 05:20.903 --> 05:24.157 And then this morning, Anne, she handed me a mug and on the side… 05:24.991 --> 05:26.117 A butterfly. 05:26.200 --> 05:27.076 Yeah. 05:27.618 --> 05:31.706 I think this is his way of telling us that he will always be with us. 05:32.790 --> 05:35.084 Yeah, I don't like stuff like that. 05:35.168 --> 05:37.003 But I was thinking maybe… 05:37.879 --> 05:40.798 Did he ever mention to you loving butterflies, 05:40.882 --> 05:43.009 or, I don't know, a special connection to them? 05:43.092 --> 05:43.968 Of course not. 05:44.052 --> 05:46.137 He wasn't a nine-year-old girl or Mariah Carey. 05:46.220 --> 05:47.805 He didn't give a fuck about butterflies. 05:49.307 --> 05:51.517 Yet how ironic he has now become one. 05:53.936 --> 05:57.106 Okay, uh, has everybody sent me all their pictures? 05:57.190 --> 06:00.860 I sent three. We hardly ever take pictures of this group of friends. 06:00.943 --> 06:04.197 Okay, thank you for reminding me that your gay friends are more photogenic. 06:04.280 --> 06:07.116 -Well, you know. -So I just had a great talk with Marty. 06:07.200 --> 06:09.744 -Who's Marty? -Marty Galuska, Galuska Funeral Home. 06:09.827 --> 06:10.661 Awesome guy. 06:10.745 --> 06:12.580 Great. Is he gonna take off that extra stuff? 06:12.663 --> 06:14.040 Well, according to Marty, 06:14.123 --> 06:17.251 all those things you thought were add-ons are actually pretty standard 06:17.335 --> 06:18.711 and frankly necessary. 06:18.795 --> 06:21.172 So to be on the safe side, I just kept them all. 06:21.923 --> 06:24.842 All right, I can tell by your face you think I've been swindled, 06:24.926 --> 06:26.469 but I promise you I was not. 06:26.552 --> 06:29.514 No, it's fine. I will, uh… get into it later. 06:29.597 --> 06:32.183 Let's look at the slideshow. 06:32.266 --> 06:33.101 Oh, yeah. 06:33.184 --> 06:36.771 I already air-dropped my pics to you, so I tried to do a good assortment. 06:37.397 --> 06:39.273 -Oh. -Wow. 06:39.357 --> 06:40.525 Mm-hmm. 06:40.608 --> 06:41.984 Got some tongues. 06:42.735 --> 06:44.362 Is he nude there? 06:44.445 --> 06:45.405 Yeah, but you can't… 06:45.488 --> 06:47.281 Oh, Ginny, I don't know. 06:47.907 --> 06:49.200 Really? What's wrong? 06:49.283 --> 06:51.411 These are a little risqué. 06:51.494 --> 06:52.870 I think they're kind of romantic. 06:52.954 --> 06:55.790 I know Nick really liked this one with the trapezists. 06:55.873 --> 06:58.042 No, I'm sure he enjoyed taking this photo. 06:58.126 --> 07:00.628 I just don't think he would want people to remember him 07:00.711 --> 07:02.880 as, like, a French sex clown. 07:02.964 --> 07:06.426 Okay, well, I'm sure that Ginny doesn't want that either, right? 07:07.135 --> 07:10.805 I mean, maybe there are other ways you could participate, you know? 07:10.888 --> 07:12.765 Like if you wanted to say a few words or… 07:12.849 --> 07:14.642 No, I-I would love to speak. 07:14.725 --> 07:16.018 Actually, I can make the photos work. 07:16.102 --> 07:18.896 No, honestly, this would make me feel, like, a lot better. 07:18.980 --> 07:21.566 Um… Thank you. Yeah. 07:21.649 --> 07:23.109 I'll see you guys tomorrow, okay? 07:23.192 --> 07:25.111 What are we thinking? Like, three to five minutes? 07:26.362 --> 07:27.363 I'll run it by you. 07:27.447 --> 07:29.699 -Okay. -Okay, bye. 07:29.782 --> 07:30.700 -Bye. -Bye. 07:33.077 --> 07:34.036 Why? 07:34.120 --> 07:37.081 I mean, you don't know. Maybe Anne will want her to say a few-- 07:37.165 --> 07:38.457 -No. -No. 07:44.213 --> 07:47.508 Annie, can I interest you in some under-seasoned upstate pad thai? 07:49.093 --> 07:50.261 Sounds perfect. 07:57.059 --> 07:58.269 Yeah. I know. 07:59.353 --> 08:00.563 I can't believe he's gone. 08:01.606 --> 08:04.901 But if it helps, Anne, you know, he'll always be with us. 08:04.984 --> 08:05.818 Yeah. 08:06.319 --> 08:07.278 Thank you both. 08:07.361 --> 08:09.155 In fact, I had a dream last night. 08:09.238 --> 08:10.990 -Claude. Claude. -It was about Nick. 08:11.073 --> 08:13.075 Remember that mug that you gave me this morning? 08:13.910 --> 08:15.369 The one with the dragonfly? 08:20.541 --> 08:21.751 Where's Ginny? 08:21.834 --> 08:23.628 Uh, she went back to the hotel. 08:31.427 --> 08:35.306 So, just thinking out loud about the schedule. 08:35.389 --> 08:40.770 Should I be trying to block out a little time for Ginny to say anything? 08:40.853 --> 08:42.146 No, she's not speaking tomorrow. 08:42.980 --> 08:44.524 Yeah, that's what we thought. Yeah. 08:45.274 --> 08:50.488 Uh, in other news, the slideshow is looking pretty tight. 08:50.571 --> 08:51.447 Great. 08:53.950 --> 08:56.410 Well, I talked to your boy Marty. 08:57.203 --> 09:02.250 And we were able to find an elegant yet reasonably priced urn. 09:02.333 --> 09:06.921 And I don't know how we're gonna get by without the $300 platinum wreath easel, 09:07.004 --> 09:08.798 but I think we'll figure it out. 09:08.881 --> 09:10.675 You know, you didn't have to do that. 09:10.758 --> 09:13.636 I mean, just because I didn't do it the way you wanted. 09:13.719 --> 09:17.139 It's not the way I wanted, Jack. You didn't do it. 09:17.223 --> 09:19.433 Hey, why are you attacking me right now? 09:19.517 --> 09:22.478 Huh? Whatever happened to, "This is what marriage is." 09:22.562 --> 09:24.564 "We get through the bad times together"? 09:24.647 --> 09:29.235 Well, Jack, when one person is consistently generating the bad times… 09:29.318 --> 09:31.904 Like, why would you tell Ginny she could speak? 09:31.988 --> 09:34.907 Hey, sorry to interrupt. 09:34.991 --> 09:37.076 -Oh, hi, honey. -It's your room, kiddo. 09:37.159 --> 09:38.869 I just need to grab my toothbrush. 09:38.953 --> 09:41.831 -Yes, go for it. -Gotta get those teeth cleaned. 09:42.415 --> 09:44.709 -Sure you don't want your room back, Lila? -Yeah. 09:44.792 --> 09:47.461 Oh, no, no, no. I'm good with Mom. Good night. 09:48.546 --> 09:49.380 Good night. 09:50.631 --> 09:53.467 You know, I-I'm glad that I told Ginny she could speak. 09:53.551 --> 09:57.179 Yeah, I felt bad for her. You couldn't use one of her pictures? 09:57.263 --> 09:59.640 Did you think a picture of Nick at Cirque du Soleil 09:59.724 --> 10:03.603 with a visible erection was good for a slideshow that his child will see? 10:03.686 --> 10:05.271 -No. -No. 10:05.354 --> 10:08.524 Well, then you could have been the one to tell Ginny her pictures were bad. 10:08.608 --> 10:10.443 You could have been the one to ask Anne. 10:10.526 --> 10:13.738 But you didn't do it because you've gotta always be the good guy. 10:13.821 --> 10:15.656 And you know, that only leaves one other part. 10:16.699 --> 10:18.492 Sorry. I just need to get my book. 10:18.993 --> 10:20.494 You sure you don't want to sleep here? 10:20.578 --> 10:23.956 -We can sleep anywhere. On the roof. -We can sleep anywhere. Yeah. 10:27.209 --> 10:30.755 I just wish for once you would give me the benefit of the doubt. 10:30.838 --> 10:33.299 -All right? You never trust me. -Yeah, you know why? 10:33.382 --> 10:35.635 Because when I trust you, you screw it up, 10:35.718 --> 10:38.179 and it makes more work for me, so I'm done. 10:38.262 --> 10:42.141 I'm not cleaning up your messes anymore, and you can talk to her in the morning. 10:44.685 --> 10:46.604 God, you can be really mean sometimes. 10:46.687 --> 10:50.066 Well, if I'm so awful, why don't you call your buddies at LegalZoom? 11:03.788 --> 11:06.332 You did so much this week. I know Anne appreciates it. 11:06.415 --> 11:08.751 Well, Nick deserves a nice send-off. 11:13.839 --> 11:15.216 Oh, I see someone. 11:15.966 --> 11:17.635 Hi, we're here for the funeral. 11:17.718 --> 11:19.136 Oh, yes, ma'am. 11:19.220 --> 11:21.263 We will be your attendants on this somber occasion. 11:21.347 --> 11:24.433 -Uh, our condolences for your loss. -Condolences. 11:25.643 --> 11:27.478 Is there a reason the door is locked? 11:27.561 --> 11:30.064 Yeah, I-- I believe you told my father, 11:30.147 --> 11:33.359 uh, you didn't want the private family visitation hour? 11:33.943 --> 11:35.111 Wait, one sec. 11:36.654 --> 11:39.407 Uh, would you guys prefer to stand inside? 11:40.866 --> 11:42.618 Yeah, we'd prefer that. 11:48.207 --> 11:49.417 Why is nothing set up? 11:49.500 --> 11:52.461 Oh, no, uh, that is the main chapel. 11:52.545 --> 11:55.965 As requested, your service has been set up in the bereavement zone. 11:59.677 --> 12:00.761 Ugh. 12:02.680 --> 12:05.474 I think this is sort of what Marty was talking about. 12:12.231 --> 12:13.190 -Hi. -Hi. 12:15.901 --> 12:16.777 Oh. 12:21.073 --> 12:22.575 -Hey. -Hi. 12:23.659 --> 12:24.994 How are you holding up? 12:25.953 --> 12:26.912 I'm okay. 12:26.996 --> 12:27.830 Yeah. 12:27.913 --> 12:29.123 Thank you for asking. 12:29.665 --> 12:30.499 Yeah. 12:33.794 --> 12:35.045 -So, listen. -Hmm? 12:35.921 --> 12:37.381 -Kate and I were talking. -Yeah. 12:37.465 --> 12:41.051 And I know you were a little "anti" on the whole Ginny speaking thing. 12:41.135 --> 12:42.595 Why are we still discussing this? 12:43.637 --> 12:44.972 I mean, uh, okay. 12:45.681 --> 12:48.184 Look. Full disclosure, I fucked up. 12:48.267 --> 12:50.394 -Mm! -I mean, I told Ginny she could speak. 12:50.478 --> 12:51.312 No! 12:51.395 --> 12:53.731 -If there's any way that you'd consider-- -No! 12:53.814 --> 12:58.110 I am done being generous about this. Let me have one fucking boundary. 12:58.194 --> 12:59.069 Look, I mean… 12:59.153 --> 13:03.908 This has to be his real family. Not the girl he happened to be dating. 13:03.991 --> 13:07.077 Well, I mean, I think she meant more to him than that. 13:07.161 --> 13:09.079 They spent most of the past year together. 13:09.163 --> 13:11.207 Well, there was one year he was really into judo. 13:11.290 --> 13:13.125 Should we ask Sensei Steve to speak? 13:14.585 --> 13:15.628 I don't think so. 13:15.711 --> 13:17.046 We were married. 13:17.129 --> 13:19.423 We had a child. We had a whole life together. 13:19.507 --> 13:22.259 It's not the same. You know it's not the same. 13:23.260 --> 13:25.429 She does not deserve to be up there with me. 13:26.764 --> 13:29.433 Yeah. Yeah, I was just, like, quadruple-checking. 13:29.517 --> 13:31.519 Because we're on the same page. Yeah. 13:39.735 --> 13:40.861 Hey, Kate. 13:41.862 --> 13:42.738 Hi. 13:42.822 --> 13:43.739 Um… 13:44.323 --> 13:47.326 I was just wondering when I should go up to speak. 13:47.409 --> 13:48.869 Did Jack not talk to you? 13:51.163 --> 13:52.665 Right. Um… 13:54.124 --> 13:57.711 So, Anne was feeling that maybe smaller is better. 13:58.504 --> 14:00.047 You know, it's a family thing, and… 14:01.131 --> 14:04.843 So, Anne will be the only one to speak. 14:06.720 --> 14:10.683 But Anne didn't even really know Nick anymore. 14:10.766 --> 14:13.894 Ginny, Anne was married to Nick for 25 years. 14:13.978 --> 14:15.271 Well, it doesn't matter. 14:15.354 --> 14:17.147 An eternity with the wrong person 14:17.231 --> 14:19.567 is worth less than a moment with your soulmate. 14:20.150 --> 14:21.318 A soulmate, yeah. 14:23.946 --> 14:26.907 I know that the eight months you had with Nick 14:26.991 --> 14:30.077 feels like the main event of your life. 14:30.160 --> 14:32.037 But one day, hopefully, 14:32.538 --> 14:34.957 you will be married to someone for 25 years 14:35.040 --> 14:38.502 and this will all be just a blip. 14:39.545 --> 14:40.462 A blip? 14:40.546 --> 14:42.798 A… A beautiful blip. 14:42.882 --> 14:46.302 But I'm just saying you have your whole life ahead of you. 14:53.017 --> 14:54.852 -Thanks. -Excuse me. 14:57.146 --> 15:00.649 Uh, we're ready to begin. Would you like me to carry this? 15:00.733 --> 15:01.901 Or would you like to place it? 15:02.651 --> 15:03.485 What is that? 15:04.320 --> 15:05.821 Uh, this is the deceased. 15:08.532 --> 15:10.784 -Why is it a shoe? -This is the one you ordered. 15:11.368 --> 15:12.911 Number 619, Sheer Elegance. 15:12.995 --> 15:14.830 No, but it's not an urn shape. 15:14.914 --> 15:17.374 I mean, you have to warn someone if it's not an urn shape. 15:17.458 --> 15:19.418 What the fuck is that? 15:19.501 --> 15:21.003 Is that… Is that Nick? 15:21.086 --> 15:23.839 We're changing it. It's getting changed. We can change it, right? 15:23.923 --> 15:25.716 Honestly, that's a question for my father. 15:25.799 --> 15:28.469 And, uh, when he heard this funeral was gonna be so small, 15:28.552 --> 15:30.554 he headed back to his fishing cabin upstate. 15:30.638 --> 15:33.432 Oh, good for Marty. He showed me pics. Yeah. 15:34.308 --> 15:35.267 All right, Kyler. 15:35.351 --> 15:37.436 -Let's get the show on the road. -Really? 15:39.521 --> 15:42.358 I just had a real fun conversation with Ginny, so thanks a lot. 15:42.441 --> 15:45.319 Ginny? I thought you said I was supposed to talk to Anne. 15:46.945 --> 15:49.114 Fuck… me! 15:49.198 --> 15:50.366 Well… 15:55.537 --> 15:57.539 Okay, as soon as you're ready to start. 15:57.623 --> 15:59.166 And, uh, one thing. 15:59.249 --> 16:01.251 The urn is temp. 16:02.211 --> 16:03.712 Is it a stripper's shoe? 16:03.796 --> 16:07.675 Yes, but again, it is temp, and it will be fixed tomorrow. 16:07.758 --> 16:09.468 Okay? So… 16:10.552 --> 16:12.137 Okay, Annie. 16:24.983 --> 16:26.110 Hi. 16:28.362 --> 16:32.116 We are here today to celebrate someone we all loved. 16:32.199 --> 16:34.034 Nicholas Pagano. 16:34.118 --> 16:35.077 Our Nick. 16:36.578 --> 16:41.875 When Nick and I first started dating, he asked me to help him buy some art. 16:42.418 --> 16:46.380 And when I asked him what kind, he said, "Whatever is classiest." 16:47.548 --> 16:50.926 And I told him that art should make you feel something. 16:51.760 --> 16:56.557 So we went to about ten galleries, but nothing popped. 16:57.641 --> 16:59.977 Then later, we found a street artist, 17:00.060 --> 17:03.355 and Nick insisted that we get our caricature done. 17:04.481 --> 17:09.695 He looked at it, him on a motorcycle, me in the sidecar, 17:10.237 --> 17:13.657 and he said, "Now, this makes me feel something." 17:14.950 --> 17:17.953 So, for two decades, 17:18.037 --> 17:21.707 that very classy piece of art has been hanging in our apart-- 17:21.790 --> 17:24.626 His apart-- Well, it was his apartment. 17:27.337 --> 17:28.964 He probably took it down anyway. 17:34.261 --> 17:39.892 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. It's very complicated… talking about him. 17:41.060 --> 17:43.270 On one hand, I have all these beautiful memories 17:43.353 --> 17:46.106 of our life together, and on the other, he did tell me he was leaving me 17:46.190 --> 17:48.734 while waiting for the claims adjuster to inspect our exploded shed. 17:50.652 --> 17:53.238 I knew him so well, and yet I really didn't know him at all. 17:54.448 --> 17:56.658 Like, I didn't know that he liked Monkey Pussy. 17:56.742 --> 17:57.743 "Mannequin." 17:58.327 --> 17:59.536 Yeah, okay, great. 18:01.580 --> 18:04.291 Seems like Ol' Divorcio may have bitten off more than she could chew. 18:06.460 --> 18:09.797 So maybe somebody else should do this. 18:13.717 --> 18:18.597 Claude, you had something you wanted to share about a mug or something. 18:18.680 --> 18:19.515 Oh. 18:22.851 --> 18:23.769 Sure. 18:29.108 --> 18:29.942 Thank you, Anne. 18:33.028 --> 18:36.990 Our dear friend Nick is now a butterfly. 18:48.669 --> 18:51.004 Okay, Lila and Beth made their train. 18:51.088 --> 18:52.130 Oh, good. 18:55.717 --> 18:56.844 Where should I put it? 19:03.350 --> 19:06.019 You know, every funeral has its hiccups. 19:06.103 --> 19:09.064 All in all, I think we gave our buddy a nice send-off. 19:09.565 --> 19:12.067 -I hope so. -Yeah, I think you're right. 19:12.150 --> 19:14.820 Oh my God, are you people crazy? 19:14.903 --> 19:16.113 Excuse me? 19:16.196 --> 19:19.408 I'm serious, on what planet was that an actually good funeral? 19:19.491 --> 19:22.578 Like, do you honestly think that letting me speak for a second 19:22.661 --> 19:25.414 would have been worse than whatever the fuck that was? 19:25.497 --> 19:26.331 -Wow. -Ginny… 19:26.415 --> 19:28.167 No, I am so sick of this, okay? 19:28.250 --> 19:30.669 You can throw my photos in the trash, 19:30.752 --> 19:33.213 you can forget my Burning Man goggles at home, 19:33.297 --> 19:37.134 you can all treat me like I am a child, but it was not a blip. 19:38.927 --> 19:41.972 Nick and I were building a real, real life together. 19:45.934 --> 19:47.352 I need some air. 19:47.978 --> 19:48.812 Ginny, wait. 19:48.896 --> 19:51.815 I said I need some air. Is that okay, or do you need to clear it with Kate? 19:54.735 --> 19:57.154 That felt hurtful and accurate. 20:01.825 --> 20:03.160 Ginny's still not answering. 20:03.243 --> 20:04.745 It's starting to get dark out. 20:04.828 --> 20:08.248 Is there someone we can call to find her, like a lake ranger or something? 20:08.332 --> 20:10.709 -No, we have to go look for her. -Okay. 20:10.792 --> 20:13.962 Not you, though, Anne. You've already been through enough today. 20:14.046 --> 20:15.297 -You okay? -Yeah. 20:20.469 --> 20:21.887 Don't be mad at me. 20:21.970 --> 20:24.181 Anne asked me to speak. I… 20:24.264 --> 20:26.767 Just because you don't believe that Nick's a butterfly, that-- 20:26.850 --> 20:27.935 No, I don't. 20:28.018 --> 20:30.520 And I kept telling you that, but you kept saying it anyway. 20:30.604 --> 20:32.898 Claude, you never give me space to feel what I'm feeling. 20:32.981 --> 20:35.442 Of course I want you to feel. That's all I ever want. 20:35.525 --> 20:37.819 No, no, no, no. You want me to feel good. And happy. 20:37.903 --> 20:40.989 And when I don't, you say some stupid bullshit about our friend being a bug. 20:41.073 --> 20:43.825 -It's not bullshit. It's beautiful. -What if I had died? 20:44.660 --> 20:46.745 Would you go around telling everybody I was a fucking bird? 20:47.788 --> 20:49.873 I feel like you're off in Nonsense World, 20:50.374 --> 20:52.793 and I'm facing all of this completely alone! 20:54.294 --> 20:58.215 A horrible thing happened to our friend, and it was random and meaningless, 20:58.298 --> 20:59.925 so stop trying to make meaning out of it. 21:02.135 --> 21:06.348 I don't want to hear, "No, it's okay, he's not really gone," because he is. 21:06.431 --> 21:08.141 He's not a butterfly. He's dead. 21:08.642 --> 21:11.061 And it's not beautiful or part of a greater plan. 21:11.979 --> 21:13.272 It's just sad! 21:16.525 --> 21:18.193 So let me just feel sad. 21:25.158 --> 21:26.827 Maybe he's not a butterfly. 21:30.122 --> 21:30.998 No. 21:32.666 --> 21:33.834 Maybe he is. 21:37.796 --> 21:38.797 Let's just walk. 21:44.094 --> 21:45.137 Ginny! 21:50.058 --> 21:50.934 Ginny! 21:55.230 --> 21:56.898 Oh, wait! Over there! 22:00.485 --> 22:01.403 Hey, Ginny! 22:02.070 --> 22:03.989 We're super sorry about before! 22:04.072 --> 22:04.906 Ginny? 22:07.576 --> 22:09.244 Oh, wait, it's just a deer. 22:13.248 --> 22:14.082 Ginny! 22:14.916 --> 22:18.378 Wait, is this one of those umbrella decorations that Anne put on the-- 22:18.462 --> 22:20.255 Wait, wait, wait, are we on the lake? 22:20.339 --> 22:21.715 Is this ice? Are we on ice? 22:22.966 --> 22:24.176 Oh my God, I hear a crack! 22:24.259 --> 22:27.137 -It's cracking! -Calm down, it's probably one inch deep! 23:24.694 --> 23:25.570 Thanks. 23:41.545 --> 23:42.629 I'm sorry, Ginny. 23:43.463 --> 23:45.090 I should've let you speak. 23:47.008 --> 23:48.009 Why didn't you? 23:49.719 --> 23:51.138 I guess I was just… 23:52.514 --> 23:53.348 scared… 23:54.391 --> 23:56.017 that if you said something good, 23:56.101 --> 23:58.812 it would mean 25 years of my life wasn't real. 24:04.401 --> 24:06.361 Also, I wanted to punish him one last time. 24:07.696 --> 24:08.530 Fuck. 24:09.656 --> 24:12.159 I knew he'd want you to speak, and I squelched it. 24:12.868 --> 24:15.829 Anne, I only wanted to say something good because… 24:19.875 --> 24:21.501 …because we were in a fight. 24:25.797 --> 24:26.965 It's okay. 24:30.177 --> 24:31.470 Try to stop crying. 24:34.598 --> 24:37.267 The only reason he was even at that grocery store 24:37.350 --> 24:38.935 is because I was mad at him. 24:41.980 --> 24:44.357 Maybe we weren't as happy as I thought we were. 24:49.487 --> 24:51.031 Maybe it was just a blip. 24:51.114 --> 24:51.948 Ha. 24:54.284 --> 24:55.160 No. 24:57.287 --> 24:58.663 I saw your photos. 25:00.248 --> 25:03.084 There were a lot of exposed armpits and belly buttons, 25:03.168 --> 25:06.338 and one where the tip of his penis may have edged its way into frame. 25:06.421 --> 25:07.505 Oh, God. 25:08.089 --> 25:09.299 He was happy, Ginny. 25:11.134 --> 25:12.844 As happy as I've ever seen him. 25:14.221 --> 25:15.096 The fucker. 25:15.764 --> 25:16.932 -Really? -Mm. 25:20.268 --> 25:23.438 So, come on, let's go inside. It's freezing out here. 25:23.522 --> 25:24.689 Yeah. 25:31.154 --> 25:34.783 Um, actually, while I have you… 25:39.037 --> 25:40.956 Jack! Help me! Ah! 25:41.039 --> 25:42.958 What is that? Is that Kate? 25:43.041 --> 25:44.292 I can't touch the bottom! 25:45.835 --> 25:48.547 -What the hell are you guys doing? -Danny, help! 25:49.297 --> 25:51.716 No, don't! It'll break! All right? 25:51.800 --> 25:52.801 -Please. -Okay. 25:52.884 --> 25:55.595 Okay, look. You gotta focus on me, got it? 25:55.679 --> 25:56.638 -Okay. -Okay. 25:56.721 --> 26:00.392 I'm gonna pull you out on three. One, two, three! 26:09.317 --> 26:10.777 Fuck, how do we get off? 26:10.860 --> 26:11.736 Whoa, whoa, wait! 26:11.820 --> 26:13.530 Okay, in the Battle of Austerlitz, 26:13.613 --> 26:16.241 Napoleon drew Russian forces onto a frozen lake. 26:16.324 --> 26:18.493 Please stop teaching me and tell me what we're doing here! 26:18.577 --> 26:21.871 We gotta make ourselves as long as possible and roll off. 26:21.955 --> 26:23.206 No, that doesn't make any sense. 26:23.290 --> 26:26.042 We have to run real fast, like those lizards that can run on water. 26:26.126 --> 26:27.919 No, you have to trust me. 26:30.463 --> 26:32.257 -Okay. -Okay. 26:32.340 --> 26:35.719 Make yourself long like a tube. Come on! Tube yourself, Kate. 26:35.802 --> 26:37.304 What are they doing? 26:38.555 --> 26:41.600 It's like Napoleon! I finished the book. 26:41.683 --> 26:42.809 Tube! 26:42.892 --> 26:44.227 -Tube! -Tube! Tube! 26:44.311 --> 26:46.730 I am! Jesus! 26:49.524 --> 26:50.900 Oh my God! 26:50.984 --> 26:52.694 Oh, you saved us! 26:53.278 --> 26:54.362 We could've died! 27:06.249 --> 27:07.208 Nick died. 27:09.419 --> 27:11.629 Oh, honey, yeah. 27:13.256 --> 27:15.008 -Nick died, yeah. -Kate? 27:15.091 --> 27:16.843 -It's okay. -Kate. Oh God. 27:17.552 --> 27:18.386 Oh! 27:19.220 --> 27:20.138 It's Nick. 27:23.099 --> 27:23.933 Okay. 27:27.020 --> 27:27.854 It's okay. 27:29.648 --> 27:30.982 It's gonna be okay. 27:33.068 --> 27:35.487 No, it won't. It's terrible. 27:37.238 --> 27:38.323 It's terrible. 27:45.330 --> 27:46.748 Oh, you're still so cold. 27:46.831 --> 27:47.999 I'm still so cold. 27:48.083 --> 27:49.125 Here, here. 27:49.209 --> 27:50.877 That shower did not help at all. 27:51.503 --> 27:53.963 -I'm gonna wrap you up like a burrito. -Okay. 27:54.047 --> 27:56.049 Yeah, okay. I want to be a burrito, please. 27:56.132 --> 27:58.218 Let's go. 27:58.301 --> 28:00.637 Here we go. Take that right there. 28:00.720 --> 28:02.263 Shit, Christ. 28:02.347 --> 28:04.099 -Here, lie down. -I wanna go over here. 28:04.849 --> 28:06.059 Okay. Over there. 28:07.560 --> 28:09.813 There you go. I'm gonna tuck you in. 28:09.896 --> 28:11.898 How is this? 28:14.484 --> 28:18.822 I really hate to say this, but could you lay on top of me? 28:18.905 --> 28:19.823 Yeah, yeah. 28:22.283 --> 28:23.159 How's this? 28:26.579 --> 28:27.956 I'm really sorry. 28:28.623 --> 28:31.418 I should've listened to you. To you and Marty. 28:31.501 --> 28:33.795 No, look, you were right yesterday. 28:34.295 --> 28:35.964 We just need to push through. 28:36.715 --> 28:40.802 Because that's what marriage is, right? It's-- It's work and it's dedication. 28:40.885 --> 28:44.013 It's a decision you have to make every single day. 28:44.097 --> 28:45.473 No, that's stupid. 28:45.557 --> 28:48.518 It's just, you're my soulmate. 29:04.617 --> 29:07.620 Okay, show of hands. Who wants to stay married? 29:11.416 --> 29:15.044 Uh, looks like I'll have to log back on to LegalZoom? 29:15.128 --> 29:17.297 -No! -What? How dare you? 29:17.380 --> 29:21.050 I'm sorry, but we need an official hand raised to stay married. 29:21.134 --> 29:23.052 -Give me one second, it's coming! -No! 29:26.931 --> 29:28.641 There we go. 29:28.725 --> 29:30.560 -That counts. -That counts. 29:44.240 --> 29:45.116 What? 29:46.367 --> 29:48.411 I know I can be too much sometimes. 29:49.329 --> 29:50.205 Oh… 29:51.331 --> 29:52.791 No, you're not. 29:52.874 --> 29:53.958 No? 29:54.042 --> 29:56.085 You're the exact right amount. 30:00.381 --> 30:01.674 Okay. 30:01.758 --> 30:04.344 What? Now, uh, stir for me. 30:04.427 --> 30:05.386 All right. 30:05.470 --> 30:07.764 Where does this woman keep her cumin? 30:10.433 --> 30:13.436 Huh, she's got some spices here next to a water bottle. 30:13.520 --> 30:14.479 Hmm. 30:14.979 --> 30:16.272 And… 30:16.898 --> 30:19.734 Oh, she's got spices next to a flashlight. 30:32.580 --> 30:34.958 -It's my grandma's recipe. -It's really good. 30:36.167 --> 30:37.502 That is good. 30:37.585 --> 30:39.671 -We did good. -You did well. 30:39.754 --> 30:41.130 And very fast. 30:41.214 --> 30:42.423 Thank you so much. 30:42.507 --> 30:43.800 Mm. Mm. 30:44.551 --> 30:45.760 -Ginny? -Mm-hmm? 30:46.761 --> 30:49.556 If you wanted, you could read what you wrote. 30:50.932 --> 30:52.016 Only if you want to. 30:55.895 --> 30:56.729 Sure. 30:57.772 --> 30:58.731 Okay, thanks. 30:59.816 --> 31:01.192 Um… 31:02.068 --> 31:04.904 "Nick once said my personality was buttered toast." 31:04.988 --> 31:09.200 "If I'm buttered toast, Nick was a Greek omelet." 31:09.284 --> 31:12.203 "Hearty and nutritious, but full of surprises." 31:12.287 --> 31:14.497 Wow, this was gonna be really bad too, wasn't it? 31:14.581 --> 31:16.207 No. 31:16.291 --> 31:19.544 It's okay. It should not be just one person's job to remember someone. 31:19.627 --> 31:21.838 It would take all of you to remember me. 31:21.921 --> 31:23.006 All of you, plus-- 31:23.089 --> 31:25.466 Please do not talk about your other hotter friend group. 31:25.550 --> 31:28.052 -It hurts my feelings. -I know, but they're so hot. 31:28.136 --> 31:32.140 You know what we should do next year? We should take a trip in Nick's honor. 31:32.223 --> 31:33.224 -Oh, yes! -Yes! 31:33.308 --> 31:36.644 I know he always wanted to go to Montana to go fly-fishing. 31:36.728 --> 31:38.521 -Fuck that. -Boo! 31:38.605 --> 31:40.398 No, you know, he wanted to do it! 31:40.481 --> 31:42.525 We should go to Iceland to see the northern lights 31:42.609 --> 31:44.110 because he would never let us do that. 31:44.193 --> 31:48.656 He was always like, "I'm not freezing my ass off to go see God's screen saver." 31:48.740 --> 31:51.451 -He would hate it. -Hey, how about a little toast? 31:51.534 --> 31:54.704 -Okay. With this? -Pass these around for me, please. 31:54.787 --> 31:55.663 My love. 31:55.747 --> 31:57.540 -Here you go. -Amore. 31:57.624 --> 31:58.499 Grazie. 32:00.293 --> 32:04.881 Nick loved his friends, his family, and Scotch, 32:04.964 --> 32:07.550 the most disgusting drink on planet Earth. 32:08.843 --> 32:10.678 -To Nick. -To Nick. 32:12.597 --> 32:14.349 -Cheers. -Cheers. 32:16.017 --> 32:17.685 -To Nick. -To Nick. 32:17.769 --> 32:18.895 Mm… 32:21.606 --> 32:22.482 Ew. 32:22.565 --> 32:23.608 Ooh! 32:29.656 --> 32:30.490 Yeah. 32:32.075 --> 32:33.284 She's pregnant. ck.